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Q: I finally have my first bf and Im embarrassed that I never had my first kiss yet. I don't know if we'll ever kiss but just in case.

My friend gave me a tip but it wasn't very helpful lol "it's like..eating an apple.."
ahaha i don't know who your friend's been kissing, but kissing is definitely NOT like eating an apple, that can actually hurt someone!!

it comes naturally, and it improves with practice. just be gentle and do whatever you feel is right. and dont worry, it's notthingg to be embarassed about =)

Q: I have a quick question ;; what are the measurements of people? I always see stuff on websites about how...say Carmen Electra is 36-23-35 . . .what are thjose numbers? How are they measured? MUCH LOVE. PEACE ♥
ooo.. this is in order, so.. it's chest(breasts), waist, and hips(which is basically the ass), and the measurements are usually in inches

Q: does anyone wanna list names they like?? it could be almost anything but no metal stuff. i'm not really into that. basically anything else is fine.

thanks!!
Down for Me, loon ft. mario winans
SouthSide, Lloyd ft. Ashanti
So Into You, Fabolous ft Ashanti or Tamia
Damn, Youngbloodz ft. Lil Jon and Sean Paul
We Be Burning, Sean Paul
Set it Out, PSC ft. TI
Oh, Ciara ft. Ludacris
Goodies (Remix), Ciara ft Petey Pablo and TI
I THink They Like Me, Dem Franchize Boyz ft. Jermain Dupri, Da Brat, and Bow Wow
Because of You, Kelly Clarkson
My Humps, The Black Eyed Peas
Okay, Nivea ft. Lil' Jon and Youngbloodz
Me, Myself, and I, Beyonce
Run It, CHris Brown
Only One, Yellow Card
If You Were Mine, Marcos Hernandez
It's Like That, Mariah Carey ft Fat Man Scoop and Jermaine Dupri

yaa.. i lovee these songs..

hope i helped :)

Q: who sings the song:

i love it when you call me big papa..


and whats the name of the song?
ooo that's a good songg.. pretty old though

"Big Poppa" from Notorius B.I.G

Q: hey
on my homeowrk i have to find the mean for a set of data. i forgot how to do this. does anyone kno?
the mean is basically just another for for the average. what you do is you add up all the numbers, and then divide the sum by the number of variables..
like if you did a survey where you asked 10 people how tall they were. let's just say that 4 people were 65 inches, 3 people were 61 inches, and 3 people were 68 inches. when you add up all the numbers, the total would be 647.. then you divide that number by the number of people, which is 10. so 647/10 would be 64.7, which means that the mean of the set of data is 64.7 inches.

hope i helped :)

Q: Hello. What do people mean, when they say "Im Rick James Bitch!"
lol, it doesnt mean anything... it's just really funny.. there was this extremely funny tv show on Comedy Central a few years ago called Chappelle's Show, starring Dave Chappelle. and the show would have show some skits, and there was this one skit that was like a story told by Eddie Murphy's brother, Charlie Murphy.. and he was telling this story about how like in the 80's, he and Rick James had some problems. and Rick James would always go like, "CHARLIE MURPHY!!" in this really funny way, and he would come out of nowhere and punch/hit charlie murphy by surprise for no reason, and rick james would always say, "I'm Rick James, bitch" yaa.. it's really funny, and that's where everyone got it from. they still have reruns of old episodes of the Chappelle's Show on comedy central.

Q: Ok so on vh1 they have alot of shows where they play music in the backround. But one of these songs I listen to and I want to download it really badly. I know this part, "It's my party so get fly if you like to." And thats it. And it's like killing me because I really want to listen to the full version so badly. It be much appreciated if you could tell me what song it is. If it helps its a rap song.

Thanks so much, Adrianna.
omg, i LOVE that song

it's called "This is my Party" from Fabolous.. i heard it on a tv show called, My Super Sweet Sixteen, on MTV, and i googled the lyrics, and got the info about the song..

hope i helped :)

Q: what does dousch mean? sorry i dont know how to spell it! But its pronouced like doosh. Thanks!
a douche is something a female uses to clean her vagina.. yaa.. pretty gross... but when someone calls another person a douche, they're basically saying that person is stupid and retarted.. lol

Q: what are some good ways to get rid of a pimple by tomorrow morning? it's the 1st day of school, & i don't want people noticing it! help. i'll rate high for non bullshit answers. thanks
omg, i can totally relate to you because the same thing happened right before my highschool orientation a week ago.

i suggest using oxy pads, and after applying that, use clearasil ultra acne treatment cream. and also use a good acne treatment cleanser/scrub in the shower, like st. ives medicated scrub for oily/acne prone skin. if the pimple is still visible tommorow morning, cover it up with a noncomedogenic concealer

hope i helped :)

Q: ok hears the deal, im 14 and a male, and im seein this girl, shes 20. and i dono if shes cheatin on me and i cant tell i really like her and one night i had sex wit her does anyone think that thats bad?
lol, she's not a girl, she's a woman. why're you even with someone that's 6 years older than you? it's kinda illegal for someone over 18 to be going out/having sex with someone under 18. if you really like her, then i think you should wait until it's legal for both of you to go out with each other, because if anyone ever finds out, she'll get locked up for a long time.
and she probably is cheating on you because she's 20 and you're only 14. a 20 year old woman needs a 20(or a little older) year old man. you're still a minor, you're still in middle/high school, you can't drive, you cant drink, you cant smoke, you cant vote, and you probably dont have a part time or steady job either.
you should definately find yourself a girl your own age.

Q: what is the difference between binging and purging? and also what is binge eating.
binging and binge eating are the same things. it means to eat a lot of food, like a period of eating excessively. and purging is to get rid of/purify.. and the most common way of purging is vomiting.

Q: My mom has this huge bump on the crease between her nostral and her face. It's about the size of an ususually large pimple and has a black dot on the top. Is it possibly a blackhead? It looks big for a blackhead. It's not red or anything.
yeaa.. it's probably a blackhead. they vary in sizes that range from very small, to gigantic. some are even bigger than pimples! what you should tell her to do is, after she takes a shower, when her pores are still open, pop the blackhead. it really works but if you pop it after your pores are closed, it's not going to work at all and it's just going to make it worse.. like it gives you a large brown dot..
the blackhead should go away in a few weeks or so.. but this strategy can make it go away a lot faster if you do it the right way

hope i helped :)

Q: what does it mean when some one asks you if you can lick your elbow ? im lost
umm when they ask if you can lick your elbow, they're asking if you can lick your elbow, lol.. it means exactly what it says. the answer's always no because no one can ever, ever lick their own elbow. and if you try to lick your elbow, it's just going to look really funny

Q: can some one give me some pics of destroyed jeans. ive been looking but my search hasnt been succesful. it would be sooo helpful. thanks a lot! bu bye
these are from abercrombie:

http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/onlinestore/collection/10730_07_f.jpg
http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/onlinestore/collection/11261_08_f.jpg
http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/onlinestore/collection/10716_06_f.jpg

these are from hollister

http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/images/store/collection/11990_01_f.jpg
http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/images/store/collection/12627_01_f.jpg
http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/images/store/collection/13374_01_f.jpg

and these are from american eagle

http://ae.speedera.net/Images/laydowns/front/1433_7400_918.jpg
http://ae.speedera.net/Images/laydowns/front/2431_7396_919.jpg
http://ae.speedera.net/Images/laydowns/front/1439_7344_917.jpg

Q: what is a REALLY GOOD face mask so my face is more clearer and causes less pimples? i need one that i can get at a store anywhere and is cheap. if you would tell me where i can get it and how much it is, that'll be awesome!
i also have queen helene mint julep mask, and i think it works pretty well.. it gets rid of blackheads, it tightens pores, and dries up acne pimples. it's VERY cheap.. i bought it for 2 dollars
i've also heard that the Neutrogena Oil-Free Acne Wash 60 Second Mask Scrub, Salicylic Acid Acne Treatment works great. i've never actually tried it though. it's like 7 dollars, i think it's an average price for an acne medication face mask because i've bought some face masks for like 12-16 dollars in the past.
and you should also try Phisoderm Clear Confidence Blemish Masque. That's like around 5 dollars.
and you can find all these products at Target,Walmart, walgreens, cvs, duane reade, rite aid, pharmacies.. etc..

hope i helped :)

Q: what does a tease mean?
a tease is a girl that likes to flirt a lot, and likes to lead guys on, but she's really just playing with their minds. she likes to make them think they have a chance with her, but they just end up feeling hurt and sorry for themselves.

you can go to urbandictionary.com for more thorough definition for the word :)

Q: ..Blowjob?
lol.. this must be the most straight forward question ever.
a blowjob's when a girl(it can also be a guy.. but i'm just gonna say a girl) sucks on a guy's penis for his pleasure. sometimes a girl uses her teeth during the process.. like softly scraping it against the guy's dick. and sometimes a girl hums(which makes her lips vibrate) while she's giving a guy a blowjob. that's called a hummer, and it feels better than just a normal blowjob. a girl usually stops after the guy cums(has his orgasm).. and she has to decide if she's going to swallow the sperm or spit it out.

yaa that's about it.. soo.. now you know :)

Q: well i tried xsao.net... but it wont work! and signingfish.com is up for sale so where can i listen 4 free?

i rate
www.launch.com lets you watch and listen to music videos for free, and http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Music_Galore is also a great source for free music.
you can also go to like mtv.com for some free music, and usually they have music videos on an artists' official website.

hope i helped :)

Q: ok this is gonna sound gross but i get REALLY bad pit stains and they are so embarassing! does any1 know any deoterant that gets rid of them besides secret b/c im alergic to that and dove b/c it doesnt work either...!

i'll rate all 5's to good answers!
i'm also allergic to secret(gave me a big rash.. gross) and i've used dove too.. i think it makes the skin feel really really soft, but it doesnt help much with the wetness.
i suggest Arrid Extra Dry. it really helps to keep your armpits dry. and i also suggest Degree. it helps me out a lot and it also smells awesome.

Q: I just did a survey and I seriously don't know...what the heck does 'cut some rug' mean? The question was "would you cut some rug with me?". Help please.

it means to dance really well to impress people.

if you want definitions to slangs, you should check out, urbandictionary.com

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hii, I'm Christina, 14, and I'm from Queens, NYC. I live near a huge mall, which is great becuz i lovee shopping. If anyone ever decides to visit nyc, let me know cuz i can tell you where the hottest places to go shopping are.
Music is a HUGE part in my life, I especially like rap and r&b. and TI's pretty hot too..
I lovee this site, and i go on it whenever i can. i cant say that i always give great advice, but atleast i try :)

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