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3 months for 3 days
I have really liked this guy for like 3 months or more. So then i went to a group were he was and we talked and then he asked me if i had a crush on him and i said "YES" then we stared going out. We only went out for 3 days but i still really like him. We are still good friends but then i asked him on the computer would you ever go out with me again and do you still like me he said he would probley never go out with me and likes me as a friend. I was fine with that but then i went to the group again and he totally ingored me. So from then on i ingored him then he e-mail me on the computer and asked me why i was ingoring him. (this was after a weeks of no talking). SO my question is why didn't he talk to me at group?? then i say him today and he also completly ingored me today too. so whats his problem?? please help i'm so confused...I RATE HIGH.oh and i also e-mailed him back and told him "because you didn't seem like you wanted to talk too me" he also read the e-mail befor he saw me today.. if that makes any diffrents.. THANK YOU
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=( This is a really sad story... try asking him why he wouldn't go out with you anymore rather than ignoring him. Ignoring him will only make it worse, maybe even destroy the relationship altogether, rather than patch it back up. What I'm saying you should do is (Yes, I took this from an episode of Full House) either:
-Make him list all your redeeming qualities in front of you, and then you list all of his
-List all of your own redeeming qualities in front of him, and then make him list all of his own
Hope I helped! =D And good luck getting back together!
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Hi there,
I'll answer question by question. "Why didn't he talk to me at a group" might be because he's embarrassed of his friend, and what I meant was not he embarrassed of you. It just guys you know they hang out with their friends and they don't want to get tease about you and all these things. So usually they pretend to ignore you and again guys, when you ignore them back some guy got the sense that something they used to own is slipping away. So they try to get your attention back. Three days, that's not long, but hey everything is possible. He might be confusing about how he's feel about you or he might just have things on his mind. It kinda hard to talk guys because basically when they have problem they want to be left alone. So I suggest you could just send him email and say something like you understand what was going and we're still friend and if there's anything he wants to talk about. You'll be there. and right now, just let him be don't run after him, cause it possible he could get annoy. But wait for him to call you first, or email you first. And we'll see how it goes after that.
Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-
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you should tell him how you feel on the situation and tell him that it didnt really bother you about him not going out with you again and that how he said you want you guys to be friends well hes not doing his part well anyways tell him that you just wanna be his friend and that your cool with fact and hopefully he listens and maybe he'll open up and tell you why he ignored you.
Hope that helped
HawthorneHeightsFreak
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