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fingering does not feel good
alot of people say that fingering feels good.. but whenever i or someone else does that to me ..it doesnt feel good.. is there something wrong with me ?
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It doesnt feel good to everyone try having someone eat you out or if youre by yourself use a vibrator
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Not at all. Fingering is a very sexual thing. It hurts because its a force thats going up in your vagina.Its not some walk in the park! Fingering doesnt work for you, thats okay! Try something else!
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no whether it feels good or not is just an opinion to some ppl it could be really painful & to others they might like it
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Nothing is wrong with you. When my boyfriend first started fingering me, I thought it hurt. But after we had sex, if felt good. It's strange & I don't know how that works, but yea. I still don't think it feels good when I do it, but maybe I just suck at it ;) LMA0.
Don't worry about it though. Next time someone fingers you, just get into it. That should help make it feel better.
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there's nothing wrong with you.for me, it doesn't feel good when i do it but when my boyfriend does, i like it.but it took me a while to find it pleasureable.i think it's a lot about being turned-on.
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Doubtful. Either you're not relaxed and/or comfortable when the guy's doing it or the guys in question have had little good practise. Or you just might not like it which is fine. (quick tip- make sure whoever's doing it has trimmed nails coz that can HURT)
You'll either find someone who makes you comfortable and is good at it who converts you or it'll turn out it's just not your thing. Either way don't sweat it.
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There is nothing wrong with you; sex is a very individual thing. What might feel good for one person may do nothing for another. One of the reasons that fingering often does not feel good for women is because simply inserting a finger "up there" and moving it around doesn't necessarily stimulate things properly. It can even feel uncomfortable. Truthfully, young men need proper instruction on how to do this. When done properly, fingering can actually stimulte the g-spot and bring on tremendous orgasms. However, this typically takes much practice and some women report to never have discovered their g-spot (but many do). If you would like to learn more about this, I would recommend reading up on the g-spot; there are many good books on the subject.
I also strongly recommend that you buy a small vibrator that you can insert in you and experiment on your own first. Then, you will be able to explain to your partner how you like it. Or, you can experiment with your own fingers but sometimes it is easier to use something else when inserting inside of you. Good luck and have fun!
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Um, well take a shower first and put some lingerie on and just get down to business. You know that you could be in the wrong position or maybe you just aren't ready. Instead of taking a shower though, you could pick up some KY jelly from CVS or something. not Vaseline though.
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Nothing is wrong with you.The guy might not be doing it right..or you might not be wet enough.Or it can be the position your in that might cause it..,but if its not one of those maybe you just don`t like it, but nothing is wrong with you.♥
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No your perfectly normal. He may not be doing it the right way or maybe you were in a uncomfortable position. You probly should be wet sothat he doesnt cut you && hurt you down there. When you finger yourslelf you dont really get the full effect.
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No. nothing's wrong with you. Alot of people don't even like it. *coughs* There could be alot of reasons why you dont, and that is because it's not done right. Make sure his fingernails are cut and not jagged (ouch!) also, you have to be wet enough. Being to dry can hurt like hell. If it's none of these reasons, then that's ok to. Your entitled to like or dislike anything you want. Your completely normal.
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