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more to life..


Question Posted Friday August 5 2005, 2:22 am

im not happy where i live. all people want to do here is drink.smoke and act fake. im not like that. i feel like im losing all my friends because they are all either moving or turning like "them" (only wanting to drink.
smoke + act fake) i want to move. but then again i dont. but i need to meet new people and be in a new place.. i feel so helpless.. i may be moving anways but do you think that will help? i just dont feel happy.. i dont know what i need but theres got to be more to life.. the only thing i want to do is move away.. become famous and seek love.. untill then im dying here... does any1 have any advice on that.. and thanks!!


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shell answered Saturday August 6 2005, 3:38 pm:
Hey, moving will be a hard thing for you and after you move you will regret those feeling from before because you will miss your friends. Things will get better you'll go to a new school and meet new people. Be yourself and dont try to act fake like your other friends. Im sure people will find you to be a good person and someone to turn to!Hoped I helped! Rate me!

:->Michelle

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icey0990 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 3:50 am:
i think moving will do you a lot of good..because the town you live in doesnt sound so great..a new and exciting start with new people can be just what youu need.
advice for now: stand your ground and dont do anything stupid.

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AdivceJack answered Saturday August 6 2005, 2:05 am:
Try going to a diffrent place a meeting new people, change you crowd, and get out more, just being somewhere new might help you!

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Alpha345 answered Friday August 5 2005, 12:50 pm:
There is always more to life, even if you can't see it. And as the advisor before me said, there is always life in Jesus, always always!

Stand strong in what you believe in and let everyone know that your not going to change to be like them. I believe conformity is one of the biggest dangers facing the already decrept and corrupt society we all must live in today. I am very much againts conformity for society and I am thrilled to see you aren't going to conform to the society where you live and your not like them.

My advice is, if you can move, do it. The friends who havn't turned into "them" have already taken the initiative to move. Find a new place and start over in a better place (if it is better, but sounds like most anyplace is better than where you live). But if you aren't going to move then make your stand on your beliefs. Cling to your beliefs and your friends that are still not like everyone else and let everyone where you live know what their doing is wrong, make a stand to make a change.

Personaly...I would do the second option I listed myself, because it would be a chance to strike back at society and try and change it and I would try to do that until they either drove me outta where I lived or I make a change, but that is just me.

You do what you feel you must do. I hope I helped and that you find more to life than you see now.

-Ryan

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Real4Christ07 answered Friday August 5 2005, 10:53 am:
Yes, there is more 2 life. There's a life in Jesus. Because w/o Jesus you have no life. You don't know who you are or what your purpose is. Jesus Loves YOU more than you'll ever know. He came down from Heaven and came to this Earth and died on the cross for YOUR sins. And even if YOU were the only person on Earth he still would have came. Jesus wants to help YOU and bless you. He doesn't wanna condemn YOU he wants to save YOU.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for YOU," declared the Lord," plans to prosper YOU and not to harm YOU, plans to give YOU hope and a future.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish(Go to Hell) but have everlasting life(in Heaven). 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
Jesus Loves you so much and he is happy that you don't wanna drink, smoke, or be fake. But he wants you to pursue Him. He wants to help you and take away all the hurt, pain, shame, lonlieness, sorrow, grief, hopelessness, sadness, depression, everything he wants to take it away and make you feel whole and new.
Revelation 21:4(This is in Heaven)
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order oF things has passed away.
Pursue Him and your LIFE WILL CHANGE!!!!!!!!
I'm a living witness; it's true.

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Real4Christ07 answered Friday August 5 2005, 10:53 am:
Yes, there is more 2 life. There's a life in Jesus. Because w/o Jesus you have no life. You don't know who you are or what your purpose is. Jesus Loves YOU more than you'll ever know. He came down from Heaven and came to this Earth and died on the cross for YOUR sins. And even if YOU were the only person on Earth he still would have came. Jesus wants to help YOU and bless you. He doesn't wanna condemn YOU he wants to save YOU.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for YOU," declared the Lord," plans to prosper YOU and not to harm YOU, plans to give YOU hope and a future.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish(Go to Hell) but have everlasting life(in Heaven). 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
Jesus Loves you so much and he is happy that you don't wanna drink, smoke, or be fake. But he wants you to pursue Him. He wants to help you and take away all the hurt, pain, shame, lonlieness, sorrow, grief, hopelessness, sadness, depression, everything he wants to take it away and make you feel whole and new.
Revelation 21:4(This is in Heaven)
He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order oF things has passed away.
Pursue Him and your LIFE WILL CHANGE!!!!!!!!
I'm a living witness; it's true.

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poa answered Friday August 5 2005, 2:59 am:
The only thing you want is to have a perfect life? Odds are it won't happen. To want to move away, become famous and fall in love ~ A lot of people want that. And a very small percentage get it. It doesn't sound like you are over 18 judging by the things you said in the post, and reguardless, moving away because your friends smoke and drink ~ Get new friends. Or be around your friends when they AREN'T smoking or drinking, unless they are rich and famous, their money has to end sometime.

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