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The first impression one may get without speaking to me is that I'm the stereotypical girl in today's society. I am anything, but the typical wordly girl. From past experiences, I have come to a realization in my life that nothing will fullfill your life, except God. Throughout these times, I have grown up quite fast and act on my future, not my present. In life, I follow the direction that most people tend to forget. Many people are oblivious to the importance of life. Coming from a less-than-picture-perfect side of life, I try to correct my life and set a purpose for myself. Through the many disappointments I've encountered in my life, I steer away from being a "victim" from my past. Thus, being a stronger, wiser, & more independent person. I live the clean life, and don't fall to anything other. I am learning to be comfortable in my own skin. I have made a commitment, to live a life of purity and with a self image that is based upon God's design.



There's a time in your life when you realize that everything in your life was a test to predict your future. I've held bitterness to a lot of situations, but have come to realize, that forgiveness is what shapes an individual to be a better person. I may have been hurt & disappointed by many, but I still continue to pray for those. I still care about them. I can't hate anyone because that's not who I am. Hearts have been broken, tears have been shed, but you realize what you wanted and hoped for, wasn't meant to be; it wasn't how your life was planned. A simple clich�???????????�??????????�?????????�????????�???????�??????�?????�????�???�??�?�© : I do forgive, but I don't forget.



I find myself learning to deal with constant criticism. Many people find ways to think and say negative things, but none of it soaks it. I strive to be a better & more independent person each and every day. One of my main focus' in life is to show girls, you can be sexy, but classy, and have morals and high standards at the same time. I love and life for God, anyone who disapproves of my beliefs will only be ignored. People tend to find trust in me quite quick because I'm genuine, and hide nothing. I accept my imperfections, which therefore, guides me through life on an easier route. This is me, and everything is sincere.




Other than that, I have a fiesty & protective personality when I feel I am being provoked or judged. I immediately put up a wall. My first approach is "kill them with kindness", but if it continues, I'm a spitfire. I am very protective over my family & friends. I do anything I can to protect them. Typically with guys, I find it hard to get along with. I'm not the girl who loves to flirt and see how many hook-up's I can get. I don't need it to boost my self-esteem, I get enough attention without. Anyone who isn't aquainted with maturity, will annoy me to death. I'm a fun girl - don't get me wrong, but I'm wise beyond my years. I'm at the point where I feel I have already fullfilled my teenage years, and I'm ready for "The Real World". Life isn't a competition; it is not a popularity contest, or a game to see how many people find you attractive. It's a priveledge God gives you, that many take advantage of.









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My friend changed my "Skin" on Limewire to the Pink Theme. I don't like it so I changed it back to the classic theme, but the original font won't come back! Its stuck on the font that came with the Pink Theme.

How do I get the orginal font back?
Thanksyaa

try unistalling limewire and after you do that try re installing it. that might help.

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i already have a big butt but im a very small person, 5ft2 but i have a great body. i just have a little bellly and i wanna make it muscle, my boyfriend says its cute but i want it2 be muscle. wat should i do to have a big butt like black girls and aflat stomach but keep the rest of my form

crunches, squats, lunges, most of all running. all of that will get you where you want. its not easy but its going to be worth it.

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Hye um when I was searching about how to get rid of camel toes I came across a page where you answered the same question saying to wear pants that aren't so tight. Well, I got a question similar to that if you don't mind. Well what if it's for swimming? my friend and I were tlaking about like wearing bikini's but like that's like wearing bra and underwear and you can see so I'm gonna wear shorts but clothes get tighter when they're wet so is there a way?

well my best advice to you is go for a bikini type of bathign suit that has this little shirt thing or the bottoms, its not long at at but just enough to cover up camel toes. hope i helped

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If I shower with my straightner in the bathroom, when I get out of the shower, the straightner is all wet, because of the moisture. Is this bad for my striaghtner?

yeah deffinitly do your hair in your room or something the bathrroom and moisture isnt really good for the straightener. over time the moisture can make the straightener rustt up.

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Hello
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I am dyeing my hair tommorow with
Loreal color rays and I wanted to know if anyone has used this dye. My main concern is that i dont want my hair to become really dry and damaged and burned up and i wanted to know if this product can really ruinhair. I also wanted to know if anyone had good results with this dye.
well thanks for you help bye.

i know this question is about loreal hair dye but i sugget going to a salon for the best results because ive dyed my hair in the past and at home hair dye kits just dont seem to work as well as when a professional does it

......HEY HUN me againn i just wanted to say that yes it is possible for your hair to dry out when you die it i know mine does now that its completely bleached blonde i suggest using a deep conditioning productive that you leave in your hair for x amounts of minutes...thats would help greatly

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What does it exactly mean to be high maintenance ?? People have called me it once. & I just dont know what it exactly means. Thanks for the help

its like when you want more and dont settle for less. its like you want the best, nothing wrong with it hunn

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When you're on your period, you're supposed to be eating a lot more than you usually do, right?

actually you can because when your on that time of the month you get cravings as well as bloat. so it cant hurt.

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this is really random but when did the razor phones start coming out?

im guessing between mid 2005 and noww. it just depends on what color and service...all of them came out at different times.

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is there a better way to put an image off the computer onto a shirt than ironing it on?

in my area (san diego) there are actually places that make t shirts with images on them as well as airbrushing them. your best bets are to look aroundd town for them or try looking them up on yahoo yellow pages.

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do guys like it better when you like shave tha sides of your vegina and leave a pubic hair strip down the middle, or shave it all?

no one can actually answer this question with the right answer but whatever you are comforable with hun. dont change yourself just for a guy

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does anyone know why my itunes will not open? i have tried reinstalling it but it will not work so any tips?

try restoring your computer to a time it worked that may help you. if that doesn't work try reinstalling it once again. i think that might be the trick. restoring works for me everytime.

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sorry i didn't know what catagory to put this in.

ok i'm 13 and i just got a straightener. i heard that if you use it too much your hair gets really dry and it's unhealthy...so for people that straighten your hair...how many times would be too much? like how many times could you straighten your hair in a week without it becoming unhealthy? thx!

yes it is true that if you straighten it too much it can get dry and the hair does eventually break off.

you should use a ceramic straightener to reduce breakage of the hair those are the best.

as well as that you should use a spray that has silicone in it because it takes the heat away from your hair but at the same time it straightens your hair.

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HEY! What are some good april fools day tricks? Any good ideas? April Fools is my favorite holiday!

if someones taking a bath make sure theres bubbles in it and put a snickers bar in it.

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how do people make spades on the internet. like on myspace or aim?

♠

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me and my two friends are planning on making a time capsol but we dont know what we should put in it. so far we're putting in surveys that we took and a picture of else. what else should we put in it?

maybe certain clothing that was in at this time, maybe cd's, jewelryy, movies, those types of things that remind you of your friendship.

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what can happen if u suck helium out of a balloon?

it supposed to kill brain cells. but other than that it could make you high and have a funny voice for a few seconds.

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I'm not huge, but I've put on some weight this winter because I didn't do a winter sport. Does anyone have any outfit ideas that are cute and trendy but conceal the front stomach area? [i.e. nautical, etc].

15 Female if it helps.

try layering your clothes like cute tank top with lace on the bottom of it underneath a top or tshirt that always helps me.

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can you get a new sn thats not triton, because when i click the button that says get a new sn after i fill the thing out it says download aim triton, and i dont want it its gayy lol.
soo are there any other ways other than download.com because i dont want to install a while other thing.
thanksssss

if you mean a different im other than triton here it is go here

http://canada.aol.com/aim/aim55/

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so i am a female at age 13 going on 14. and about a month ago when i was working on a project with two guys(nerds). anyways he started asking why i had a mastache. and yes everyone has hair their but it shouldnt be noticable like this is? how do i get rid of this problem?
please dont say ignore them
xoxo KML

never shave it. it will only make it worse. try waxing it.

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i have stretch marks around my nipples and on my upper thighs near my butt, how can i get rid of them? and are they normal?

they usually fade away. try puttinh lotion or cocoa butter on them it helps !

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