My boyfriend of 5 months is having his birthday soon, and I'm really not sure what to get him. For my birthday, he got me a really pretty diamond heart bracelet, which I love. I don't have a job, but I hope to have one soon, but I really can't think of a nice gift. I was thinking like a scrapbook of things we've done, but I don't have too many pictures or anything, and I'd also like something he can use, that's thoughtful. Any ideas would be really appreciated!
Well, what about some sexy cologne? :) That will benefit both you and your boyfriend. I'm not really sure what your spending limit is but my boyfriend wears Vera Wang cologne and Calvin Klein Man, and they both smell really good. If you're not able to spend that much on cologne, you could always buy him like a couple things of Axe :) ! or...maybe if he wears hats, you could buy him a hat with his favorite team. Another good idea is to buy him something that relates to one of your inside jokes :) I really don't think he'll mind, as long as it's sweet, and he knows you put thought into it :D
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I am a 20 year old female who has been dating her b.f for a little over a year now. My parents(dad) (being European) however are a little overprotective. My question is how long do you have to be going out for it to be considered acceptable to go on a mini vacation somewhere(in a decent family perspective) . basically spend the night with your b.f? Thanks in advance
well, it sounds like it's the first time you're actually going to spend the night with your boyfriend. i really think you guys have been dating long enough that you two can go on a mini vacation. there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. there's really no set amount of time to be honest with you. since your family is overprotective, it's just something they'll just have to overcome and get used to. a year is perfectly fine though! good luck!
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is the contraceptive pill the same as "The Pill"(Birth control)
yup :) it's exact same thing!
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I've heard stories from several sources about "the evil mother-in law". I happen to have one, also...
Anyone have advice about how to deal with them?
And why does she succeed in making me so angry?
It's like she cares nothing about boundaries, etc.
Grrr...
I can't say I have this problem, but maybe I can help you.
[: if I were you, I'd kill them with kindness. surprise her with little random gifts that you KNOW she'll like, and she can't complain about it. I don't exactly recommend getting all angry with her, because that's not going to help anything.
SO, just kill her with kindness.
:D
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What is the best face wash to get rid of acne that isn't a set? Nothing like proactive...just a regular facewash I could get at a grocery store.
I highly recommend the Biore warming anti-blackhead cream cleanser. I know it says it's for blackheads, but it works really well. and if you want to, you could try and put some astringent on afterwards [:
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Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.
I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.
He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..
I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.
Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(
So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.
How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..
ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.
Thanks!
-AJ
PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade.
I think it sounds like you might be bisexual, being that you want to talk to him, and be with him, and you think he's gorgeous, and all that stuff. I'm not sure if this applies to guys, but let him come to you [; if you talk to him enough, he'll probably give you an occasional "hey! what's up!?" [: and all that jazz. chill with him, don't make it come off like you want anything more than a friendship. be like "hey man! we should hangout sometime" and like if you guys have anything in common you two could do that [: like uuum skateboarding? or something! or whatever you do! just do NOT come off like you're interested in him, because people are jerks sometimes. and they go and tell people stuff [: BE CHILL, MAN. TAKE IT EASY. don't bug him either by constantly IMing him and stuff either, cause then he might just get annoyed \: I think this is all I can tell you, dear. because I've never been in this situation. GOOD LUCK!
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i need some tips:
1) when you makeout, what should you do w/ your tongue?
2) when a boy feels you up, what does he do w/ your b**bs?
3) how do you grind? like how do you grind really well?
4) my b**bs aren't growing, why?
okay
1) when you makeout with someone, you probably should just go with it. BUT, whatever you do, don't just leave your tongue in your mouth. twirl your tongue around his, bite his lips gently, don't get to aggressive though! [:
2) when a guy feels you up he generally just grabs your boobs, squeezes them, gets a really good feel of them. or I guess if he's feeling adventurous he might even like bite or lick.
3) grinding? it's really not that hard. look sexy, be hot with it, be loose, but not too loose. maybe put your hands behind his neck, if that works? aha it just seemed right. just be chill with it!
4) I'm not sure how old you are, but if you're like 12-16 it's probably because you're not done growing yet. they're not just gunna pop out over night! give it time, I'm sure they'll be some bewbz there eventually :D
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i made a mistake and the whole schoool knows. i hooked up with my friends boyfriend. yes it was stupid but i dont know. i feel terrible and everyone kinda hates me. i dont know what to say when people ask me about it. also i talked to her and she seemed fine but she def knows cause we talked about it but i think she might become mroe mad idk. any idea.
ps your my fav advice giver=D
aw, thanks [: well, it depends on how that hooking up all went down. it was either an accident or you just got caught up in the heat of the moment. I imagine it was a little bit if an accident if it was your friends boyfriend. if people ask you what happened just say "it was an accident, and we just got caught up in the moment." people can't hate you for what you did, because I'm sure they'll eventually fuck up too. it's really not that big of a deal. accidents happen, people mess up, it's just a part of life [: !! hope I helped.
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Okay, i have blackheads on my nose and on my chin and on my hair line, they are really annoying.
ive tryed biore pore strips and ive tryed like everything, is there anything that actually works?
I pop my blackheads most of the time. I've used those Biore pore strips too, they work, but they hurt. you should start washing your face with an anti-blackhead cleanser, and keep up with that routine, it should help clear up your blackheads. if not you should check out going to the dermatologist and getting a prescription of some type. (:
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my boyfriend and i really want to have sex. but i haven't even let him go to 3rd base because id on't now what to do about down there. like do i shave it or trim it or what? what do guys like? please help!
SHAVE! all of the guys I know do not like pubic hair, most guys prefer it bare. be careful though! be sure to use a new razor and shaving cream so you don't get razor burn. you should be set (: and use protection ! :D
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okay, well i had a boyfriend for like 6 months and we had sex like once a week, maybe twice. but sometimes we would go without it for a couple weeks. but the point is, i had sex in my life. well now were broken up and i crave it so much but i'm not the type of girl to just go out and have sex with anyone just to get some. is there anything i can do to make me stop craving it so much?
oh man, i know what you're going through. (: just don't let it bother you so much. i'm not sure how long you and your boyfriend have been broken up, but if you give it some time you'll get over it with time, i think. if not then you could always try masturbating?
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14/f
last night in my sleep I sort of had this dream thing where it was like my clit was being fingered really really hard, and then I started to orgasm and I sort of woke up in the middle of it, and that was all i remembered about my dream last night.
I'm a girl... is it weird that I orgasmed in my sleep? how come this hasn't happened before? how can i get it to happen again?
i believe this is called a wet dream. it's not weird that you orgasmed in your sleep, it's actually pretty normal from what i know. i'm not sure why this hasn't happened before, maybe you're just hitting a stage. and you could probably get it to happen by being horny or something like that (: aha, hope i helped.
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how do u have sex like im dating someone and they r getting serious and im getting scared and i dont want him to think im a freak so how do u have sex? and i really dont no how to makeout i guess im doing it wrong cause we made out once and hasnt sense like 2 years ago!
15/f
wow, it really sounds like you're not ready at allll! but if you'd really like to know, there are LOTS of ways to have sex. if you don't know what to do, why don't you let him kinda take control the first time you have sex. i don't recommend that you ride on top your first time, because that might hurt. you know, and it sounds like you just need to chill out a little bit. instead of making a huge deal out of not knowing how to make out and stuff. okay, and when you make out with him, just relax, start kissing slowly, take it easy, then slip a little toungue in here and there. bite his lip. get sexy with it. (; relax your arms around his neck, hold the back of his head with both of your hands, wrap your arms around him. oh and with the sex thing, let him know he's doing a good job, don't just lay there, like nothing is happening to you. that is one of the hugest turn offs ever to a guy. OH and don't forget to shave down there. :D mmm, i tried. good luck, boo!
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okay so i have some acne on my back, the pimples aren't like BIG they're just the little red dots, but there's a lot, and i want them gone so that i don't worry when i wear tank tops. it's like on my shoulders and on my back
i'm sorry if this grossed you ladies and gentleman out :/
15/f
if your using a moisterizing body wash, you need to change that pronto. i used to have that problem, just like little red bumps. then i switched to axe body scrub. i'm a girl. and i know that sounds weird. but all my bacne went away. but if you really don't want to use axe, then neutrogena makes body wash for acne on your body. (: check it out at a drug store, or even wal mart!
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Alright, well I know hair straightners damage your hair. But I was reading a magazine once and it said that Jennifer Aniston uses some straightner, barbar? Or something along those lines, and it said something about how the plates actually moisturize your hair?
Anyone have any input to this?
Or know any other hair straigthners that would give postive effects to your hair, other than negative?
Anything is much appreciated! =)!
i did some research for you, and there is a hair straightner called "barbar". I don't think it exactly puts moisture into your hair put it does seal moisture in.
http://www.amazon.com/Barbar-1300-Titanium-Flat-Iron/dp/B000OOS59K
hope i helped a little. :D
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So where should a girl keep her hands when making out? I dont know what to do. Help? Thanks
oooh (: well, okay, you should deffinently just kind of like wrap your arms around his neck, just like relax them there. or, you could put your hands behind his head, on his face. good luck, dahling :D
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Hi. Im 16 year old girl and i've been "in love" with my best friend for ages. we hang out all the time. i know everything about him, and he knows everything about me. we have so much in common and we have so much fun together.. but he recently asked out this girl and well.. now their a couple. now i dnt know this girl.. but i dnt like her haha. nah not really but im really jealous. Now i saw some other columns and they say that i shud be supportive.. but i need advice on how to be that for him. every time her name comes up i feel like crying.. i try to be supportive and be happy for him but when i get home.. i cant help but cry. he's such an awesome person and he deserves someone so great.. but i want it to be me. we've talked about our "feelings" for each other heaps (before he was going out with her)and he kept sayin how it would be awkward if we went out BUT IT WOULDNT BE! He always flirts with me, and hugs me, and holds my hand when we watch movies. All my friends say that he is using me and that he isnt worth my time, but he is. he is really sweet, caring, sensitive and funny and i cant help thinking about him at every waking moment.. i cant tell him how i feel because he likes this girl, and i dnt wanna hurt him by telling him and ruining our friendship.. so i need advice on how to slowly get over him and stop pretending that "fate will bring us together eventually" because ive been believing that for too long, and the disappointment is hurting too much.. and i dnt wanna have to completely shut him out of my life forever because i cant be a good friend to him. Please help me the best u can. (btw im really sorry that this question was so long and by typin this im makin it longer but i didnt know how to write it any other way)
awww, first off, i say that this boy is NOT using you, especially if you two have been friends for ages. and you really do just need to be supportive of their relationship. i know it's probably hard to be. and it sounds like he's leading you on. he probably only see's you as the friend type and just doesn't want to mess up you guys' friendship. here's what i say (: you two can deffinently still be friends! but it sounds like you just need to start having girl nights. (: you know, invite your friends over! watch a movie, eat popcorn, icecream, soda, chips, bake a cake, talk. another good thing about having your friends over is that you can deffinently vent to them (: AND, you can start talking to other guys, i'm sure you already do, but start talking to them more, just as friends. you know? (: maybe one of them will see you as more than a friend. and maybe you'll turn out to like eachother. but the point is, it's just going to time to get over him. i promise you will eventually. well, i tried the best i could. good luck, dear (:
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i know most girls like to be called pretty or beautiful, or at least i do.. but when a guy tells me that he thinks i am pretty, what should i say back other then thank you- like do guys like to be called hott? sexy? something else? i usually say that someone is very attractive but is there somthing that guys like to be called...? thanks
haha i don't think there's anything too specific guys like to be called. i call my boyfriend cute (: but, hott works too, you know, really, whatever works for you. hott, sexy, cute. guys can be all different categories. :D
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Well, ok. I'm 16 and I've been dating an AMAZING guy for 6 months. I am so in love. Well my mom knows this and she knows we want to have sex so she bought us condoms and stuff and then when we told her we did it, she got pissed off and hid the rest of them...
We talked to her about safe and responsible sex (yes I know there is no such thing as 100% safe sex i dont want to hear it.) and she seemed to be open about the idea and then all the sudden she went psycho and wont let me stay at my boyfriends house anymore. He spends weeks at a time over here and she doesnt mind us sleeping in the same room, but I cant stay over there. It is upsetting for me and my boyfriend because I used to stay the night over there all the time. Can anyone tell me why my mom is like this all the sudden? She used to be so cool and then she just changed in the blink of an eye...
well! even if she did buy you protection and stuff, maybe she expected better from you. you know? like maybe she wanted you to be safe, but she didn't exactly want you to do it quite yet. or maybe she wasn't expecting it to happen to fast. it sounds like she's being a little ridiculous. i mean seriously, you could have just never told her at all, kept the whole thing a secret from her, had unprotected sex, and ended up pregnant. which situation would she rather have? you telling her? or you ending up with something you don't want? you just need to talk to her it sounds like, i mean just ask her why she was being so cool about it, and why she's freaking. i'm sorry about your situation. good luck!
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is it better to let hair air dry? or use the cold air option that are sometimes on blow dryer?
WELL, it's probably better health wise to let your hair air dry. BUT! if you use the cold air option on the blowdryer, it'll make your hair shinier, even if it may take a little longer to blowdry.
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