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Ok.. this has been buggin me alot lately.. I'm 14/f, and I have never had a b/f. I know that my time will conme and everything, and Ijust have to wait. But, what bugs me is that I know I'm not gorgeous, or really skinny or anything, but I see girls who are a heck of alot uglier, and bigger than me who have b/f's, so it just makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, cause they can get b/f's and I can't. So, I know my time will come, but, my main question is how are people gettin b/fs when they are so ugly and fat, and the normal girls dont? I rate 5's!!! Thanks!!
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I hate to be so blunt - but it's not always about looks. I know for damn sure, I'm not the prettiest girl in the world but I have a boyfriend who loves me for whats on the INSIDE. Sure, those girls could be easy, but they also could be great people under there looks. Just find a boyfriend who was a friend first, and then go from there. Your time will come. Trust me. Theres no need to be shallow.
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Be patient. I was there too and felt the same way. Good things come to those who wait...
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not to be rude or anything but it might how you act toward guys or gals
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Well it all depends on the guy .. its what hes lookin for in a gurl nd it may not be just looks even tho it mostly is but i would just find a guy that was lookin for some or all of tha things you have nd see how it goes.. but yes your time will come nd its probably better to wait till you're older cus hopefully boys will be more mature at 14+ nd you have less chance of gettin your heartbroken over stupid reasons. Hope I helped please rate me
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1st off- you are not ugly, fat, or anything of the sort! its probably just b/c you are shy or not very open to guys- try flirting more and being very outgoing..this usually attracts guys. if there is a certin guy you like and you know him- try setting up a hang out with just the 2 of you so he can get to know the real you- if it turns out that he likes you he will ask you out and u know the rest- but yeah just basicly just try to make your self more open and out there just not in a bad or discusting way
sometimes the more unnatractive girls get guys because they are so desperate that they will do anything- they might even stoop so low that its considered slutty...
dont worry the right guy will come :)
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muchh lovve ♥
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First off I have to say that just because you may consider someone fat and ugly doesn't mean everybody does. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. They don't get dates because they are good at sexual things either...what rubbish.What you look like doesn't make you normal by any stretch of the imagination. :)
A guy is going to go out with whoever they have something in common with. Whoever they feel comfortable being around. So you have to have a personality. You have to be able to talk about something besides the latest fashions and all the girl stuff.
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There is nothin wrong with you! And your right you do have to wait.But school is coming up and Im sure you will find a guy! Good luck!I hope i helped!IM me if needed Sportychicc9393
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A lot of girls have boyfriends just to have boyfriends. The right guy will come. All you have to do is wait for him. You could try talking to some guys & see if you have anything in common with them & maybe something will happen. Oh, & a lot of ugly or not so skinny girls get boyfriends because of either their personalities or they end up going out with one of their close guy friends. Atleast that's usually the case with people that I know. Don't worry - there's nothing wrong with you!
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don't worry about it.
just what quality of relationship do you think they are having? it won;t last forever. not even a few weeks
Most guys now a days have a number 1 priority which is sex. almost anything with a hole can qualify for them.( this explains why they may USE those girls)( and some girls just want it too!)
I don't think it is there personality.come on,if they were really friendly to everyone, they just don't have bfs.
a next factor, exactly what kind of boyfriend's do they have? I could bet they are not top of the line.
So just relax,
YOur boyfriend will come in time.
and I cuold bet it may be a good one too.
but think of it like fishing.
ugly girls use thier means as bait.they catch a certain type of fish(guys).
so do what you have to do.
Hope I helped.
(Usually not good with words)
Cj
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the ugly and fat girls are getting boyfriends because of they're personalities, normal girls do get boyfriends.. hmm.. just wait for the right guy =)... ♥ Brittany
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ahahaa.. omg, i know exactly what you mean. i think that the reason why very unattractive girls can get boyfriends is because they're so ugly and fat that they're desperate for anyone. i bet all their boyfriends are just as ugly and unattractive as them. ugly and fat people are very desperate because they know that no one sane will want them, so they try to date other people just as ugly so that they can feel "loved". my motto is, quality is always better than quality. which means that it's better to have a decent/good looking boyfriend who really cares about you instead of like 20 butt ugly guys that are desperate for anyone.
hope i helped :)
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To be honest, guys will just go out with an ugly/fat chick because they are good at sexual things. And another thing, guys are shallow and are assholes. Keep that in mind. For now, all I can tell you to do is keep an open mind, try not to be shy. Get out there, talk to guys flirt a little! Who knows, maybe you'll find a guy that likes you. But your time WILL come and you'll get a boyfriend. And I could totaly see why it's frustrating. Guys are just shallow and want some ass from anything that has boobs and a vagina,that's all. =) That's why they're with the ugly fat chicks. They just want some ASS. Now, you should at least be happy you aren't with a guy that's dating you for ass and that's it.
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The reason why a lot of those girls r w/ guys is because they either do stuff to them or the guy is using them. Know that there is a guy out there that will love you and be able to tend to your needs. Understand that you don't have to do stuff to guys or fake who you are to be with someone. You just keep being yourself. Don't try to please guys or fake who you are 2 be with them because you'll only end up being hurt and lonely.
-God Bless
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From past experience with guys and girls who can get boyfriends when I can't, this is the truth. Guys like girls who show their confidence and act like they can get any guy. I say, just let them know that you're worth it. Be bold, be honest, be you! Good luck! And trust me, boys are not the most important people ever!
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Other people maybe getting boyfriends no matter how they look. For some guys its all about looks and what the girl will do with them, other guys dont care about that. They prolly look for personality, its doesnt matter if they are really ugly in your eyes in his eyes she might be the most beutiful person ever. And your right your time will come and untill then just dont let it bug you. hope i helped! :-)
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