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Q: hi im curious to know what you think about penis size. Is it the bigger the better or do you think it matters? and is is possible to have to big of a penis? what is the average size and how many inches do you prefer? thank you so much
For me, i like them about average size in my oppinion average size would be like 6 or 7 inches but i'm not sure.And it is possible to have to big of a penis, if the penis is too big it could be painful.


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Q: My BF and me had sex once and everytime I try to have sex again he tells me he doesnt want to. Does that mean hes shy or something?

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He's probably shy, or he may feel he cant pleasure you or that his penis is too small.Talk to him


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Q: Hey are you on myspace?
Yes

Q: Sorry if im asking you alot of questions but i feel really comfertable asking you and you give great advice. you really listen and you no what your talking about. well the same guy i like for a year, we talked 3 way with me him and my close friend who is best friend with my crush. i told him my feelings and he took it cool. do u think i should call him and tell him, " the reason im telling you this stuff is because i trust u as my friend"??? And should i call him every once in awhile to get to know him better??
Yes you should. If it seemed he took it cool you should feel comfortable calling him. But if you call him and you say "Call me back." and he never does, don't call him anymore. But if he does you can call him just don't over do it. And ask him to hang out also that's another way to get to know him better.


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Q: when do you think is the appropriate age to have sex?
I dont think theres an "Appropriate" age to have sex.Everyone's different.Some people believe in waiting until marriage some don't.I lost my virginity when I was 15, and it felt right for ME.That doesn't mean it would feel right to someone else.


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Q: whats your favorite position?
The guy chained to the headboard and me riding him backwards.

Q: does it hurt to use a dildo? how do you know how far to go in? how often do you use one?
If you're a vrigin it might hurt because you'll probably be popping your cherry.You put it as far in as it feels good.I dont use dildos i use vibrators and i use it alot.


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Q: I have had a crush on this guy for about year. and the last time i talked to him he said he found me hott but he could only see me as a friend. how can i play hard to get and get closer to him?
From my experience playing hard to get does not make guys want you.It makes they feel that you are stuck up or just not interested in him. Tell this guy that you like him, and if he says he only wants to be friends you have to accept that.Maybe eventually it will grow to more than just friendship.


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Q: im 15/fi have trouble putting in a tampon it seems like theres no hole for it to go in can you give me tips on how to put it in? ive read the instructions that came with it but it didnt help
Well there has to be a hole, all women have a vagina "hole".If you've had your period, the whole that you put the tampon in is where your blood comes out.Its between your uretha(where your pee comes out) and your anus.Keep touching that area eventually you will find it.And obviously you are a virgin which is why the whole is so small so use the lowest absorbancy tampons and make sure you put your tampon in when your vagina is wet(I think you know what I mean).Keep practicing.It took me putting in and taking out about 24 tampons before I could get the hang of it, and after that it felt uncomfortable for about 4 days then I got used to it. It's normal to feel uncomfortable at first, but not painful.If you have any more q's dont be afraid to ask


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Q: ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me
If it's at school tell your principle.And also tell your parents/Guardian.


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Q: is there a cure for pubic lice?
Use the same stuff on your pubic hair as your head hair i guess?


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Q: im so horney what do i do?
Masturbate


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Q: Alot of my friends have made out with alot of guys and even sometimes girls. but i havent made out with a boy or anyone at all. I have unwrapped a starburst with my tongue. but i really want to no how you make out, so when i have my first i wont get embarresed and feel immature for not being a good kisser.


btw, your advice is amazing! It has really helped me!!!
Well contrary to popular belief kissing is not as complicated as unwrapping a starburst with your tongue i cant even do that and im a great kisser!It really comes natural, just make sure you're relaxed and let him lead since it's your first time, dont use tongue until he put his tongue inside your mouth then just rub your tongue against your tongue and the kissing will come naturally, it's instinct.And put your arms around his neck and play with his hair.They like that:-)

oh and thanks!

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Q: how do you masterbate?
how do you get an orgasm?
what is oral sex & anal sex?
and you are really pretty, kthanksbye.
There are many ways to materbate.You can either rub your vagina with your hand,use your fingers to stick into your vagina,use a vibrator/dildo.Just do one of those until you reach orgasm, you'll know when you do.Oral sex is when a girl gives a guy "head" (lick/sucks his dick) and a guy licks a girls vagina. Thanks


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Q: hi what things should i take to my grandmas house because i have to basically live with her for a month
please help!
Your clothes,CDS/CD Player,DVDS,Makeup,ect.


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Q: 13/m
i was at a party last night with mostly freshman and this girl who used to date my friend was there and shes my age. different schools but anyways...everyone was outside and we stayed inside and talked on the couch. i guess you could call it flirting but i dont wana come on too strong, so what do you suggest i do? should i tell her i like her? by the way shes very very attractive ;)
Yeah definately tell her! The worst that could happen is she says she doesn't like you, but not everyone will always like everyone.You wont get anywhere in life if you dont take chances (trust me i know ive taken lots of them) so go with your heart.

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Q: everytime i change my underwear,it smells down there what is it?
It could be a yeast infection.Or it could be because you don't clean yourself good enough.


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Q: what's the normal height and weight of a 13 year old because I'm 5'1 and I weigh 95 pounds
Well there's no "Normal height". When i was 13 I was taller than you. But since you're 5'1, the healthy weight range for you is 106-118 pounds.


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Q: What is your opinion of hippies?
I think highly of them. They care about nature, and people and peace.What's not to like about them?But everyone's oppinion is different.But I think theyre pleasant people, I have a few hippie friends.


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Q: Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do?
You're Bi-Curious.Meaning it doesn't mean you're lesbian or bi-sexual, but you are curious to experiment.Most girls start getting very curious at the age of 13/14, i was too.It's normal.


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Hey my name is Christine, i'm 22, im a model/makeup artist and I've been alot of places,been through alot of things so I know I can help you no matter what the problem is.Don't be afraid to ask me anything.You can also IM me on aim (ILivvOnElmStreet).Also check out my upcoming website www.forbiddenxo.com
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My interests are Poetry,80's rock and metal,Movies,Italian Mafia,Modeling,Makeup design,and.....~*Charlie Manson*~ and im not afraid to admit it.Oh yeah make sure u rate my advice after i answer your questions





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