My name is Charles. I want whoever is reading to know that Jesus Christ Changes Things. Jesus has made such a change in my life. How I think and see the world and everything around me. I love to worship and praise the Lord. I like to play football, and I sing(Good) too. Ima coo guy that gets along with pretty much anyone. So if you a coo person holla at ya boy. Especially the Ladies.
- Much Luv
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Age: 17
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Ok.. this has been buggin me alot lately.. I'm 14/f, and I have never had a b/f. I know that my time will conme and everything, and Ijust have to wait. But, what bugs me is that I know I'm not gorgeous, or really skinny or anything, but I see girls who are a heck of alot uglier, and bigger than me who have b/f's, so it just makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, cause they can get b/f's and I can't. So, I know my time will come, but, my main question is how are people gettin b/fs when they are so ugly and fat, and the normal girls dont? I rate 5's!!! Thanks!! (link)
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The reason why a lot of those girls r w/ guys is because they either do stuff to them or the guy is using them. Know that there is a guy out there that will love you and be able to tend to your needs. Understand that you don't have to do stuff to guys or fake who you are to be with someone. You just keep being yourself. Don't try to please guys or fake who you are 2 be with them because you'll only end up being hurt and lonely.
-God Bless
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Fellow atheists: I have a friend who is a militant Christian, meaning, she thinks it's her job to convert everyone who isn't Christian into one, including me. She knows I'm atheist, but it really bothers me when she tells me that I'm going to hell for not believing in Christian ways. I've told her many times that I don't believe in a god, afterlife, or book of worship. Yet, she still has the nerve to constantly bring up "god" and how I NEED to be a Christian. Other than that, she's cool. Are there any ideas on how to get through to her that I really don't want her help when it comes to religion? I'm going to snap if she comments to me one more time. (link)
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Jesus Loves you more than you'll ever know. Everything you feel he feels. He wants to help you not condemn or harm you.
Jeremiah 29:
11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
See right now you're a sinner. Everybody in this world is. See God requires payment for sin. So if you die in your sins and never ask Jesus to come into your heart and to be your Lord and Savior you WILL go to Hell.
Revelation 21:
8 "But the fearful, and UNBELIEVING, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death"
But see that's why Jesus came died on the cross and rose again on the third day. He came and he took punishment for YOUR sins. He came so that YOU could call on him and have your sins taken away an have life in Heaven and not death in Hell. Do you REALLY know what hell is like?
It's not just some hot spot where people just chill. It's a place of torture; a place of torment pain, grief, sorrow, sadness, and every last bad feeling you've ever felt.
A place of hopelessness and suffering - as a woman is about to give birth to a child, many go through painful labor that can last from a few minutes to a few days. But through this painful anguishing time, there is hope that when the child is born this terrible labor pain will subside. Just imagine if you can if that pain was multiplied many times over and you would never have hope of it ever going away forever? You would do anything to die to get rid of the pain, but it would always remain and continue forever and ever and ever. THIS IS HELL!A place of memory - When a person is tormented with a bitter memory they sometimes may commit suicide as a way out. In hell this is impossible because your spirit will never die, but will always remember how you sold your soul for the pleasures of this short sinful life. You will continue to always wish you were in heaven instead of hell, if only you would have made the right decision. But God wants to take that all away.
(in Heaven)Revelation 21:
4He will wipe every tear from your eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
You don't have to go to Hell. All you have to do is ask Jesus into your heart and for him to be your personal savior. And trust me things in your life will start to change.
-God Bless
Jesus Christ Changes Things (Believe it or Not)
It's true!!!!!!!
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I have a friend and he is thinking of suicide..I try talk him out of it,but he won't listen. He has problems in school,family life,relationship problems. I don't want him leaving me. We have been best friends so long!
HELP! (link)
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I know that your friend is going through some crazy stuff and your trying to help. I know it must be really difficult for you. Tell your friend that everything he's going through is temporary and it won't last forever. Tell your friend that he has the opportunity, that one day he won't ever feel pain again; that one day all the tears and hurt and shame and lonilnesss and sorrow and grief will all be wiped away. Tell him that he if never feels love from people again, Jesus will always love him. NO MATTER WHAT!.
(In Heaven)Revelation 21:
4 He will wipe every tear from your eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
Whenever your friend feels like the world is crashing down on him let him know this
Psalm 9:
9 The LORD is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble. 10 Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you.
If your friend pursues God, things WILL change in his life.
-God Bless
Jesus Christ CHANGES EVERYTHING!
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When should you start visiting colleges and looking at them? (link)
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When ur a Junior.
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Saw a waitress (shes 21, im 25) at local pub, big crush, five months later I'm pretty sure she likes me, never talked to her but she stole glances (as did i) so I asked her out for coffee, she said yes. I phone her the next week, she is ill, phone again a couple of times to hear how she is doing. The next sunday I phone her again, no awnser, 5 minutes later she sms me back that she has a boyfriend "but we can still have coffee". I sms back that she should just give me some time, decide to get over it.
Next time I'm at the pub she comes and chats with me (sitting next to me), and the next time, and the next. The more we talk the more I love her. She even tells me when shes working (I didn't ask). Last Tuesday i'm there again, chat chat chat. One of my friends drips wax on her hand and it comes out that she doesn't have any feeling in her hands, looked at her hands, her left hand, her ringfinger has a ring on, ask if shes engaged, she replies yes, ask how long, she replies that since a month back (the weekend after I first called her). Promptly ask the her to fetch us some tequila and toasted on her good fortune, put on the "Nothings-wrong-Im-the
happiest-bastard-here" act, drink alot more, enough for me to lose self control (not falling over or slurring-speech) and I tell her that I have liked her since the first time I saw her (17 February, 19-21:00) shes still working so she
away from the table comes back and i notice her eyeshadows is a tad smudged.
I go home later weeping and cursing, the whole week im a total mess, can't sleep for more than 2-3 hours, I'm a bit better now, could actually sleep last night thanks to some pills.
I don't want to see her again, but if I close my eyes there she is staring back, and if I see her again I'm going to fall apart all over again.
I don't know what to do, do I move to a differant city, country? do i try to break up a relationship that has gone on this long for a chance of karma biting us on the ass?
i REALLY need some advice. (link)
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I think you should tell her how you deeply feel. Say everything you feel when you are with her and how you feel when you are apart. If you don't let it off your chest you will regret it forever. Tell her how you feel about her. Ask if she felt nothing when you were together. Ask her how she feels about you, but after you tell her how you feel about her. If she gets married and doesn't know exactly how you feel about her, both of you might regret it for the rest of your lives. Let if off your chest so you won't be burdened and so you won't regret that you said nothing to her about how you feel. Tell her how beautiful she is and about little quirks she has that you love and about how much you love to see her smile. Tell her that if she were with you you would never want to see her cry. Tell her that if she were with you, you would make sure she had joy even when she is sad. Tell her you love her and you can't live without her. Tell her that whoever she is marrying can't love her as much as you can. There not married yet, but show her she can have true everlasting love with you.
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Over the past 2 months, I've had 4 crushes. One of them I met online, she likes me too; one of them likes me as a friend; one of them I really don't give a damn, but I think she was hitting on me; and one of them is my best friend's sister. So, when I had a crush, when I loved, it was the best feeling of my life. I never wanted to lose that feeling, it was (I quote "What is this feeling?" from Wicked) "Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe". But in a good way. A very very good way. Problem is, I've lost the feeling. Good feeling's gone. I love no longer. But I want to love despaately, I really do! I want to keep the feeling! I want to be truly happy again! Advicenators, what should I do? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. There was a point in my life where I had just gotten out of a 1-year relationship and I wanted that feeling again. But you know what if you keep searching for love from girls you'll never be satisfied. That feeling that you feel is a void. And Love is the only thing that can fill that void. But not love from a girl. Love from Jesus. Jesus Loves you more than you'll ever know. He even knows the person that your suppose to be with. And he wants you to be with her. Don't try and chase girls because you'll only get heartbroken and bitter. Live your life for Jesus and he'll put that special girl in our life.
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im not happy where i live. all people want to do here is drink.smoke and act fake. im not like that. i feel like im losing all my friends because they are all either moving or turning like "them" (only wanting to drink.
smoke + act fake) i want to move. but then again i dont. but i need to meet new people and be in a new place.. i feel so helpless.. i may be moving anways but do you think that will help? i just dont feel happy.. i dont know what i need but theres got to be more to life.. the only thing i want to do is move away.. become famous and seek love.. untill then im dying here... does any1 have any advice on that.. and thanks!! (link)
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Yes, there is more 2 life. There's a life in Jesus. Because w/o Jesus you have no life. You don't know who you are or what your purpose is. Jesus Loves YOU more than you'll ever know. He came down from Heaven and came to this Earth and died on the cross for YOUR sins. And even if YOU were the only person on Earth he still would have came. Jesus wants to help YOU and bless you. He doesn't wanna condemn YOU he wants to save YOU.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for YOU," declared the Lord," plans to prosper YOU and not to harm YOU, plans to give YOU hope and a future.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish(Go to Hell) but have everlasting life(in Heaven). 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
Jesus Loves you so much and he is happy that you don't wanna drink, smoke, or be fake. But he wants you to pursue Him. He wants to help you and take away all the hurt, pain, shame, lonlieness, sorrow, grief, hopelessness, sadness, depression, everything he wants to take it away and make you feel whole and new.
Revelation 21:4(This is in Heaven)
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order oF things has passed away.
Pursue Him and your LIFE WILL CHANGE!!!!!!!!
I'm a living witness; it's true.
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im not happy where i live. all people want to do here is drink.smoke and act fake. im not like that. i feel like im losing all my friends because they are all either moving or turning like "them" (only wanting to drink.
smoke + act fake) i want to move. but then again i dont. but i need to meet new people and be in a new place.. i feel so helpless.. i may be moving anways but do you think that will help? i just dont feel happy.. i dont know what i need but theres got to be more to life.. the only thing i want to do is move away.. become famous and seek love.. untill then im dying here... does any1 have any advice on that.. and thanks!! (link)
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Yes, there is more 2 life. There's a life in Jesus. Because w/o Jesus you have no life. You don't know who you are or what your purpose is. Jesus Loves YOU more than you'll ever know. He came down from Heaven and came to this Earth and died on the cross for YOUR sins. And even if YOU were the only person on Earth he still would have came. Jesus wants to help YOU and bless you. He doesn't wanna condemn YOU he wants to save YOU.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for YOU," declared the Lord," plans to prosper YOU and not to harm YOU, plans to give YOU hope and a future.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish(Go to Hell) but have everlasting life(in Heaven). 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
Jesus Loves you so much and he is happy that you don't wanna drink, smoke, or be fake. But he wants you to pursue Him. He wants to help you and take away all the hurt, pain, shame, lonlieness, sorrow, grief, hopelessness, sadness, depression, everything he wants to take it away and make you feel whole and new.
Revelation 21:4(This is in Heaven)
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order oF things has passed away.
Pursue Him and your LIFE WILL CHANGE!!!!!!!!
I'm a living witness; it's true.
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ok so i finally got the courage to tell a guy friend of mine that i really him, and it took me forever! He told me that it was good news to hear, and then he's been gone at camp to help little kids and everything... it was all pretty new to us to tell eachother how we felt. And he and my friend just broke up (she cheated on him) and so they're not even friends anymore.. i was jw how to keep him intrested when he comes back? I want him to know i'm still kinda crazy about him.. but i don't know where to start.. and i don't wanna come off psycho! please help! thanks!
----> the girl next door (link)
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Just stay the same. He's probably thinkin about you just as much as you are thinkin about him. So, when he comes back just so him some interest and affection and he'll feed off of that.
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way
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Today i was happy and ready to go to cheer camp. When i got there everyone was wearing the same color shorts eccept for me, i guess it was required. My mom drove me back home to change but i didnt have that color becasue someone borrowed them and never gave them back. My mom left to work and now im sitting home thinking of waether not i should of gone back. Its a three day thing, yesterday i went but i wore the wrong color and today im not going. they already made up the routine and gave me a spot but now they are gonna change it and i dont feel liek putting up with everyone askign me where i was and i just know that they are going to tlak behind my back.Everyone went besides me and liek 2 peple have areason bc they are on vacation. What do i tell people? (link)
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Well, if you can I think you should go today. Who cares if you're wearing the wrong colored shorts???? Is it that big of a deal? How much do you really enjoy cheerleading? Let that be the deciding factor. And if you can't go and people ask where you were. I don't know what to tell you. sorry.But don't lie.
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way
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my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust. (link)
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You should forgive him. People make mistakes and that's a part of life. If you rely on people all the time to come through they'll almost always fail you. Put your faith in Jesus and he'll never let you down. Plus you can't be forgiven of your sins if you don't forgive others. That's what the Bible says. In addition to that you never know when you'll mess up and need someone to forgive you and show you mercy.
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way
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my boyfriend of 7 months got drunk the other night and planned on hiding it from me. i found out from someone else who was there. my boyfriend always promised & swore that he would never drink and how stupid he was. he ended up getting drunk with his friend and when i found out, i gave my boyfriend soooo many chances to confess and tell me the truth and he didnt. later he finally admitted it and i was so outraged that i broke up with him and told him i never want to see him again, and i hung up. he hasnt tried to call me or fix things up. my friends called him and said he was crying and too afraid to talk to me. i dont want to call him first...but should i forgive him? he broke my trust. (link)
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You should forgive him. People make mistakes and that's a part of life. If you rely on people all the time to come through they'll almost always fail you. Put your faith in Jesus and he'll never let you down. Plus you can't be forgiven of your sins if you don't forgive others. That's what the Bible says. In addition to that you never know when you'll mess up and need someone to forgive you and show you mercy.
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way
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0k wat do u like in a girl? do you like there eyes? body,boobs,personality?
what do you want your gf to be like?
plz answer my question!
i rate high!
btw im 13 and oh yeah whats like the age range or w.e that you pick a girl in?
thankz (link)
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You shouldn't shrive to be a people pleaser all the time. Be yourself. Be who you are. If you try and change and make yourself into something your not you'll end up hating who you are and the guys you do hook-up with won't be about nothing and they'll treat you wrong and then you'll be the one looking stupid and being hurt. If you be yourself the right guy for you will come along and give you the love and respect you deserve. Just make sure that you stay clean and like how you look when you leave the house. Confidence is sexy. Wear it!
-God Bless
Jesus IS The Way
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im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice? (link)
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I think you should wait. Plus you might look back on it in the future and regret it. Think about when you get married and you wanna be pure for your husband. You can't cuz you've already done it, and you'll wish you would've waited. Just because your body feels a certain way and your feelings say one thing doesn't mean you have to go along with it. If you wait it will be much better in the end.
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do u think my ex-boyfriend would get jealuse if I hag out with a guy that likes me and flrits with me in frount of him? (link)
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Yes.
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charles u answered my questions about my blocked ears. so how about the fact that god did this to me in the first place huh? and is jesus gona come dowm touch me and heal me? i dont think so mate. i am a catholic so if god was gona do anything bout my ears imj sure he'd of done it already so your wrong medicine is stronger then god. (link)
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No my friend God is stronger and more powerful than any medicine. God didn't give you that condition the devil did.
John 10:10
The devil comes only to steal and kill and destroy; (Jesus said) I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
1 John 3:8
He who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil's work.
Jesus can heal you and take away all the pain, blood and suffering. Jesus wants to help you. Just call on him and believe and he'll heal you.
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I am a 16 year old girl, who loves to act and I love to preform in shows. I have done many shows but my problem is I am not a singer. To be honest, my voice is pretty awful, so I can only really get parts in non-musicals or just be in the chorus for musicals. This is fine with me, but I love singing so much I just wish to improve my voice a little. Now I am not asking for a transformation that will suddedenly land me the lead in a musical...I know that isn't realistic, but I would like to improve my voice. I do NOT want to have a voice teacher...I don't think my parents would spend money on that nor do I want to be that serious. Are there any other ways of improving my voice? Any tricks anyone knows? Also are there any websites that can help you for FREE? Also what would be a good broadway song to sing at an audition?...my voice is on the lower side (I cannot hit high notes). Thanks You! (link)
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I'm not sure of a good song you could sing but I do know this. I'm a singer myself. You should try to mimic vocal artist that sing in your range. Try your best to sound just like them. Try to move notes like they move notes and sing in a style that they sing in. Try to sound just like them. Just work on that and do it constanly. That should help. That's what I do.
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i have suffered with eustachian tube dysfunction for over 10 years now i am sick to death of it. my ears are constantly blocked resulting in me alway having to hold me breath and such my ears in cosing great discomfort and the majority of he time i have to do this over and over again and they are still popped i fear i am going to burst my ear drum one day doing this and the fustratration from this causes me to think that id be better off having my ears taken off completly not to mention how stupid i look when i have to pop my ears back in. every time i do it im pulling muscles in my back also resulting in my back suffering now. ive been with the ENT now for 6 years they basicaaly look at me clean my ears out and whisk me off no one ever takes the time to sit down and explain the condition i have apart from ear wax. it took them 4 years to give me a name to this condition and once i got told there is surgery but its a 50 50 chance that it could make it worse also. i see a different doc all the time there and they all have to be reminded of my condition and all of them have differnt oppinions. ive told my GP i want to see the same doc all the time so we can come to some sort of resolution for this problem but she says thats not possible on the NHS. can you please give me advice on what my options are for getting rid of this bloody curse? (link)
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There is so just so much people on this Earth can do. Do you want this condition to go away? Do you wanna be able to live your life in happiness and have to worry about this condition? Then just call on the name of Jesus, and have faith that he will heal you.
Matthew 8:1
When he came down from the mountainside, large crowds followed him. 2A man with leprosy came and knelt before him and said, "Lord, if you are willing, you can make me clean." 3Jesus reached out his hand and touched the man. "I am willing," he said. "Be clean!" Immediately he was cured[b] of his leprosy.
Jesus Loves you so much and he wants to help you. Just call out his name and asked to be healed. Have faith and know without a shadow of a doubt you will be healed. If you wanna let Jesus into your heart and let him be your Lord and Savior holla bac at me.
P.S. Medicine cannot do what God can do.
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ok, i had a dream that i was showing my friend my old house and we went into the ravine in the backyard and a fox jumped out in front of us and ran into a path in the woods. then the fox went running back because a wolf was chasing him. the black wolf bit his snout. then he ran back into the path. then there was a line of 4 wolfs but 3 of the wolfs disappeared. the one on the far right was the black wolf. he came running toward me like he was going to attack. but i kicked his head. then he backed off. but then he was really really friendly and sat by my side. then the fox came out from the path and and the black wolf (which i named Blaster in my dream) looked at me and i said "go ahead..get him" and he attacked the fox. he bit his snout again. but there was no blood. the fox ran away back into the path. and then i walked up the ravine with "Blaster" then we appeared in this yard that i've never seen. there was a swing set and i was on the swing. my brother and sister were in back of me and they took my stuffed animal dog. then i told Blaster to get them and he jumped and bit my sisters arm and my brothers leg. but they didnt seem to mind!! i got my stuffed animal back but it was all dirty and the collar broke off. i went into my dads house and sat at the kitchen table. i started crying just a little bit though. but Blaster was next to me the whole way...then i woke up. does this mean "Blaster" is my animal spirit guide?
also, i want to have another dream about this black wolf...does anyone know how i could possibly make myself have a dream about the black wolf? im very interested in this.
i will rate 5's for everyone! unless your answer sucks. well..if you really tried you would still get a 5. peace out (link)
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I don't know what religion you belong 2 but that was a crazy dream. I think the fox represents the good people in your life. And the wolf represnts a certain evil within yourself. Blaster is really an evil spirit inside yourself. That evil sprirt inside you will hurt the ones you love. The stuffed animal I think represents the true loving, gentlenss that is in you. And if that evil spirit stays inside of you your true self could be broken. Do you wanna let that evil spirit destroy and hurt the ones you love and even yourself? If you wanna know how you can get rid of "blaster" holla bac.
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ok this might be long but i really need advice
ok this summer i went to an over night camp for about 5 weeks and i hooked up with a guy that is 3 years older then me. we kissed and held hands and sometimes he would touch my breasts and my ass and put his hand down my pants But one night it went a little to far and we had sex then the next day he broke up with me then he left to go back to his home and i was still @ camp Then all the guys at camp were asking me outa nd stuff and it made me feel special but then this one guy asked me out lets call him bob. I really like bob alot so i went out with him and stuff then one thing led to another and stuff and we had sex and it was so good but that was my last week at camp so i went home me and all my friends always hung out @ this ark down the street from me and stuff And then ppl started asking me if i wanted to come over to their house for the night and this kid that hangs out with us letrs call him dan started to grab my but and my breasts then they all come over to my hosue and everyone left exept dan and he came one to me and started to un zip my pants and shit and i ened up giving a blowjob...then 2 nights ago i slept over my friends house because my parents were gone for a night and they didn't trust me so i was in the guestroom and i guess it was about 2am and her older brother came into my room only in his boxers and i was just in my see thru thong with no shirt on and he started dto kiss me and touch me and said take off my thong and i did *because her brother is hott) and then we had sex it was the best! and then the next morning he came into the shower with me and we had sex agian and then he told everyone and now im called a Slut but im not really Am I? and boys touch my ass and breast and try to put there hands down my pants but i don't know...if i am a slut pllz give me ways that i can not become a slut. Thanx (link)
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Well, to tell the truth if you keep on doing what your doing then you are a slut! Plain and simple. I know sex is pleasrable but if your not married then it could lead to problems like this that you don't wanna deal with. Thank God your not pregnant or have an STD.
Romans 6:13
Do not offer the parts of your body to sin, as instruments of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God, as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer the parts of your body to him as instruments of righteousness. 14For sin shall not be your master, because you are not under law, but under grace.
I want you to know that Jesus Loves you so, so much and he wants you to let him into your heart. Yes you have sinned but Jesus can wipe that all away. He can make you whole, and pure again. Jesus doesn't think you are a slut. I know your wondering how could Jesus Love YOU???
But he does. If you wanna let him into your heart holla bac at me.
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