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Heyz itz Adrienne here.. Well i just started this funk haha lol so yea. Uhmm I've given alot of advice to friendz//been given alot of advice by friends so i think i could help you with the answers you're looking for. I'm in middle school and i love listenin to music, swimmin, AIM, cheerleading, and idk wat else lol but yea if ya wanna know more ask!! xox Adrienne
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Age: 13
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Member Since: July 25, 2005
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Last Update: August 10, 2005
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Ok.. this has been buggin me alot lately.. I'm 14/f, and I have never had a b/f. I know that my time will conme and everything, and Ijust have to wait. But, what bugs me is that I know I'm not gorgeous, or really skinny or anything, but I see girls who are a heck of alot uglier, and bigger than me who have b/f's, so it just makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, cause they can get b/f's and I can't. So, I know my time will come, but, my main question is how are people gettin b/fs when they are so ugly and fat, and the normal girls dont? I rate 5's!!! Thanks!! (link)
Well it all depends on the guy .. its what hes lookin for in a gurl nd it may not be just looks even tho it mostly is but i would just find a guy that was lookin for some or all of tha things you have nd see how it goes.. but yes your time will come nd its probably better to wait till you're older cus hopefully boys will be more mature at 14+ nd you have less chance of gettin your heartbroken over stupid reasons. Hope I helped please rate me


Hey I know how to put music in the darkplayer and i know how to put the darkplayer on my xanga but does anybody knoe any really good xanga music sites?? With all the codes working because right now I'm having trouble finding codes that work
I RATE 5's (link)
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=musicURL
hope i helped please rate me


does anyone know who sings this song on bet

it goes make her feel good or something? (link)
MAKE HER FEEL GOOD --- TEIRRA MARI hope i helpedplease rate me


How do I make my ex-boyfriend jaulose so he would come back to me? or should I just want untill he comes to me what should I do help. (link)
To make him jealous flirt with other guys nd junk or personally i would just wait. Hope I helped please rate me


My names danny, and im a guy. im 14 years old. theres been this girl i like, her names sami, and i liked her since i met her, and its been more than a year. we've hung out alot and she has said she liked me alot too. we've made out and just acted like a couple alot. i know i'm in love with her, and she has had different boyfriends even though she says she has these feelings for me. i've asked her why we never go out, and she says she doesnt want to hurt me. why would she not want to hurt her bf's? i know we'll eventually go out, but idk what else to say. she knows how i feel about her and she still has a different bf. and she still has feelings for me. i dont want to tell her its too late when she wants to go out.. but i might have to. whats your opinion? thank you :) (link)
alright well if the girl likes you then she'll go out with you but it doesn't seem likes that happenin so i would open ur options to other girls until she finally decides she wants to be with you and you really need to make sure she wouldnt cheat on you since she's cheatin on her bf wit you ya know. Hope I helped please rate me


I had my period since I was 11 (5th grade) and now I'm 15 (10th grade) and my period STILL isn't regular. However I get it usually every 21 days/3 weeks instead of the normal woman's cycle - 28 days/4 weeks. But this time my period never came and it's been OVER 28 days which is unusual for me and probably other women too. Is it normal to get a period like over 28 days cause it's been 30 days since my last period. There's no way I'm pregnant, I did't change my diet and exercise, and I'm not stressed out. And say I go to the doctor/gyno. What can they do for me? (link)
mkay its perfectly normal for it to be irregular..it could take a REALLY long time for it to be regular and if you miss a month BE HAPPY there's nothing wrong with you.. enjoy tha month off lol hope i helped please rate me


okay, so my soccer team is having a pool party and the boys team will be there too (varsity, jv, and freshman teams for both the girls and guys) and its on the 7th. i'd like to get in the pool, or atleast in my bathing suit, but i shaved everywhere down there one time and i got really bad razor burn and it itched and was so irritating for ever! my mom and i dont have that kid of relationship where i can just be like "hey i'd like a bikin wax take me to get one please" and i dont know of anyone who could take me to get one, so how i could i "clean up" down there and get rid of some hair on the edges so it wont stick out when i'm swimming? thanks for any help you're able to give. 14/f (link)
get a waxing kit from tha store or try nair..its painless hope i helped please rate me


if you run your hand over my cheek, you'll feel little bumps...what are those? i rate high (link)
most likely its pimples//zitz//acne.. you could get cream to put on them to hopefully make them go away.. get it from a drugstore or if its really bad go to a doctor and they'll send you to a skin doctor. hope i helped plz rate me


i dont know what i'm suppose to call my sister in laws parents.. i mean i dont if i call them be mrs and mr.... or by first name? (link)
I would call them mr nd mrs.. hope i helped please rate


i had my period for about 3 months. i never told my mom because she died.. so now i have a step mom and we were never close. i was planning to wait until she asks me if i have it and then say yeah. but im afraid she'll never ask. if ur wondering how i get my pads i get them from my step sister. should i wait?? please help ASAP!! (link)
Mkay first off i'm sorry about your mom =[ ... yes you should tell her stepmom or actually get your stepsister to tell her .. it'll be easier.. Hope I helped =]


okay well this guy i really like is going out with the prettiest girl in my grade. He isn't a hottie or anything, but I've liked him since 6th grade, and I'm in 8th. The night she asked him out (at a school dance) I was going to work up enough nerve to ask him. I feel like, if I asked before her, he would have said yes; only because we are so close. I was up practically everynight i saw or even talked to him, thinking about him. I started cutting myself i liked him so much. I cut myself only to make myself stop thinking about him. But eventually it just got worse. I want to stop cutting myself, and start taking it like a normal person (link)
Mkay you DEFINITLY need to stop cutting. Thats horrible and it becomes a horrible habit. No guy is ever worth cutting. You need to tell him how you feel especially since yall are close and he'll probably understand and i'm not sayin that he'll break up with his gf now to go out with you but his relationship isnt gonna last forever so i'm sure you'll have a chance. HOpe I helped =]


A guy came into my work the other day wearing a shirt that said "FUCO - For Us Crackers Only." I have a good friend that wears FUBU all the time, so it made me laugh, but I was too busy to ask him where he got it. Now I really want one for my husband, but I can't find it. I tried Google, but I didn't have any luck. Has anyone seen a shirt like this anywhere? (link)
Uhmm you could try ebay.com?? I dunno if they have one or not but its worth trying. Hope I helped =]


Long one get ready for it-

So I was out with a group of friends at a party and I had to wait for someone outside so I'm waiting and all of a sudden I hear the door slam and there's this guy Adam, and his friends locked him out of the house. So we sat out there for like twenty minutes talking waiting for his friedns to let him back in. And he was pretty cool, so after the party I'm standing with my friend Callie, Adam asks one of us to call him to see if his cell's working I don't have one so Callie does. They trade numbers and she eventually gets a crush on him(this is over 2 months or so). But then he tells her he's gay & of cousre she tells me, so they became just friends.

Then apparantly a month ago there was this girl and she "turned him straight." And now he's telling Callie he likes me, in her words "serious relationship likes you." And I don't know what to do. He's cool and all, but I'm not quite sure about the whole once gay thing, he claims he's not bi either. And also since he's not gay Callie seems to be a little jealous.... WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Oh yeah and I'm a fifteen year old doll. (link)
Well i can see your whole point on tha being gay thing because not many people wanna go out with someone after they've been gay. But if you truly likes you then i guess you could give it a shot IF you like him. If not i would just be really good friends.. gay guys do make good friends lol ;] hope i helped =]


my best friend who i love like a sister ran away today to MY house! i told her to go back. but she wouldnt. finally i got her to call her dad and then a police officer came to pick her up and bring her home. now her mom and dad hate me because they think i told her to come to my house. i wasnt expecting her at all!! one minute i was talking to her on AIM then her away message said out. wont be back any time soon. then i heard a knock. but how can i get *especially her mom* to like me again? HELP! any useless answers will recieve a 1. any good answers will recieve a 5. (link)
Mkay,. you need to try to talk to her parents and EXPLAIN that you had nothing whatsoever to do with you best friends runaway. You should also get your parents to try to talk to her parents. Thats about the only thing you can do in this case.. HOpe i helped =]


i think that i am starting to have feelings for my best guy friend. he seems flirty towards me but i dont know if it is cause he likes me or cause we are such good friends...i dont know what to do.
THANKS!! (link)
Mkay.. flirt back.. ask him to go to tha movies or mall or somewhere where yall can hang out together so you'll def. know whether he likes you or not. Hope I helped =]


Ok i've bin out with this boy 12 times I really love him and he told me that he wanted kids with me and that he loves me but recently his ex got jealous i bbroke up with him because me and his ex had an argument this caursed all my other mates to fall out with me now he's going back out with his other ex and has recently started being nasty to me I still really love him and can't stop thinking about him also i'm going out with someone else and he's threatened to beat them up if they don't dump me he thinks he can have as many people as he likes but just won't get off my case when I try so the question I want to ask is if you were me what would you do about this boy??? thankyou if you help i'll rate you high if not I won't rate you at all (link)
Mkay .. about your EX .. he needs to stop bein a douche and you should'nt have broken up with him even tho all of your other mates fell out. Don't worry about wat other people say//think and if they fell out b.c of your bf then they werent true friends//mates neway.. now about the current bf.If you really and truly don't like him then you need to break up with him since you're still in love with your EX.. it sounds like your current bf thinks hes tha shit threatening to beat people up for really no reason. so Hope I helped =]


I put eyeliner on the bottom lid. The pencil stuff smears so I decided to use liquid. Well with the liquid stuff, I put it on the skin-colored barrier between the skin and the red part right above the eyelash. Does liquid eyeliner ever dry? How long does it take to dry? (link)
Yes it does dry it just takes alot longer than regular eyeliner. Hope I helped =]


i'm in love with this guy that lives all the way across the country.. and now he keeps telling me to think realistically and that we're probably never going to meet. what should i do about this? i am also female and 15 years of age, and i live in pennsylvania. and he is 18, and lives in california. (link)
Mkay chances are you probably won't meet each other.. I'd just leave him be for now since hes in cali and ur in penns and hes 3yrs older than you.. you're pretty much a minor to him so even if you did date right now or w.e it would be illegal and hes probably doin his own thing in cali. Your best bet would be to find someone else. Hope I helped =]


okay i need advice, my best firend stephen( he is a he) and i, got in a fight and he is pissed at me and everything. well he is pissed at me bc is bro's firend put a stupied thought in is head that i used him but i didn't and now we r not talking. i called once after we got into the fight and said "sorry about this and i hope we can be firneds again" but it didn't work :[ but he also likes me more then a friend and i have a boyfriend.
sincerely,confused friend
p.s i'm a girl (link)
Mkay you need to try to talk to him as much as possible and tell him that yall need to talk to try to settle this. Now tha part about him likin likin you.. do u like him? well neway he's gotta understand you have a boyfriend and that yall should just be friends for right now. Hope I helped =]


Umm Ok, I play Basketball and Softball and I love them both but I also wanted to try Soccer...I know how to play a little bit but I don't know the postions, or the rules does anybody have any good websites or know all that stuff??? And do you think I should try out next year? I have to admit I'm A little nervous (link)
http://www.labalon.com/basic-soccer-rules.html#Basic%20Soccer%20Rules

that website should help wit your problem and YES you should try out and dont be nervous. Hope I helped =]




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