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can u get pregnant from giving bloow jobs? swallowing sperm>? help. (link)
You cannot get pregnant from giving a blowjob or from swallowing sperm. However, if any of the sperm got near your vagina afterwards (on your hand, or on his hand, etc), there is a small chance of pregnancy. However, this is pretty unlikely.

I hope this helps a little bit!


im a 21 year old male and my girlfriend is 19 and 8 months pregnant.She's thinks i dont find her attractive anymore because it seems like ive lost my sex drive!!what should i do?? (link)
Awwww somehow I loved your question since it was so sweet that you want to reassure her. I feel that when I finally have a baby, my significant other might not find me as attractive too, and he always reassures me that that is not true, but I think it's a very common worry.

If you aren't interested in sex right now, replace it with other sexual activities. Set up a romantic night that is all about her.. candles, fluffy pillows, massage oils, etc. Just pay attention to her all evening.

At 8 months pregnant she is probably extra emotionally sensitive, so you probably will have to work a little harder than usual.

Good luck, and congratulations on the baby!


Is it true that not eating can make you GAIN weight rather than lose it?

(it's not that I'm planning on not eating, it's just a question) (link)
If you just quit eating altogether, you would not GAIN weight. If your body is not taking in nutrients, it cannot get larger. It will just waste away.

However, when you are not eating, your metabolism slows down, which means it takes longer for your body to burn the fat that is already has. So if you didn't eat for a while, and then you started eating the same as you did to stay at your weight before, you would gain, since your body would metabolise the food slower.

Confusing, I know! I hope that helps!


Okay, I'm 13, weigh about 160, and am about 5'1". I have a flabby tummy and legs and I'd really like to get rid of this as fast as possible!!! Can someone either give me a list or show me to a website that has a list of foods that are healthy for me and would help me lose weight? I know about fruits and veggies, but what about other snacks? I've heard pretzels are ok, but what else? Oh, and what are some good streches and exercises? Thank you guys so much!!!! (link)
The best rule is that you have to eat FEWER calories each day than your body needs to keep ittself going. That way it will dip into your body's own supply of fat in order to keep running, which makes you lose weight.

http://walking.about.com/cs/calories/l/blcalcalc.htm

The above website is a good way to figure out how many calories you should be eating in a day. For a few days, keep a food diary of what you are eating, and then figure out afterwards how many calories each day you eat. http://www.calorieking.com is a good place to check the calories in food. You can also check on the boxes of most foods.

Also, you can cut out little things without hardly noticing the difference. For example, if you are drinking soda, switch to diet. Neither one is good for you, but at least diet has almost zero calories. Also, if you normally butter your bread when you make a sandwich, stop using the butter (or cutdown a lot). You'll hardly taste a difference, and you'll save 50+ calories on each sandwich! Keep an eye out for other tricks like that that can really help.

Good luck, and don't obsess, weightloss is a slow process. :)


Ok I was talking to this boy that I like online, and tomorrows the last day of school and we have a half day so he asked me if I want to come over his house tomorrow. So I was like yea and I asked what he wants to do..and he was like I don't know we could watch a movie, makeout, have sex, or I will eat you out! and im like um ok..I really want to go but I don't really know if I want to have sex with him I mean I do want to but I don't...its really confusing. But he says its totally up to me up to me..so what should I do? Thanks iLL rate hiGH!!! (link)
I think that if you go, even if it goes well, you're setting yourself up to be in a situation where this guy thinks he can use you for sex/make outs. If he upfront told you you might have sex, he knows that you are willing if you show up. He doesn't sound too nice. I suggest finding yourself a nice guy, and waiting until you are SURE you want to have sex before doing it.

Good luck!


i have a party in like 30 minutesz & i just noticed my bikini line is like all red bumpsz n shit .. is there anyway to get rid of it or no ?! ahh i seriously need help iLL RATE G0OD !! (link)
I know my answer might be late, but useful for next time maybe?

There's a product called Bikini Zone that you can get at most drugstores that really helps.

Also, have a pair of boyshort bikini bottoms around for emergencies.

Good luck!




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