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Hey my name is Michelle and ive been currently dating a guy named Armando for about a year now. Ive had an advice column before but I decided to shut it down but im starting back up again so ask away!advice
Ok theres this kid i know, and we met at camp. were always making eye contact and at the dance he waited til the last song to ask me to dance.. i kno i like him, but im not sure if he likes me.. i wanna talk to him more but when i talk to him i get all shy and stop talkin. Wat are some good topics to talk to him about and do u think he could possibly like me?
please anything!
i rate 5's!!
Hey, well try to gain as much courage as you can and talk to him as much as possible! If he likes you back he will flirt and since he asked you to dance the last song he may be just shy like you and was afraid you would reject him! Flirt with him a little bit and sooner then later you both will come out of your shells! Hope I helped! Rate me!
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16/f My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months. Our 3 month anniversary is coming up in a bit over a week. I really wanna make it special for him but I keep thinking that all of my ideas are a little too cheesy or not good enough for him. He deserves the best. What should I do for him that would be loveable?
Hey, anything you do im sure is perfect! Dont stess out so much about it just get him something that he likes and cares about which should be you already but since your gettin a specific gift thats where it gets hard. Maybe you could try making him something!Hope I helped! Rate me!
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im not happy where i live. all people want to do here is drink.smoke and act fake. im not like that. i feel like im losing all my friends because they are all either moving or turning like "them" (only wanting to drink.
smoke + act fake) i want to move. but then again i dont. but i need to meet new people and be in a new place.. i feel so helpless.. i may be moving anways but do you think that will help? i just dont feel happy.. i dont know what i need but theres got to be more to life.. the only thing i want to do is move away.. become famous and seek love.. untill then im dying here... does any1 have any advice on that.. and thanks!!
Hey, moving will be a hard thing for you and after you move you will regret those feeling from before because you will miss your friends. Things will get better you'll go to a new school and meet new people. Be yourself and dont try to act fake like your other friends. Im sure people will find you to be a good person and someone to turn to!Hoped I helped! Rate me!
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I have a boyfriend at this moment in time. We have been going out for almost three months. As of a few weeks ago I started realizing that I have feelings for my ex, and I'm jealous of my exes girlfriend. What should I do?
Hey, he's your ex and especially if you wern't the one that broke up with him your still going to have feelings for him. Continue to stay with your boyfriend if you care about him and try not to think about your ex. Hope I helped! Rate me!
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I am talking to my ex-boyfriend on sunday at church I am going to set down and just tell him how I feel.But I just talked to him the other day before we got off I said I love you to him and he said same to you what does that mean does he still love me? what do you think?
Hey, he might not have known what to say to you when you said that and thats why he said same to you. If he still loved you he would probably say I love you too! Talk to him and try to see if you guys will ever have a chance again! I hoped I helped! Rate me!
:->michelle
hey
my best mate introduced me to dean through msn. we have never met but we have kinda connected. we have been through the same kind of emotional problems and the other day he said we should meet up and talk about things properly. i really want to as i need to talk about my life. but im scared because i dont like the way i look. i am overweight. do you think that will matter.
i want to meet him because wen we speak to each other its like we know exactley what each other mean. he helped me to get over self harming and a broken heart and i helped him to get over his thoughts of suicide and depression so we are very close emotionally, we just have never met.
do you think it would be a good idea?
thanx
xx
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Hey, me and my boyfriend met online and we've been dating ever since! The outside doesnt matter its the inside. He wouldnt just say lets meet if he didnt care about you! Set up and time and date and dont worry!Rate me!
:->Michelle
Hi guys.
Sorry if this is really long...i rate high.
Alrighty.
Well i have a boyfriend and i love him to death. We've been together for over 3 months and ever since ive knwn him he never EVER talks about his problems.
If i know somehtings wrong he'll say things like.."Its not important" or "Its nothing" when i can seeeee that its bothering him a lot. I want him to know that he doesnt need to act all tough around me. And i need him to know that he can talk to me about anything. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive tried the usual..."you know im always here for you" and all that and he says he knows but it doesnt change anything.
Do you guys have anything i could say or do that would get him to know that im always there...and ready to listen?
Any advice is great advice!!
Thanks...
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Hey, some guys just dont like telling girls there feelings. You can see that he's hurting and you need to make sure he can see that your always there for him. Instead of just telling him that you should give him a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheek and tell him that you care about him and that if you need someone to talk about anything that he can trust you. Rate me!
:->Michelle
wow i cant handle this.. i like this guy a lott!! and hes always soo sweet to me and we had a lot of good times together and he told my friends he likes me and he told me he did.. but we wereon the trampoline and i wouldnt kiss him bc i didnt want to get him sick.. and all the other times i rejected him bc ive never kissed a guy before.. but i ddint really care anyway so i called him twice the next day he didnt answer.. so i left him alone.. the next day my best friend called him and then i called him and he came over my other friends house.. he totally ignored me .. he flirted with one of my friends and then said that i wouldnt get with him anyway so it didnt matter.. that really hurt bc i was gonna kiss him but he just didnt wait.. now i miss him like crazy and i need to know what to do!! do i call him? forget about him? leave him alone? HELLPP!!!
i rate HIGH!!!
Hey, call him and invite him over or somewhere that you guys can be a lone. To show him that your interested and not afraid do something random and out of the blue! Maybe like push him against the wall and kiss him gently and say I really like you and im sorry that you got the impression that I wouldnt do anything I was just scared and if he still likes you he'll be yours!Rate me!
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I'm 17 and female, and I've known my best friend Thomas for nearly a year. We hang out all the time, even stay the night at one another's houses every now and then.
Well, right now I'm house-sitting for him while he's on a trip. I stayed the night here the other night so I wouldn't have to have my mom drive me over at 7:00 in the morning. So we're up at three in the morning talking about everything, like we always do when we sleep over. And then he kissed me... and told me that he loves me.
I have a boyfriend who I love very much, and I just don't care about Thomas in the way that he cares about me. But I somewhat returned the kiss. As a matter of fact... we kind of kissed a lot. Mostly the sweet, peck type, but a little (and I do mean a little) tongue every now and then. When it was all over and we both regained our senses, I cried. When he said he loved me, I said, "Don't say that." We talked about it a little, but then decided that we'll really have a long talk when he gets back from his vacation.
So I have a few questions. First of all, did I cheat on my boyfriend? I've never done anything like this... I don't know if it's cheating. I don't ever want to tell my boyfriend that it happened -- he'll break up with me and it was all just a huge mistake and I regret that it happened (even though it brought a lot of stuff to the surface -- I didn't even know Thomas liked me). When I talk to Thomas, what should I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't want to ruin our awesome friendship. But I want him to know that I don't care about him the way he does about me, and I don't want him to hate me for this. Please help me.
Hey, yes you did cheat and you need to talk to your boyfriend and thomas about it. If you love your boyfriend as much as you say he needs to know the truth and you need to appologize to him and say that it was just a mistake and that it will never happen again. Talk to Thomas about his feelings for you. Even though you dont feel the same way about him im sure that you care about him a lot as a friend. Make sure he knows that you care about him to its just not as a boyfriend. It will hurt him but its better that he knows then leading him on and not talkin about it at all. I hoped I helped! Rate me !
:->Michelle
I've been going out with this guy for almost 2 months. He's amazing. He's good looking, Funny, Smart and basically everything I want in a guy. Except, He's 2 years younger than me. He's really mature though. If he tells his mom we're going out he'll get in trouble and have to break-up with me and it kind of bothers me cause his mom keeps questioning him why he calls me and why I call him. I really dont know what to do.. Can someone please give me some good advice? I rate really good. Thanks!
Hey, since you like him a lot age doesnt matter in your eyes and thats a good thing. His parents are probably just worried for their son. Even though it probably hurts its for the better that he doesnt tell his parents about you and him. Do your parents know about you two? I'm in a relationship that is like your to except mine is the oppisite. He is almost a year younger then me but is in the same grade and his parents do know about our relationship but my parents dont. You just have to deal with it and hope for the best! Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year and have never been happier in my whole life! I hoped I helped! Rate me back please!
:->Michelle
ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react..
Hey, do you like this boy a lot or are you just hooking up with him for the fun of him. If he likes you he will understand your decision and be happy that you told him the truth that you arn't ready. Your only 14 so you have plenty of time to have sex in the future and it may be better to wait like your doing now. There are times that you will want to have sex but its not worth wasting it at such a young age! I hoped I helped! Rate me back please!
:->Michelle
15/f
i have a friend, and anytime we are hanging out alone or with other GIRL friends..shes normal and acts herself. but whenever we're hanging out with guys..she acts like a complete idiot, saying stupid things, acting stupid...just making herself out to be the stupidest girl ever!! and shes not stupid at all. after a party last night me and another friend told her and she was just like "you guys do it too and i don't care what people think" we do act dumb sometimes but we never take it a far as she does and after seeing her act so stupid- we will never do it again. she does it to get attention from guys and she gets it but its totally negative attention. its funny for a while, but then it gets annoying and everyone knos shes putting on an act. how do we get her to realize what shes doing is annoying and looking bad on herself?
Hey, thats a very hard question since she doesnt think shes doing it that badly. Some girls just act differently around guys for the attention and dont even realize it! If she has to act that way to get attention then she's just hiding her true beauty! Talk to her about it. Tell her that if she wants to find someone good for her then she has act herself and not put a cover on! I hope I helped! Rate me back please!
:->Michelle
I have a best friend named Rachel. She's so awesome, I love her to death. She's like, the perfect best friend. But there's one problem and it isn't her fault. We're going into 8th grade and Rachel and I are in a huge group and have all of the same friends. They all like to hang out a lot, and so do we. My Mom doesn't care what I do, and if I want to run down the street naked all she'd say is "Have a nice time!". So anyway, it's Summer and out of all of our friends in our group we're pretty much the only two girls. There are also other girls we hang out with, but they don't hang out with the guys that we do. I have a crush on one of the guys, and one of the other one's is Rachel's ex bf and she still likes him. But a lot of times Rachel's Mom won't let her do ANYTHING! For example, this week I was suppose to hang out with her on Thursday and then she asked her Mom. And she didn't give an answer so she kept asking and she said yes. So Thurs. I got ready and then she called me and said she was babysitting her cousins and that we could def. hang out the next day. So the next day came and I got ready. Then she called me up and said her Mom said no again because her Mom was going out to dinner and Rach has to go to her Grandma's. So I got really mad. I told her she needs to talk to her mom b/c it isnt fair to me. She said she tried and her Mom understands but then she does it anyway. her Mom never makes up her mind. what should i do? and please dont say 'find new friends or hang out with other people' because I do, but Rach is my best friend and I really wanna hang out with her more. please help, i rate high!!
Hey theres not much you can do at the moment since you both still live with your parents. When you can drive and when you get older and move out of the house things will be very different. Stay close to her and make plans with her as much as you can. I know it's aggrivating but you have to just deal with it for right now! Some parents are just that way and theres nothing you can do about it! I hoped I helped! Rate me back if you think I answered your question good!
:->Michelle