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I am 15... and i have been helping my friends with their problems for years...their problems consisted of pregnancies and breakups to failing a class and not doing well socially.

advice

is it bad to finger yourself while your taking a bubble bath?

and how do you know if your having an organism?

No is not and when you come..

hope i helped

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ok so today me and my boyfriend went to his house and we started doing stuff. he started fingering me and it was kind of hurting, he was fingering far up. after he was done he had blood on his hand and when i got home there was bright red blood in my underwear and i was really embarrassed. Did he pop my cherry or what was it? Am i just starting my period?

OK...when he fingered you he couldve popped your cherry but if this is when you normally start your period he probably didnt.

Hope i helped if you nedd more leave one in my inbox

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can anyone help me out with makeup like completely cause i am clueless lol. anyone in particular really good? i can send a picture but i dont want to post it here to everyone

ok you can feel free to send it to me

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whats eating a girl out?
and whats a blowjob?

i thought i'd ask.
you've always been really helpful.
thanks.

OK...I think that this will clear upyour ?

1)Eating a girl out is when the boy sucks or licks your vagina

2)A blowjob is when you suck a guys dick

and to your new ?
3)A handjob is when you use your hand to give a guy and erection, you basically just move your hand up and down on his dick.

Hope i helped

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Ok I am not ready for sex i know this and so does my boyfriend. But that doesn't mean i am cut off from foreplay hehe. Here aresome questions i ned answered asap. Do u think 14 and 15 is too young for foreplay?

1)How can I get my guy "happy" besides a blowjob.
2)Which normally feels better? Rubbing or fingerins for the girl
3)Does giving a blow job feel weird? Does a flavored condom help?
4)(mostly for guys) does a girl's cum taste good when ur eating her out.
5)When fingering where are some pleasure spots?

some sex questions i want to ask:
1)Does a condom efect the pleaseure
2)Can a guy hold off cumming?
3)If he doesnt cum does that mean he is not pleased?

Ok....
14 or 15 is not to young for foreplay.

1.You can get your guy "happy" by giving him a hand job.
2.Deffinately fingerings
3.Giving a blow job does feel weird but a flavored condom or some type of tasty treat hepls.
4.Yes i have been told by some of best guy friends that they LOVE the taste
5.The only pleasure spot that will give you an orgasm is the g-spot which is about a fingers length in

Sex ?s
1.Condoms do effect the pleasure BUT USE ONE
2.NO if they can then they are VERY good but normally no
3.No that doesnt mean he isnt pleased...and yes it does feel good when they cum in you but it can get you pregnant

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do you shave "down there"? is it weird if you do, or if you dont? i wanna know, because me and my boyfriend have been doing a lot lately, and i think he wants to go further, and i do too, so should i shave "down there"?

in order to be eaten out, fingered or have sex you do not need to shave......and if you DO decide to shave that area then use soap and shavng cream...and shave downward

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do girls like giving blow jobs, or is it just something that girls do cuz the guy asks them to?

It all depends on the girl.....if she is going to get pleaure in return she shoudnt mind..but get flavored condoms or us something that tastes good

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15/m

ok so my girlfriend and and i are really really in love, and i know that sounds cheesy but its true.

we've never exactly "made out" . . . we kiss each otehr all the time but yea. . .

anyway, i don't want to sound sleazy or anything, but i've thought about possibly fingering her. . . i keep getting this vibe from her that she wants to go further.

anyway, i guess my question is, is it appropriate for people our age to do so? i mean i've read alot of people who are our age's questions about the topic. . .and i don't know. . .

thanks in advance

OK...first of all you are not to young to be having oral sex or ft dont fingering or for handjobs, but you are not emotionally ready for actual sex.....go with the foreplay but dont go for the whole thing just yet

hope i helped...goodluck

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I was having sex last month and he promised he would use a condom. I was in the bathroom putting my new outfit on from Victoria Secret: sparkly, short skirt with a lacy see through corsette. He wanted me to make it sexy, so i did. So i went in the room and he said he had put the condom on so we had sex. He entered me and it felt weird. Then he cummed. It felt so good. But then he pulled it out after we were done, it lasted two hours by the way! But, there was no condom! He lied and never put a condom on! He said it feels better without one on.I was supposed ot get my period last week. I havent gotten it at all. My breats are tender and i havent had much of an appitite. PLEASE HELP ME! I'm 18/F

1)Does it feel better without a condom on?
2)Am i pregnant?
3)What should i do?
4)SHould i stay with this guy?

HELP ME I NEED ALL THE ADIVCE POSSIBLE! I WANT ALOT OF ADVICE!

ok so ya he lied but
1) NO b/c the codom is lubed so it goes in easier...but you cant feel it when he comes

2)You might be there is a very good chance...buy an EPT

3)Whatever you do use a condom next time

4)If you like the way he felt inside you go for it but if you didnt then dump the liar

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I was feeling really horny and so i called up my boyfriend to come over.(my parents were out for the night and im an only child) he came over and we talked and watched a movie but i could barely control myself. we made out on the couch and then he felt me up. He asked if we wanted to have sex and i couldnt resist. we went into my bedroom and he put his thing in and it hurt really bad, but when he cummed it felt soo good. we had sex for about an hour. after we were done i gave him a blow job because he asked for one. i had sex the day after my period and five days ago i was supposed to have it but i didnt. im SO scared because im only 13. i threw up all day today and i never want to eat. im SOO scared. please please please help me. i need it badly.

oh and we also did it up the butt. could i still get pregnant from that? we did it both way.

You should get a test..jus to bo sure..number one....number 2 he shouldve had a condom.
...3 you CANT get pregnant by being fucked uo the ass...and 4 youre way to young to be having sex

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My friend was staying with me for the weekend and we were talking about how much it hurt to have sex with a guy, then we were looking at all of the other possibilities. just talking about it made me horny. Then she announced the option of being a lesbian. We looked at eachother in the eyes and she grabbed me and started shoving her toungue in my mouth. i went along with it knowing it would be wierd if i didnt. She ripped off my shirt and pulled off my pants. i liked it. then i did the same with her and pulled off her bra and underwear with my teeth. she was on top of me and we were humping. It felt sooo good. I am very much of a christian and i know gayness is bad. I could never be a lesbian. How can i stop? I'm addicted to my feiend now, she comes over every night!!!

HELP ME BEOCME STRAIGHT AGAIN!

You are just expirementing....that doesnt mean your a lesbian.

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what does it mean if a guy "feels a girl up"

It means that they go up your shirt and caress your tits

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Im a bit chubby im 12 a year old girl and i think my crush and i are on the right track,but i dont if he likes me because im a bit overweight.What do i do?

Try exercising like running or even walking...and try eating more fruits and vegetables and salad.

If you have any more ?'s leave one in my inbox

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My boyfriend's a rather sexual person, and I'm..getting there, haha. I've given him an orgasm and we've been trying to give me one. I'm kind of reluctant cos it hurts! Should it hurt? We are not having sex, fingering, but no intercourse. When he touches my clitoris it seems like pain, but also kind of good, but like tickling in which you try to move away. It hurts when he presses too hard of course, but then doesn't give that weird kick when it's not hard. The other day he was touching my clit and my leg started spazzing, but the clit hurt, but it felt like we should keep going, yet we stopped cos it hurt me kind of. We don't think I came. Wondering, what aren't we doing? And what does an orgasm feel like for a girl (or anyone)?

Get wet first...try having him eat you out that muight help get you an orgasm

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alot of people say that fingering feels good.. but whenever i or someone else does that to me ..it doesnt feel good.. is there something wrong with me ?

It doesnt feel good to everyone try having someone eat you out or if youre by yourself use a vibrator

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aalright, me and my bf arn't exactly intimatly active, but hes had sex one time before me, and he has this idea, that hes going to "screw every hole in me" (dont ask) and hes discussed it before, and he thinks fingering a females ass is pleasureable to her, however, i'm a girl, and i'm pretty sure it doesn't work Oo. well, am I just wrong? i mean, i've never done it before, but it doesnt sound like too much fun. I Know for guys, if done right a girl can finger a guys prostate (pegging), but Idk about the other way around?

and if he is wrong, how the hell am i gonna tell him?!

pplease guys, i dont wanna get screwed somewhere i shouldn't Oo!!!

It might feel good but it might not there is no way to know unless you try ...but direct him where and what you want him to do

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haha alright so, i have never had sex. and i was just wondering...

1) does it hurt?
2) do you bleed?
3) are u supposed to shave down there? like everywhere down there, before you have sex?
4) if so..how? what do you use? because waxing must KILL.
5) is the guy supposed to shave down there?
6) how does he know where to put ...*it*?

thats all for now. thanks a lottttttt.

Ok
1)Sometimes no but normally it does the 1st time
2)Normally yes
3)You can if you want to, and if you do yes EVERYWHERE
4)Waxing is the most effective but if want use a razor that is new with soap and shaving cream and go downward
5)He probably wont shave
6)If he doesnt know that his dic k goes in your vagina dont sleep with him.

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I just found out that my current boyfriend has eaten girls out before. He's done almost everything but have sex with a girl. I, on the other hand, haven't done anything. This creates kind of an uncomfortable situation. He knows that things have happened to me in the past to make me not want to do these things, and he also told me I didnt have to do anything I don't want to. But, I would like to do some things, just not.. a lot of them.

Ohk, so apparently to him, girls dont give good handjobs unless their experienced, Im obviously not experienced and he knows that, but, I dont know, thats one thing I would consider doing if I didnt know he thought girls without experience were bad at it.

Also, (sorry I know this is long) how can I become more comfortable with myself and my body?
Thank you so much!

Just seduce your b/f. You dont have to have sex with him but have him experience your body...have him finger you and eat you out and suck on your nipples it feels good and hell let you do w/e you want to him

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okay. my boyfriend and i have been together for about ten months & tommorrow hes coming to my house while my parents are at work. now, we've done this many times. but all we've done is like, fingering. & im not scared to give him a handjob but i feel so .. unexperienced. like i'd mess up. but i dont want him to feel like hes the one giving all the pleasure.

help, please?

Depending on who he is he MIGHT like it if youre a little sloppy and he might think its on purpose dont worry youll be fine

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so i was all excited for me and my boyfriend to have sex. Well we did and i mean it was fine and everything so we did it again the same day. When i went home i felt fine and then i duno i just started to not feel as strongly about him and i as i once did. is this normal?

Normally when you have sex it releases endorphans maybe that didnt happen...this could possibly be a sign of having sex too soon...Goodluck

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