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omg u like hawthorne heights too?
that is awsome!
im like the only one at my school that loves that band lol/

lol yes i love them do you have an AIM screen name or msn screen name or something like that?

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If you add someone to be your friend on myspace and they deny you, how do you find that out? Because i added someone who i'm pretty sure denied me but their still in the pending requests folder. However, i heard that you would not get notified if someone denied you. Does anyone know? thanks in advance.

ok first of all yes there is a way to tell if someone ha denyed you and that is by going ot there myspace and clicking add you know that people you tried adding before and if it says 1 they are already you friend then they are your friend 2 is if it says they are pending as a friend well then they havent said yes or no and 3rd if it has add or cncel on it like at the beginning when you first added them then they denyed you
hope that helped you

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hey heres my story:
im 18 yrs old and in love with a 24 yr old man! my story starts like this, hes my manager at my job and iimediatly had an instant crush on him but me i dont have that much confidence in myself so when he satrted to show intrest in me i panicked and backed way and brought in a freind to go for him, but the only thing is that the friend is actualy me! the real me that i would like to be but dont have the confidence to be! i made up her name and a whloe life for her(me).and called him pretending to be this person! everything was going so well and my emotions got stronger and the more we talked the more we had in common! i ended up fallin totaly head over heels in love with him and decided id tell him and low and behold he felt the same way! and of course he wanted to meet! i didnt know wat to do! i thought for days and days as to wat i should do and finaly decided i should tell him the truth! that the women he was in love with was me!.... well when i told him over the phone he seemed fine and didnt wanna talk about it just wanted to put it behind us and told me that he could never trust me agian! and im the type of person that trust is important to me and it broke my heart to hear that! so anyway the next three weeks passed by and evything was fine he was nice and called me to talk like friends he invited me to places with him and stil comnfided stuff with me! we were all cool then he hit me with a song he had wrote! he had origianly wanted me to hear it but my comp didnt have speakers so he sent me the lyrics! it was amazing lyrics it touched my heart but he didnt say that i was for me! so i read it he imed me like 20 times asking me if i had recived it and wanted my reaction! once again i panicked and retracted my emotions and played it as if i didnt understand the message he was trying to convey! like i liked the song and wanted to know who the artist was (knowing that he wrote it). he immediatly signed off! then greated me at work with a big smile the next day and asked me once again if i had recived the email! again i backed away! and now so di he! he wont talk to me as much anymore and insist on makeing me jelouse with the other female employees! meanwhile im standing hear with all these feelings and dont know wat to do! im in love with him so much it hurts i cant take it anymore he keeps telling me that my apolagies just arnt enough!can u pls tell me wat i should do! it hurts to have these strong feeling twords someone and not be sure that they feel the same way! i want to go back to when i was the real me!( wich he named lola)
sincerly,
lola( the real me)

well why dont you tell him all of your feelings and tell him you love him i mean it sounds like you do and maybe tell him that you did get the email and tell him the song was beautiful i mean i think he'd appreciate it. hope that helps
Hawthorne Heights freak

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Hey how long after you get your tonsils out, does it hurt for? I just got them out on monday and it still hurts really badly. Thanks will rate

It can hurt for awhile sometimes it can hurt for about a week or so depends on how fast you heal and stuff like that dont be worried if its only been a few days hope that helped
Hawthorne Heights Freak

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I probably just figured out every girls dreaded nightmare. I'm pregnant now. Im only 16... my family is abusive. My town is no place to be raising a baby. There is no one I can go to .... only my boyfriend cares. He really does. He isn't the hit and run type. He's going to drive me away... we'll have to get a place to live... he's saved up some money. I have NO choice but to leave... but can anyone just tell me some things I need to know to raise the baby right?

im only 14 but i know a lot of things about babys and there needs i babysat a lot so i think all you baby needs is a good home what i mean by that is no moking no abusive stuff going on in a good neighboorhood and get it what it needs and get a good job atleast one you know that will be good enough to support you you boyfriend and baby he should have one too and you shjould go to the doctor and get stuff to learn about childcare and dont do anything stupid like an abortion i mean your having this baby for a reason for you and your boyfriend get out of the place your at i mean you dont want people hurting your baby and atleast you have some money saved up and stuff just get away and raise it the beat wya you can and treat it right babys learn from their parents so you know be good like you want your kid to be.
keep your head up and just do what you can dont listen to other people and know that people will be there for you.
hope you do good with everything
hope i helped
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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ne ideas on how to tell a guy tyou like him, or how to ask him out somewhere where moeny aint exactly amazing?

The Movies The Park The Beach The Mall Something Like That

TO Tell Him That You Like Him Just Out Come Straight And Also Tell Him How Much You Like Him
Hope That Helped
HAWTHORNEHEIGHTSFREAK

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You dont have to know all the answers but i just want you to at least answer one

1) what movie was sisqo in?
2) whats the crash diet?
3) why do people eat only cottage cheese for like 2 weeks? (does it like help them burn fat or something?)
4) Then also is it true that you can get a flat tummy from eating only cottage cheese and drinking water for 2 weeks? (or at least get a flatter tummy?)

1. i dont know
2 you dont eat anythign but when you crash diet after your done with that you put on all the weight you lost + more
3.It helps you loose weight but you also have to exercise with it
4.yea i think so

Hope that helped
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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is their any way to get rid of freckals with out sergery or using make up like when i wash my face their not as noticeable and i dont got really notice able frecjkals but still i want them gone.

uhh the things that causes freckles is the sun so the thing to not have that many is to not go into the sun as long or as much and also i think there are freckle creams or something like that to get rid of freckles just go to the stores and look

Hope that helped
hawthorneheightsfreak

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Hello. I don't really know how this works, but I am taking a crack at it. Lately, I have been reading many sites that teenage girls like me have been making about anorexia. Most often then not they are praising it, but I have found few who tell me to look away. I am about to be 15 years old in a month. Soon, I am going back to school. I weigh 204lbs. Everyone tells me I don't look overweight, but its not just the way I look. I feel heavy. I feel sick and digusted, but I when I read these websites I get inspired to lose weight. Though, never to such an extreme as to starving myself. Are there any diets or tips out there that can help me? I'm feeling really inadequate.

Heres the thing when you loose weight from being anorexic you put on more weight then you ever were and way faster all you need to do is eat less eat healthier and drink like just water no sweets no soda and no juice unless it is fresh squeezed from organic fruit and organic fruit is really good for you.
i hope that helped
Hawthorne Heights freak

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I have really liked this guy for like 3 months or more. So then i went to a group were he was and we talked and then he asked me if i had a crush on him and i said "YES" then we stared going out. We only went out for 3 days but i still really like him. We are still good friends but then i asked him on the computer would you ever go out with me again and do you still like me he said he would probley never go out with me and likes me as a friend. I was fine with that but then i went to the group again and he totally ingored me. So from then on i ingored him then he e-mail me on the computer and asked me why i was ingoring him. (this was after a weeks of no talking). SO my question is why didn't he talk to me at group?? then i say him today and he also completly ingored me today too. so whats his problem?? please help i'm so confused...I RATE HIGH.oh and i also e-mailed him back and told him "because you didn't seem like you wanted to talk too me" he also read the e-mail befor he saw me today.. if that makes any diffrents.. THANK YOU

you should tell him how you feel on the situation and tell him that it didnt really bother you about him not going out with you again and that how he said you want you guys to be friends well hes not doing his part well anyways tell him that you just wanna be his friend and that your cool with fact and hopefully he listens and maybe he'll open up and tell you why he ignored you.
Hope that helped
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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ok.. i am 14 yrs old and weight 110LBS.. i don't really know if thats average.. I think i am fat because my belly is kind of big and my breasts are small and my butt is huge.. Am i over weight or am i the right weight.. PLease help thanks

ok you're not over weight but to get rid of that belly fat just work out at like a gym it tones up your body or just run or walk a lot or swim
Hope that helps

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i usally do arounf 100 sit-ups everyday( not at once, but like 20-20-20-20-20) and i was wondering, how long will it be untill i see resultes?!

Um well are you doing them correctly and you should have already seen results unless you only started like a week ago but also you need to eat right and do other exercises like walking swimming pushups running jogging and stuff like that. and also when your sweating when you gte a lot wipe it off so you can sweat more the more you sweat the more water weight and fat you loose and when you get a personal trainer or work out at a gym it helps a lot

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well there are those night where i cry n cry i just think about me dying. n i really am ready for death even though i will miss my family. no what you need to understand is i dont feel like this at day time only at night ill cry sometimes n i want to die. im not afraid of death im ready. ill talk to god n tell him yell( i talk to him from my mind) i wan to die. i dont need any profesionals to ehlp me. but y shouldnt i die u tell me?

You don need to kill yourself because a lot of people will miss you like family friends and everybody like that you're close to. and killing yourself is not the answer just figering out your problems and having people help you with them and maybe helping yourself figuring how to deal with them you know not everything will help but some things might go away and you might feel better
I hope this helped a lot you dont really need to die i hope you know that
hoping i helped you
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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ok im growing outm y hair im male and i wanna know some good hair styles so if you have any ideas tell me. thanks!

I think guys who just have straight long hair look really awsome. umm maybe go look at pictures of Billy Martin from Good Charlotte he has different long hairstyle styles so those might be good hairstyles for you.
Hope I helped
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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yah, this is kinda odd, but do brown and certain shades of pink go to gether,, and am i weird for wearing clothes that DONT match that well??

~!~*~jenna-skye~*~!~

Your not brown your just being yourself but kinda darkish lightish browns go with different types of pink so i dont think your weird but if other people do then thats just stupid of them they are not you and they just are jealous of how you look or something like that.
Hope that helps
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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okay well ill be 16 in less than a month, and already my family and friends are asking what i want... i have no idea... so i need some help on what to get for a 16 year old girl... i really want a car... but i doubt my parents will do that, and i was thinkin a tiffanys neckalce and one of those sequin purses... but what else is there?!! please help!!

Tell yuor parents you really really wany a car maybe they will buy you one. tell your friends to surprise you or you can go look around at malls and places too look at things and make a list of what you want so they will know and you can be happy with all your gifts
hope that helps
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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can anybody tell me the difference between karate and tae kwon do please and which invovles more kicking and punching

People keep telling me Tae Kwon Doe does so im going with what they say so yeah.

Hope that helps you
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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my eyeliner ALWAYS gets in the crease of my eye like 6 times after i put it on. help!

Maybe your putting it to close to the crease try not doing it so close but close enough.
Hope that helps
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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im going into the highschool next year and i heard that you have to carry like a little backpack around school.. i have a normal sized backpack like what you would wear to the middle school.. is that too big? what should i doo? like should i get one backpack to cary around school and the other for home? PLEASE HELP!

I dont think you do i think thats just somethign are saying because you have so many books and stuff were would you carry it thats kinda crazy i think people were just saying it because it might be a "trend".
well hope that helps
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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