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His parents cant accept the fact that we're going out.
I've been going out with this guy for almost 2 months. He's amazing. He's good looking, Funny, Smart and basically everything I want in a guy. Except, He's 2 years younger than me. He's really mature though. If he tells his mom we're going out he'll get in trouble and have to break-up with me and it kind of bothers me cause his mom keeps questioning him why he calls me and why I call him. I really dont know what to do.. Can someone please give me some good advice? I rate really good. Thanks!
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if you really feel that way about him, keep going out with him. his mom has every right to feel suspicious- but if you told her that you two were just friends, she'd probably understand why you guys were talking so much.
eventually she will find out, though. you might have to wait a while, but you should tell her sooner or later.
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Well it is good to know that even under his parents suspicion he still wants to talk to you. Keep doing what your doing now, talk to him when you can and meet him when you can, you two obviously have something strong for each other so that will be hard to break. Even if his parents did try and force him to break up with you, it is only he who can break up with you, and not his parents. And I think that even if they did force it, he would still try and see you and talk to you. Keep talking to him and follow what your heart says you should do and do what you think is right. Keep talking to him, even if it is kinda secret and do what you think is right. It sounds like you two have something really strong for each other so do what you think is right and don't let anyone get in your way.
I hope this helps and things work out for you two!
-Ryan
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Hey, since you like him a lot age doesnt matter in your eyes and thats a good thing. His parents are probably just worried for their son. Even though it probably hurts its for the better that he doesnt tell his parents about you and him. Do your parents know about you two? I'm in a relationship that is like your to except mine is the oppisite. He is almost a year younger then me but is in the same grade and his parents do know about our relationship but my parents dont. You just have to deal with it and hope for the best! Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year and have never been happier in my whole life! I hoped I helped! Rate me back please!
:->Michelle
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alright well first of all... hiding things is never a good idea. cause eventually his mother will find out whats really going on and she'll have to deal with it but she'll probobly be mad just because her son was hiding it from her. honesty is always the best policy. and he needs to stand up to his mom. i understand shes just lookin out for his best interest... but how much harm could you possibly do to him. Now i would understand if u had a criminal record or something (which i hope u dont)but, he needs to take a strong stance and tell her the truth. he needs to tell her exactly how he feels about you, and he needs to tell her that she cant controll the way he feels and who he can love. just dont be tooo hostile... cause hey.. thats still his mom. you donnt want her to be overwhelmed or feel disrepected. make sure she gets the point, but he should still listen to her concerns and have a compromise. hope i helped.
cale
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I wouldnt let parents get in the way of a good relationship. You two can find ways around her, so dont give up a great relationship just because the mom cant accept it. Maybe have your bf try one last time to try and knock some sense into her..tell her that your both happy etc. if that doesnt work who cares what she thinks..! keep going out dont let anyone get in your way
-melissa-
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Maybe you guys should just tell them and say that you guys dont want to break up and if they have a problem them its not fair because you guys care a loy about each other no matter how much the age difference is age is only a number.
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Hi,
You know age difference really not a big deal. If you see on a new some people that are 20 marries someone that are 50. The question is "why" is he parents against it? If you and him have absolutely no problem with this. I suggest you try to speak to him to ask his parent about this. And in the meantime you two take things slow. Because at the end it was "he" who dates you not his mom so he has the decision. Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-
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