Ok I was talking to this boy that I like online, and tomorrows the last day of school and we have a half day so he asked me if I want to come over his house tomorrow. So I was like yea and I asked what he wants to do..and he was like I don't know we could watch a movie, makeout, have sex, or I will eat you out! and im like um ok..I really want to go but I don't really know if I want to have sex with him I mean I do want to but I don't...its really confusing. But he says its totally up to me up to me..so what should I do? Thanks iLL rate hiGH!!!
fall_to_pieces answered Thursday June 16 2005, 4:18 am: slap him. good grief...what a perv.
if you don't know if you want to have sex with him, then don't. you will regret it in the long run. just watch a movie and make out or something if you really want to. just don't have sex...its not worth it. [ fall_to_pieces's advice column | Ask fall_to_pieces A Question ]
9lamb2 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 1:53 am: I think that if you go, even if it goes well, you're setting yourself up to be in a situation where this guy thinks he can use you for sex/make outs. If he upfront told you you might have sex, he knows that you are willing if you show up. He doesn't sound too nice. I suggest finding yourself a nice guy, and waiting until you are SURE you want to have sex before doing it.
LoveCouldntBeAnyBetter answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 8:50 pm: if you're not 100% sure that you want to do it then dont, because chances are you arent ready for it and if hes just a friend then it probably isnt a good idea to get physically involved because it normally screws everything up.
K2204 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 8:42 pm: dont go! sounds like this boy knwos what he wants, so dont put yourself in a position that you are not going to be able to get out of.
if you do go, make sure that you already know in your mind what you want to do, and how fat you want to do, and make sure that you stick to it, bring a cell phone, and keep it with you at all times, so you can call if you need help!
FoxyBeFun answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 8:20 pm: dont do anything you dont want to!!!!! If hes a good guy and you tell him you dont want to have sex he should listen. If you are having doubts about it I wouldnt because then you might regret it later.
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LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 8:15 pm: dont do anything you dont want to do!! tell him what you will do and what you wont do. if you wanna make out then do it, that doesnt mean he has to eat you out. if youre confused, it means no until further notice. hope this answers it. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
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