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My name`s Elizabeth. I have an assload of nicknames & the best one to call me is `Lizbeth`. I`m 17 years old & was born in Brooklyn, NY but I have lived in Atlanta, GA most of my life. I`m pretty cute lil girl - 5`3, about 105 lbs, blue eyes, strawberry blonde hair & 34 "C" cup bust. I`m a strange mix of nationalities: Northern Italian, French, German, Irish & Spanish. I`m random, hyper, creative, witty, somewhat nervous/shy, open-minded, kinky, romantic, athletic & a major partier (if there`s alcohol... I`m there!) I love sports & working out. I also love to do some serious shopping, writing, reading & dancing. I listen to just about every genre of music. My main interest is Criminal Justice, Forensic psychology & basically the whole Forensic field. I
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My hair is dry && damaged. How do I get it to have that soft sorta oily coating on it to make it smooth. I've tried Treseme, Garnier, Herbal Essance, and Pantene and I still have hair that feels like straw!! (link)
if nothing else works, try Mane N` Tail shampoo and conditioner. They replinish your hair with important nutrients and keep it shiny, easily manageable full and healthy looking.
♥Lizbeth


when having sex with my boyfriend after a few mins my vagina starts hurting like sometimes I have to ask him to stop, I've been checked for STDs and I do not have any but sex is still very painful sometimes, what could it be? (link)
sex, can be painful! your boyfriend`s penis may be too big or he`s "pounding" too hard.
ask some experts on sex about what could be going on. you may just have a small hole that will take time to adjust to different size penis`s, nothing wrong with that!
I highly doubt its an STD!
♥Lizbeth


umm how is anal sex does it really hurt? and can it mess with my....you know when i go to the bathroom? lol i need to know (link)
First of all, your ass isn`t meant to have anything shoved in it.. duh!
please stay away from anal sex because:
yes, it hurts, it isn`t good for you & can cause rupture & bleeding of the anus & no, you don`t get the same pleasure that you get from vaginal sex.
it`s really not worth it & if a guy wants to preform it on you... he may as well be gay!
♥Lizbeth


ok, i was that girl who asked about masterbation and stuff-do you know how to do it? like things to try and stuff? (link)
Hey, I found a pretty good website that tells you "the ropes" & gives you tips on how to masturbate & get as much pleasure as possible.
check it out if you`d like - http://www.masturbation-techniques.net/
also, search on Yahoo! Health.
hope this helps some!
♥ Lizbeth


OK, I was on vacation for the last 4 days and I went swimming each of them. This pool had way too much chlorine in it. Anyway, I've been washing my hair as best as possible, but it still feels sticky and strange. What can I do? (link)
I`d reccomend Mane 'n Tail shampoo & conditioner to keep your hair healthy & shiny.
It`s the best stuff ever & helps to keep your hair shiny, full & easily managable.
♥Lizbeth


ok, i here from my friends its ok, but im confused, are girls allowed to masterbate? like how many girls do? does anyone here? please help! (link)
masturbation is healthy & can be fun.
Just don`t get too obsessed with it if you start. Meaning, don`t let it keep you away from doing things you really SHOULD be doing or hanging with friends.
It can be a nice way to help you fall asleep at night, too!
♥Lizbeth


Ive had sex wit one guy and everything and Ive been on top and done the whole reg. position. But I wanna know how many positions are there, what are they, and how they work? People always ask me what muh fav. position is and I have no idea. Im not that experienced so I have no idea. I juss wanna know so I wont look stupid in any way and I can know for muhself..Thanks! Hope you all can help me

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there are 596456045640 damn sex positions, be creative & do it which ever way makes you comfortable & gives you the most pleasure.
as you & him have sex, you`ll try different positions & also in different places ;)
sex is so much fun if you make sure its safe & you`re not doing it for acceptance, to make your guy happy... & blah, blah, blah!


I was three days late for my period so I took two home pregnacy test and they both came up with a very faint positve. I then got my period like an hour after I took the second one. Is it possible that the test were wrong or can you be pregnate and still get your period? (link)
Don`t listen to anyone that tells you that you can have your period when you`re pregnant.
The TOTAL TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH is, you CAN`T.
your uterus isn`t cleaning itself out anymore (that`s the purpose of your period) because if you`re pregnant, an egg is growing in your uterus and it can`t flush itself out with a growing egg.
Take note that sometimes home pregnancy tests mess up.


this might be an odd question but when did some of you girls like what age where you when you stared to wear a thong? i know this is wired but i just need to know.
ill rate high if you answer (link)
I was 13.


O.K. I'm not trying to be nasty or anything but my boob is like really sore and it has been sore for like 2 days now. What should I do? (link)
some possibilities:
1.) it could be growing.
2.) sometimes a woman`s boobs become sore before or even after her period.
3.) you could have hit it or somehow hurt it & you didn`t notice until now.
I`m sure its nothing serious, if it keeps hurting for the next few days... ask your mom to take you to the doctor!
♥Lizbeth


i'm just gettin into wrestling, can anyone give me some tips? i'm about 195lb, mostly muscle. i'm pretty fast and flexable, or relatively so. so anyone can give me some tips? (link)
Seriously practice good concentration & make sure your eyesight is perfect (with or without contacts/glasses)
also, make sure you stay away from alcohol, drugs & basically anything else that can mess up mental capacity and judgement.
have fun, I love wrestlers ;)
♥Lizbeth


well, i dont no wat category this question should be under....but oh well....
ok, well someone told me my boyfriend wants to get 'head' from me....and i hav no clue wat she means?!?....
wat does it mean "get 'head' from me"?? (link)
"get head" is a short way of saying perform oral sex on him (aka. suck his penis)
If you don`t want to do it, or are not ready... tell him.
♥Lizbeth


Well next week my brother's going to college..But not a normal college.. he's going to the naval academy. So basically my question is to all of those who have friends at/or were at the naval academy.. ha well it's not a question. Just encourgment that everything's going to be alright. I'm going to miss him sooooo much..any good ways to help me deal with it? What would be good in a care package? And what about a grad. gift? He can barely have anything there! Blah any tips or ideas about anything would be soo appreciated thanks! (link)
Care packages are awesome ways to remind your friend/family member in service that you care about them & wish them the best.
I sent my cousin Mike Voccia a care package when he was serving in the Air Force. It included pictures of me, me & him, & other family members; also, gummi bears & other snack foods he enjoys & most likely won`t be able to eat while serving.
I`d advise you to send your brother anything special of his such as his favorite snack foods, pictures, books, comics, etc.
Also, a note to him would be nice, too!
♥Lizbeth




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