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this is so weird...
Well, ok. I'm 16 and I've been dating an AMAZING guy for 6 months. I am so in love. Well my mom knows this and she knows we want to have sex so she bought us condoms and stuff and then when we told her we did it, she got pissed off and hid the rest of them...
We talked to her about safe and responsible sex (yes I know there is no such thing as 100% safe sex i dont want to hear it.) and she seemed to be open about the idea and then all the sudden she went psycho and wont let me stay at my boyfriends house anymore. He spends weeks at a time over here and she doesnt mind us sleeping in the same room, but I cant stay over there. It is upsetting for me and my boyfriend because I used to stay the night over there all the time. Can anyone tell me why my mom is like this all the sudden? She used to be so cool and then she just changed in the blink of an eye...
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Hun, let me say this. Moms can act as cool as they want but in the end, they will be over protective at some point. I guess she is just not ready to let you go. My mom is like that too, very over protective, but she can be cool. Tell her that you know how you feel about him. And that you love your mom no matter what. She just probably thinks of you as her little girl. And she's not ready for that yet...Take care hun.
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she probably wasn't expecting you to jump into it so fast after you all discussed it...with most parents they tend to use this reverse psychology thing where they'll buy you the condoms and say its alright in hopes that you wont do it because with most teens as long as it's allowed they won't because they have a tendency to rebel...I would talk to your mom about it...with your boyfriend and discuss the whole situation...thats really the only thing you can do
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Oo. Well shes probably a little worried about it because as the previous advice said she wasn't expecting it to happen so fast. She's probably worried that your going to have it to much and end up having unsafe sex while your caught up in the moment or possibly getting pregnant. I think the fact that her daughter is growing up so fast has hit her and shes worried about you. Shes just being a mum. Shes worried and confused about all of this. I mean thats pretty amazing she let you in the first place! but she's probably just worried about you. She might calm down after a while but for the time being you should try and sit down and talk to her about all of this, ask her if theres something wrong and if she wants to talk about it. Hope i helped! Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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well! even if she did buy you protection and stuff, maybe she expected better from you. you know? like maybe she wanted you to be safe, but she didn't exactly want you to do it quite yet. or maybe she wasn't expecting it to happen to fast. it sounds like she's being a little ridiculous. i mean seriously, you could have just never told her at all, kept the whole thing a secret from her, had unprotected sex, and ended up pregnant. which situation would she rather have? you telling her? or you ending up with something you don't want? you just need to talk to her it sounds like, i mean just ask her why she was being so cool about it, and why she's freaking. i'm sorry about your situation. good luck!
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