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Hey, My name is Sara. Im probably the most down to earth girl u will ever meet. I am a highschool studentt and i lovee being with my friends. I love to hang out, party, go out to eat,chill, watch t.v anything. I hate the cold weather. I love summertime, mini skirts flip flops beaches vacation all of tht. I also have a facebook. Message me if you want it. I hate it when people lie. It doesnt do anything, it just makes matters worse. I dont ike to repeat myself.
I am very sarcastic. but in a good way. i speak 3 different languages. Im not the brightest crayon in the box.
advice
I have been rude, mean, and bitchy to guys and to my family. Also, online, I have been kind of slutty to guys. I want to change, I want to be nice and kind and not slutty. How can I do it, I try but I'm so used to being rude and slutty and stuff. Please help!
Its hard to put bad habits aside. But its good to see that you want to change for the best. First of all, start by apologizing to your family and friends, and have more of a possitive attitude. During dinner or something, talk to your family about there day or whatever topic. Say " thank you, Please" all that nice proper stuff.
To be nice- apologize to your friends Tell them, " Im really sorry for the way i have acted before in the past, But i want to start a new different way. I hope you can forgive me" . Then if you hang out with ur friends do something THEY want to do.If you ever get upset or furious TRY to hold it in. Keep your mean thoughts in your head and then later on in the day you could go up to your room when ur by yourself and let yourself explode.
Also. Try to gain your friends trust. And talk to them about your change. It really helps.
-xo
my hair is so boring and i do the same styles all the time. what are some cute summer hairstyles i can do easy with my hair? (pictures would be good)
p.s-my hair is right at my boobs. wavy without straightening it.
I RATE HIGH. = )
A cute summer hairstyle that you could try is the ' Goddess Braids '
http://www.focusonstyle.com/frontrow/sp05hairstylesbraisworthington.htm
You take a chunk of hair on either your left or right side [ which ever side you part with] and brain down. Then clip it or tuck it beneath your hair.
or you can also try the ' fishtail braid '
http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/articles/0,,625851_694251,00.html
If you want more ideas Check out Seventeen
http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/0,,,00.html
i was raped when i was younger and i don't know what to do anymore it haunts me in my sleep. I think about it all the time and when i see any of the guys that did that to me i freak out i start crying and they were all over five years ago so i can't go to the police and tell them i was raped i don't know any of the guys names. All i know is that they used to date my mom and when i told my mom that they were doing that to me she didn't believe me. I am now in foster care and i don't ever see my mom. But that fact that i was raped is scary and i need all the help and advice that i can get. so please anyone help me.
Wow, Im very sorry to hear that. You have oviously been threw alot. Being raped is serious, you should never hold it back. But in your case you did tell ur mom, but she didnt believe you.
I consider for you to go to a therapist to talk out your feelings. It helps alot.
&& Also, try to keep your mind on other things, [ i know its hard] but hang out more with your friends, do sports. Anything.
Your not alone. Theres always help =]
Is making out and french kissing the same thing? Or can you make out without french kissing?
haha, French and making out are basically the same thing. But French kissing is more tongue on tongue action, with alot of spit exchange.
Making out could also mean like kissing, a few pecks here and there on the lips.
is it safe to give my dog frosted flakes or cheerios?
dont give him frosted flakes, but plain CHeerios are good because they are just made out of whole grain and wheat. Frosted Flakes and sugar and that might hurt your dogs stomache a little.
Is it weird to have a 3 year age difference between me and my boyfriend? Like 15 and 18?
nop, its not weird at all. Your boyfriend is more mature and may tend to get a little more sexual then you hope for him to. If he pressures you to have sex, then do whats best for you, just be careful =]
well...im female, and 15 years old.
i'm not very popular, but i wouldnt say im a geek either.
i really dont feel like i have any friends. im sort of friends, or what you would call aquiantences (sp) with probably 15 people, but i dont actually feel like i have someone to be there for me when i need it.
school really sucks. nobdoy call tell though. i always act hyper and friendly but its beginning to get harder lately, just because.
i would like to know if other people feel like this...or if its just me. adivce would be nice too. sorry if i sound depressed or something. i dont think i am, just the place im in right now does not fit very well with my personality.
thanks for your time :)
ps.
please dont say join clubs or something to get new friends because my school is very small. i could name every single student in my grade. most of the upperclassman too. i know everyone...so yeah
Your not the only one, Some times now and then i feel like that too. I dont mean to sound concited [ sp ]
but throughout my school im known as the silly goofy happy girl that knows basically everyone in the grade. Just beacuse you know alot of people doesnt mean you actually trust those people.
Now and then its hard to realise whats real and whats not. So get closer with your aquantanses [ sp, i suck =p] or like talk with some of your classmates and hangout . Its not weird at all. But make sure atleast you know the person first , and then hangout. Go to the mall or watch a movie. Anything thats good for you.
And I understand why it is getting harder and harder for you to be more hyper and free, its because you have no one to share it with. If you try out the things i tell you im sure things will end up peachy. Comment back if you need more info or have any [??]
im 17 years old. im abut 5'4/5'5
&& i weigh a litte over 120 lbs
im going to the beach in 2 weeeks, and i was wondering if there is any possible way to get down to at least 110lbs by then
im not the kind of girl that runs. trust me, ive tried, and i just cant do it.
pleaseee give me all the advice and tips you guys possibly have.
ill love you forever and ever [:
thanks in advance!
♥
2 weeks is a very short time to slim down by 10 pounds or so.
I suggest working out everyday. A couple of crunches here and there and some but squatz. Do about 20 crunches and work your way up by five.
1st Day - 20
2-25
3-30...
and so on. I know its alot but in 2 weeks it can really help.
Or heres an idea, try the special K challenge. Replace your food with Special K for 2 weeks and you will loose an inch or so on your waist and you will slim down by a few pounds. [ as the other girl suggested]
Have a great time at the beach!
Hey guys
My birthday is coming up in September and I want to do something really fun and special. The only problem is there are a lot of people that I would invite and my family does not have the money for an expensive party. I can't pick and choose between friends and I already did a bbq at my house last year. Please help my family is on a tight budget so it has to be pretty cheap! Thanks
♥
I Know i hate choosing between my friends as well. Its not fun.
1)you could throw a party at your house. The only expenses are food,DJ and maybe some decorations here and there. Total? hmm 200$
2) Sleepovers are always fun. Get together with some of your ladyfriends and do your nails, read magazines, talk about boys, make your own Home Spa? Be creative.
Thats all i can think of now, But tell me if you need anything or if you have any questions ♥
I have a real problem here. My face is square and big! I have a small frame and hence my face looks kind of out of proportion to my body.
Can anyone tell me is there any way to make my face smaller ? Something logical , can be applied and please dun suggest plastic surgery. Thanks!
Haha, if you want to make ur face a little smaller and more " proportional" to the rest of you body, I suggest get a new haircut. It can be tricky,with a square face shape you need short or medium length hairstyle.Curly and wavy styles will give some roundness around your face, to make it seem alot smaller.Layers will soften your square face and height at the crown will make your face look longer.
Try some of those and see how it works out =]
okay so theres this boy and i REALLY LOVE him..im only 13 and people tell me i dont really know what love is but like love isnt a maybe thing right..? yeah.. you know if you love someone and i do love him but he used to act like he liked me but now he doesnt anymore it it makes me really sad..i feel like im not good enough but all my friends tell me im to good for him..( but hey their suppose to right? ) i think another part is hes 2 grades ahead of me..but he also is my neighbor and were kinda friends i guess but i want to tell him hwo i feel but i dont know if he will feel the same and it would make things akward..so what should i do? please help
I have been in that exact postition before. In Middle school i was in love with this boy for 3 years. But i never told him how i felt and i regret it everyday.
Its a fact, that guys like it when girls tell them if they like them in PERSON. Online and phone are okay, but you really wanna see the expression on his face. Its better to tell him how you feel then keeping it all bottled up and regreting it. The worst that can happen is that he could be like , " We should just be friends". Thats alright too! Working your way up is much better than going to fast. Talk to him alot like when you see him, but dont overdo it.
If you want to tell him how you feel [ stronly recomend] then say this " Hey ______, I think you should know that i am starting to get feelings for you, but i hope this doesnt weirden out our friendship, because to me our friendship means alot" Be confident. DONT STUDDER. Stay it, and since he is older he will be very impressed, he will see you have GUT.
In my past crush, i told him how i felt about him and he was really impressed he told me that I did a good thing and he was happy!
Tell me how it works out =]
ok well over the last few days i got a really bad sunburn! but only on my face well now its staring to peel! and now i have like light blotches everywhere!!! all over my face! does any1 know wut i can use to get rid of it???
please help asap!!
Sunburn is very tricky. Aloe Vera is the best soothing cream. Stay out of the sun for awhile until it gets better, then whenever you go out in the sun make sure you use SPF 15/30, reaply every once and awhile
and make sure you get new sunblock every 6-9 months , after sunblock has been not used in a period of time it looses it effectiveness. So be on the safe side and stock up one sunlotion every once in awhile.
I just found out that there is going to be a ten year highschool reunion for my grad class this august. I said I was going to go and already sent the check in the mail. Well I looked at the website for who is already signed up to go and this guy that was really popular who I was madly in love with is going to be there. He knew I liked him and treated me like dirt. I still get nightmares sometimes. I've changed alot since school. My question is how can I be less nervous when I go and have to see him? Also how should I act around him?
Be confident. If he treated you like dirt, he doesnt deserve your time. DONT approach him.But who knows, maybe he has changed? Make him make the first move. If he comes up and starts talking to you, play it cool and smooth just act normal and say " Hey, How have you been" Start catching up on things, but dont go to fast. If he asks you out to dinner or whatever, respond by saying " Oh I Don't Know, I have been pretty busy lately, I will call you when i can"
That way he can see that you arent anxious. =]
Hey, I am 14 years old and I eat very healthily and wash my face morning and evening but i get really greasy skin. I have several shine-absorbing products from garnier that work extremely well immediately but then after a few hours i have shiny blotches around the t-zone area. I hate coming home, looking in the mirror and finding a greasy shine on my nose and around my face and i wonder what Ive been looking like throughout the day. Is there any facial products or natural ways of reducing the shininess of my face that are guaranteed brilliant results?
ty x luv rachel
My friend introduced me this facial wax paper that whipes all the grease and dirt under your skin preventing it to show up later in the day.
You can get this facial wax paper at " THE BODY SHOP" or " BATH AND BODY WORKS"
they are great! i love them
I want to redecorate my room. First though, I have to pick a comforter to base the rest of the room on. I've looked almost everywhere online and I just can't find something I love! I'm one of those really original people... I'm having a hard time finding something that screams "me". Can anyone help me find something to fit me?
I like almost every color... I really wanted a pink and black theme but I don't know. I like blue, green, purple, pink, orange, white...
I just want something kinda original looking. maybe something "psychedelic"? If you're bored and like this kind of stuff, I would really really appreciate your help!
Im redecorating my room as well. Although my theme is pink and purple. I found a great comforter online at www.pbteen.com
If that doesnt work for you Try
bombay kids/ teens. They have a huge varity of different and unique colors. ;)
ok so abot 4 weeks ago i cracked my collar bone. And it dosn't really hurt anymore but there is this huge bump. It's not supposed to be healed for about another week and a half but i'm worried is this gunna go away?
thanks
Bones are ment to heal. Dont worry about it. It takes time for things to get better. Give it time and it will heal in no time
alot of people say that fingering feels good.. but whenever i or someone else does that to me ..it doesnt feel good.. is there something wrong with me ?
Not at all. Fingering is a very sexual thing. It hurts because its a force thats going up in your vagina.Its not some walk in the park! Fingering doesnt work for you, thats okay! Try something else!
I really enjoy it when men want me and talk about how they want me even if it some skeezy guy. what does this mean? is it a medical condition? I also have fantasies about rough forced sex and am turned on by the thought of a stranger making me his sex slave. what is wrong with me?
Haha Nothing's wronge with you! Your curious about Sex. You wanna know what it feels like, and ur body is growing into changes. You become more intrested in more sexual things. Its a factor in growing up. =]
What is 'grinding' in comparison to sex?
haha. Grinding is like the sexual way to dance. Its alot of Touchy-Feely.
Its when a girl is rubbing her butt and the guy follows her but with his penis, like a swinging motion. ♥
my best friend is scared of the dark. i can't get to sleep when i spend the night at her house because she keeps all the lights on in her room and i just cant fall asleep. so when she hits the hay... i quietly go to the light switch and turn the lights off. as soon as i do that she wakes up and starts crying! what to do???
thanks in advance
Frenchy♥
This is a very commen problem. I also have the same problem. You have alot of options. You could get a sleeping mask which helps alot. It gives you the illusion of a dark room.
Or heres a goofy idea,go under the covers! haha
whatever works for you.
Or the best thing you can do, is try not to sleepover with her that much. like hang out but if it bothers you that much, try not to have sleepovers with her.