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My friend and I are both 15 and she has been having sex with her bf of 9 months ever since the first week they went out. Is she a slut or am I just prude?


or does sex have nothing to do with physical matters, but more so mental capacity?

what do you think? (link)
ummmm welll let her do wut she wants to do. And you do what u want to do. She isnt a slut, and i dont know you so therefore i dont know if ur a prude.


Okay I dont mean to sound rude and conceaded but I am quite popular but only because i befriended the right people in elementary school...and last year older men starting to come on to me so i thought if i lost some weight that it would stop...it definetley did, but now i wanna lose the weight i gained. Please help. Thank you. (link)
well, gain back the weight aha. There isnt much to tell you. Dont let people change who you are though!


well i am kind of a loser going into standford calhoun h.s next year. i have two friends. Im proud of my academic grades and Im in all honors classes. I want to become one of the popular girls. I've started buying new things to make me look cool but I never get the chance to talk to the girls. You know what girls im talking about. Everyone does. They are so cool! (link)
well being friends with the cool girls isnt so cool. Join clubs and make new friends!


sprite cola has played a large role in my lifew for years. When i was born i was fed sprite immediately and my stomach nearly exploded. Ive had great times w/ sprite but now my parents are boycotting coca-cola products because they recently found a roach in a can. Please tell me what i should do b/c i cant live like this much longer
plz help (link)
ok. Well tell your parents that you love soda and coke and sprite is "your life". But if they found a roach in that can, thats pretty gross and very bad. Maybe you can put the canned coke into a cup infront of your parents so they know there isnt a roach inside!


um ok..well old man tend 2 hit on me..like everyday.and 1 time i followed this guy in2 his car bc he said he had assorted candies..but then when got in2 the back seat..there sat an 82 year old fella named bubba butt naked
i shat myself and now i;m internally damaged..what should i do> (link)
ok. well i would seek some theropy. And also, NEVERRRR follow strangers to their cars...EVEN IF THEY SAY THEY HAVE A FRREEE IPOD neverr go with them.


Recently my family and i purchased a poopinater 3000 (the highest toilet in quality) The knob to flush was a spanish brown type color. It does not match my poopinater. What should i do? I told my mom about you she sed that yur a reel gentleman. She told me to ask you, after all whats more important then the clor of your toilet flusher i mean its spanish brown for god sakes. (link)
hm well i dont care about matching and stuff but if it means so much to you then paint it!?


i just wish i could be cool like adam and liam and i dont know wat to do! are there anyways i can become as attractive like liam yet so in shape as adam?


thanks .. (link)
wow well i dont know what to tell you. I dont think anyone can be like them! But, work out, have fun, and hang with them and maybe you will become like them.
gotta go to adams house with the gang
pcee


how can i use a cookbook if i can't read? you make me really upset, sjgact advice man.

-gootzie in the kitchen (link)
well gootzie in a kitchen then i advice you to ask your mom and if you cant talk THEN UR SCREWED!
ok thanks!


there's this group of kids which i've known since the beginning of last year of school. some of my friends hang out with them and i see them together often around school and in clubs. i really want to hang out with them but i'm too afraid to approach them, afraid of being rejected, and i don't really know what to say. (link)
sometimes the people hoo seem the most coolest aren't the coolest people ever. If u feel like u reely wana hang out with them, using instant messenging is the easiest. Get to know them, and then ask to chill one day. Good luck!


i was babysitting a 2 year old who can't talk yet, and by accident i knocked an urn off the fireplace and the ashes of the family's dead great uncle spilled all over the floor. i blamed it on the kid. i feel really bad but i dont want to get into trouble. should i tell the truth? (link)
well it was only a accident and lying is not the best way out of things. I would say tell the truth and explain your nervousness and hopefully they will understand. Besides, it was an accident.


my life dream is to learn how to cook.. but i just dont know how. how do you cook?

~Gootzie in the kitchen (link)
well gootzie in the kitchen, my advice for you to get a cookbook and read directions. Ask someone in your family to help you cook and maybe you will become a chef when u get older. good luckk


i really like a guy but so does my friend .. she's liked him forever but everyone knows he won't go out with her .. i don't want to make her upset by any means though .. she's very "protective" of him and accuses alot of people of flirting with him when they don't .. is there an "in-between" to protect her feelings but also spend more time with him ? (link)
Hey, if you wana spend more time with the guy, why let her control your life. The only reason why she would get mad is b/c shes jelous that "her" boy is hanging out with you. If she gets really made and protective, just be like, "so and so", im aloud to hangout with who ever i want, why must you be so curious and mean about?
good luckk


my friend made out with the guy i loved, should i still be her friend, im nice to her but i dont know if i should be, wut should i do? (link)
alright, well if she knew you loved this guy, then yes, it was wrong to betray you and hook up with him. But maybe, it was the flow of the moment, and she didnt know what she was doing , and did a accidental nieve thing. Im sure she didnt mean anything by it. Maybe u should let her know how it hurt you, and work it out! Good luck (-:


my boyfriend moved to maryland because of family problems, and my mom and my sister have a problem with me seeing him, i dont know why. we're not allowed to talk on the phone, and the only way we can talk is online. im in love with him and i really dont want to break up with him, even though its a distance relationship.
what should i do?
-heartbroken (link)
if you love him, then talk to him as much as you can on the computer. Talk to your mom and sister and explain your passion and dignity for him. Don't be afraid to step up to the plate. Good luck (-:




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