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Am i lesbian
My friend was staying with me for the weekend and we were talking about how much it hurt to have sex with a guy, then we were looking at all of the other possibilities. just talking about it made me horny. Then she announced the option of being a lesbian. We looked at eachother in the eyes and she grabbed me and started shoving her toungue in my mouth. i went along with it knowing it would be wierd if i didnt. She ripped off my shirt and pulled off my pants. i liked it. then i did the same with her and pulled off her bra and underwear with my teeth. she was on top of me and we were humping. It felt sooo good. I am very much of a christian and i know gayness is bad. I could never be a lesbian. How can i stop? I'm addicted to my feiend now, she comes over every night!!!
HELP ME BEOCME STRAIGHT AGAIN!
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there is nothing wrong with being gay that is a lie you can't change what you are you can just hide it and secretly be unhappy but act happy. but if you really wanted to "become straight again" you could probably find one of theose phsyco correctional facilities or something
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Yea wht they said is true, I just wanted to laugh at something right quick. The answer usually shouldn't be longer then the question! LoL
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You are just expirementing....that doesnt mean your a lesbian.
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You can't really listen to people telling you who you are. Maybe you are straight but you enjoy those kind of experiences with girls. But you could also be bisexual based on that situation. You don't have to base your whole sexuality on one thing that happened. You should talk to her and tell her you don't know. But if you were turned on by it, then obviously liked it and didn't think it was wrong. I know you ae a christian and you know being gay is bad. But listen to your heart.
And you have to watch out. You have to know if your friend is just doing that because you two are just messing around.. You have to know if it won't turn into a relationship sort of thing.
You were caught in the moment and you were horny, so of course you would do anything to satisfy your needs.
But I doubt you are a lesbian over one situation like that. Many women do that but they are straight. They wouldn't ever hold feelings for a woman or even think about getting with them.. it's just for the sexual stuff.
So if you like doing it, then you shouldn't let your worries stop you.
But if you don't want to do it again, then tell her.
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Hey there. Don't worry, just because you had an experience doesn't mean you are a lesbian. It sounds like you need to explain to your friend the situation and I'm sure she'll understand. But, it all comes down to 1 thing; you cannot decide these things, and you can't change how you feel. It sounds like these are just experiences though, so I wouldn't worry, but if you feel you shouldm talk to your friend
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you may not be a lesbian,you could be bisexual.
but if you are,im sorry,but you cant really help it.
and as for your friend,try not seeing her for a little while,maybe it was just a spur of the moment thing and it wont happen again.
so ya,if your attracted to your friend,but have been with men,theres a good chance you are bi.
sorry if i wasnt much help.=/
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I am going to make this short and sweet. You cant control who you like. This is something that cant really be helped No matter what every1 else tells you.
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I doubt you are. You're just experimenting and trying new things. But answer these few questions:
[1] Do you find girls attractive? Do you think about what it would be like having sex with them?
[2] Do you still find boys attractive?
[3] Do you think you like both genders?
If you feel the same way towards both genders, you're bisexual. There's nothing wrong with being gay, or bi. Your sexual preferences are different. God is supposed to love everyone. Everyone includes homosexuals, bisexuals & heterosexuals.
♥T!NA
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Hey, that sounds like a really tough situation there. Okay, first of all, i need you to listen very well to me and trust me.
Your not a lesbian, not just because you did something once. Try to consider it as just an experience or something you were trying out to see how it feels, but don't plant the impression inside yourself that you are a lesbian and that you will never change again. I mean... maybe your friend (no offense meant) is the one whose a lesbian, and who knows, maybe she did that before, so she's like used to it and has no problem with it, so she's doing it again with you.
Either ways, i need you to forget everything now, and think of one thing, your religion and your faith in god, and you know that what you did was wrong. No one would know about it,so take advantage of that and just stop doing it before its too late, and pray to god for his forgiveness.
Then, about your freind that comes over every night, i'll give you some choices, and i will grant you the freedom to choose one. first , you could simply just avoid talking about sex and being a lesbian and these weird sexual topics to prevent any horny feelings. Second thing, is that you could just come up to her and tell her that what you did yesterday together was not right and that you didn't enjoy it and you don't want to be a lesbian. I mean .. jesus christ, if a person wants something he will get it though whatever stands in his way. So come on, stand up to her and tell her that you don't want to be a lesbian and that you'd rather hook up with guys and have sex with them, because at least then, god would never get mad at you , and at least then, you wouldn't be working your way to hell. I know i am sounding harsh ,but its the truth, and just as i am telling it to you now, tell it to her when she comes. The last choice, and the one i don't really think you'd really choose, is that if you can't control her or change her mind or if she does something weird against your will (god hope not) ,then you should just ask her to back out and break the freindship between you and her, because come on, look at the bright side, why would you want a GIRL friend jumping around you all day and asking you to fuck her and hump on her.
I hope you see my point and what i am trying to say, i will leave you there, to just think things over. And i just want you to know, that you are not a lesbian and not a bad person , although what you did was wrong, but then again, people were born to commit mistakes and learn from them. So learn from your mistake, and make it right by praying to god and asking for his forgiveness and believing in yourself that your a straight person , because if you did believe that from start, you wouldn't have done anything. But you just don't have any self confidence in your self.I mean.. we all know how much it hurts while having sex with a guy, but after all, its the right thing to be done and god approves. So please think again, and if there is anything else you want to ask about or you want advice in, you are free to send me a private message on the website or email me on l.ollit.a@hotmail.com, and i would give you my prompt reply. Take care have a nice day.
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