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anyone know this song.
it goes like this,
"is this the start of it?
has this become a part of it.
maybe we should've slowed down.
this is how we watsed it,
maybe we'll get it abck somehow."
it's in alexheartbreaker's myspace btw XD (link)
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The song is called The Start Of It by Meese. Hope that's right!
-Becky
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Ok. I just got my 3rd period. And I got the biggest stomach cramp ever, 2days a row. Its so bad. How do I make it hurt less or make it go away at all?
I already know about Mitdol, but its not an option right now, so please don't mention that. (link)
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I know it sounds like the hardest thing to possibly do at this time, but exercise really works. Just try a 5 min jog, it truly helps. Zinc, calcium, and B vitamins obtained in food and supplements have been found to reduce cramps, bloating and other symptoms. Always take painkillers with food to prevent stomach discomfort, such as advil or ibuprofen. The heating pad idea is a good one too.
-Becky
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Hello =] This Friday we're having our winter formal, and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for how to do my makeup. I have extremely pale skin, blue eyes, and medium brown hair. I'm thinking of a pretty evening look, like the kind you see the celebrities wearing on special occasioins. Thanks! (link)
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Well, It'd be nice to know what you're wearing, but I can make due. :) For you're qualities, I have steps to follow. Remember: test it out before winter formal so that you can double-check if it looks alight.
1. Apply a shimmering pink to eyes to emphasize blue, try
2. Smudge a black eyeliner into the eyelashes on top of the eye.
3. Use a light mascara, or a small amount of black.
4. for blush, try a rosy wood shade that stains the cheek rather than the typical powder look. Be sure to blend well.
5. Rasberry lips with a top coat of gloss.
I hope this works!
-Becky
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My guy friend of six years is getting married in the fall. My boyfriend is going to be standing up in his wedding. I was invited, of course, but I am worried about going because I won't have anyone to sit with at dinner. Since my boyfriend is standing up, he has to eat with the other members of the wedding party. Would it be rude of me to ask the groom if I can bring a friend so I'm not sitting around by myself the whole time? Or should I just stick it out? (link)
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Well, sometimes the wedding invitations say "To (name) and a guest," in which case it is fine to invite a guest. If you're close with the groom/bride then I'm sure it would be fine to ask, but if not you might just have to stick it out. Use your personal judgement of whether or not you'd find it appropriate to ask.
-Becky
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I was feeling really horny and so i called up my boyfriend to come over.(my parents were out for the night and im an only child) he came over and we talked and watched a movie but i could barely control myself. we made out on the couch and then he felt me up. He asked if we wanted to have sex and i couldnt resist. we went into my bedroom and he put his thing in and it hurt really bad, but when he cummed it felt soo good. we had sex for about an hour. after we were done i gave him a blow job because he asked for one. i had sex the day after my period and five days ago i was supposed to have it but i didnt. im SO scared because im only 13. i threw up all day today and i never want to eat. im SOO scared. please please please help me. i need it badly.
oh and we also did it up the butt. could i still get pregnant from that? we did it both way. (link)
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Well, facts are yes, you could be pregnant, and no, you cannot get pregnant from anal. Go to the nearest drug store, like Shoppers, and purchase a pregnancy test (they're pretty cheap). That'll let you know. Next time, use a condom. Also, if you need anymore advice, just leave me a message on my column.
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My friend was staying with me for the weekend and we were talking about how much it hurt to have sex with a guy, then we were looking at all of the other possibilities. just talking about it made me horny. Then she announced the option of being a lesbian. We looked at eachother in the eyes and she grabbed me and started shoving her toungue in my mouth. i went along with it knowing it would be wierd if i didnt. She ripped off my shirt and pulled off my pants. i liked it. then i did the same with her and pulled off her bra and underwear with my teeth. she was on top of me and we were humping. It felt sooo good. I am very much of a christian and i know gayness is bad. I could never be a lesbian. How can i stop? I'm addicted to my feiend now, she comes over every night!!!
HELP ME BEOCME STRAIGHT AGAIN! (link)
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Hey there. Don't worry, just because you had an experience doesn't mean you are a lesbian. It sounds like you need to explain to your friend the situation and I'm sure she'll understand. But, it all comes down to 1 thing; you cannot decide these things, and you can't change how you feel. It sounds like these are just experiences though, so I wouldn't worry, but if you feel you shouldm talk to your friend
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15/f
okay well there's this guy that likes me and he's going to ask me out i know it because he's already tried but i have no intrest in him but he's just not my type.
he's also in some classes for the slower pple and i don't know him too well so i don't know what to say in rejecting him.
whoa that sounds harsh please help! (link)
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Well, the thing is eventually he's going to ask. You'll just have to face him someday, no matter how long you avoid him. My advice for that; don't cave! You aren't interested like that at all, so no matter what happens, don't agree to go out with him. Also, don't say to him, "maybe in the future..." or something along the lines because that would be leading him on. Just say that you're friends and you just can't see it being anymore. Good luck!
-Becky
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My friend is always trying to make me feel jealous. whatever it is that she does she always tries to rub it in. I do say 'very good' etc with me not being jealous but she carries it on! (link)
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I went through the exact same thing! Its so awkward! My suggestion is to just wait it out, it passed for me, so I say wait it out!
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does anyone know a good site that tells you different hairstyles to suit different face types? Like the shape of your face?
thanks =D (link)
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Well, here's one I dug up...
http://www.visual-makeover.com/face.htm
Enjoy!
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I am 178cm tall and I weigh 66kg. I don't look fat at all, but I don't have an obvious jawline. Is there any ways I could do to have a sharp jawline like celebrities? (link)
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Well, I'm not sure how this will work but I heard to use a slightly darker bronzer down there with an eyeshadow brush, but I'm not sure how it'll work! Sorry!
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I like to spend alot of time with my b/f and all my close friends have either moved away or i dont talk to them anymore. His friends are always dropping by and constantly are hanging out with him. He keeps saying he wants his alone time and doesn't want me to be there all the time, but how much space is enough space? (link)
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Well, the most obvious answer is to ask, of course. Just standing by is going to lead to lack oftime together, which will end the relationship. When you do ask him though, be sure that you let him know that you don't want constant attention (as much as you do), and that you respect him wanting to be with his friends, just as you do. Make sure it's sincere and he knows exactly how you're feeling!
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ever wanted to decide for someone if they should get over someone? well here's your chance!
I will give you the background info, and then YOU guys decided, get over him or not.. if the majority says yes. then thats it. ill try to get over him.
You'll recognize the story because ive asked atleast 17 questions about this guy on here, since the year 2002 (yes ive had a crush on him for 4 years!)
I met this guy in june, 4 yrs ago, when i was on vacation with my parents. We live on different continents, but i visit his continent every year because my family lives there.
The first year when we met - we were watching a movie with my cousins and he said "damn, she's so hott! i love angelina jolie!" then he looked at me, winked..and said "you're hott too btw!" (sound cheesy, and sleezy, but he said it in a charming way)he left with one of my cousins and came back an hour later.. my cousin then told me "ehh, he thinks you like him!" (i had done nothing to make him belive that..except smile when he said "You're hott too!") but whateer, at this point i didnt really like him, i was more annoyed that he was hanging around while i was trying to spend some time iwth my cousins..
anyways, when he came back with my cousin, my cousin left to talk on the phone, and left me alone with this guy..he ssat down next to me on the porch and said "what's up? you look sad! why are you sitting alone instead of watching tv with the rest of the family?" i said; idk..it's nice outside. and he agreed. then he suddenly gave me a troubled look (which he had not had befofre) and said.. "damn im screwed" (he whispered this though..so i didnt hear it) i said "what?" and he repeated it.. and i asked why? and he explained that his gf of 5 months had crazy ocerprotective parents, and her sister (who is also very over protective) had seen them holding hand at the mall... i tried to give him advice on what to do since he seemed to really care about this girl, and then said.. aww its really cute how you talk about her, i can tell you're a sweettalker! and he said, yeah i guess.. then looked right into my eyes, and told me how beautiful they were.. after this we spent 4 hours togther, flirting and talking..basically just hanging out and getting to know eachother.. he found out i was leaving the next day, asked me for my email..and then said goodbye.
i didnt really start liking him, until after i left the country. thats when i started realiing it. and we talked online a couple of times but not a lot. One of the few times we did talk online he said "if i didnt have a gf, i would have kissed you when we met!" and on another occasion he told me "ive now been with my gf for 11 months and i love her soo much"
so he flirted with me but always made it clear that he had a gf he would never cheat on.
the last conversation we had before i met him the second year he said "if i break up with my gf this summer, are we set?" and i said "deal!" so we basically agreed on hooking up (just making out and getting to know eachother and stuff like that!)
when the day finally came that i saw him again, it happened to be the last day in his country AGAIN, we met..didnt talk to eachother for a while (he talked to my cousin, and made jokes the first few houres!) then we started asking eachother questions.. how've you been since last time? what's been going on? what's new?.. just the regular chit-chat.. and i asked him about his gf and he said "we had a fight yesterday, and we broke up.." and i said " aww really?" and he said "yah, otherwise i wouldnt be here!" (which shows that he thought of me as more than a friend..otherwise he wouldnt say that right?)
anyways, we hung out, flirted a bit (not as much as the year before..) and then he went home and we said "see you tomorrow!" but my family changed the plans.. so we left that same day, and i didnt get to say goodbye! after this i went to camp for 3 weeks, when i came back,, i had an email from him.. with two poems, and he said "i cant stop thinking about you, we never got to say goodbye! i didnt get to give you the present i bought you" and things along those lines, i answered..and we started emailing regurly.. then i for some reason got insecure and made up a story about how i cant email him anymore.. (dont ask, i dont really know why i did that) and we stopped emailing.. until this summer.. when i thought i was gonna meet him again, i went online, and we started IMing.. flirting, promising that we'd get together and have fun this summer, telling eachother how we feel about eachother and so on,.. until one night i found out i wasnt gonna get to see him because my parents had a fight with my cousins parents.. so i wasnt gonna get to cisit my cousins and see him. when i told him this he said "oh well, whatever, its not like its a big deal!" WTF? it is a huge deal! for me it was atleast.. and then i asked why his screenname was so sad...and his answer? its about my ex who im still in love with! he then sent me a 2 page email about who hes never cared for anyone else, how he loves her, how he'll never get over her, they're meant to be..and so on.
i cried, and told my friends.. they id "be honest with him!" so i was, i asked how he could say he loved me when all along he was in love with her? and he said "im sorry if i hurt you, but i didnt realize im still in love with her until recently,," i decided to get over him (of course) and didnt talk to him for a month..but now, we email again.. like nothing ever happened.. like we're just friends.. pen pals.. needles to say, i still have a crush on him, and pray everyday that we're gonna get to see eachother again this christmas! i keep praying he'll be over her by then..!!
so, what do you think?
should i try to get over him?
and HOW? stop emailing??
i dont think it will work..
unless i tell him that "ive chosen not to fall for you, so if i show up this christmas, i dont want to see you..andi cant keep in touch with you anymore!" but thas so awkward! maybe there's another way? what do you guys think?
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Well, I completely agree with Courtney. It seems like he was only interested because you were "hot." Friends seems okay, as long as it doesn't escalade into anything more. Leave him to his girlfriend!
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hi,
my girlfreind is cutting her wrists and im really worried about her and want her to stop how do i go about telling her and getting her to stop i dont want her to hurt herself.. please ..!!:(:( i love her heaps but i dont want her to be hurting herself...
im male and 14.
thankyou (link)
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This is a serious issue, as you probabley know. She seems to have something going on in her life that's deeply emotionally hurting her. If you two are very close, you could try saying something along the lines of "Hey, I love you so much and I'm worried... etc" but if that would be weird, just constantly tell her you love her, try to keep her smiling and keep her happy. Things like these, as hard as they are to handle, tend to pass, and you can help by keeping her laughing.
Becky
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So this is a last minute kind of deal, but I have a friend who is supposed to come over. My mom went out for a while, but i have no idea when she is coming back, or any way of calling her. Last time I talked to my mom she said if my friend comes over she'll have to get a ride. My friend found a ride, but I don't know whether I should tell her to come over or not. My mom DID say she could come over. (link)
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I say sure. There seems to be nothing wrong with the situation!
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i have a stratocaster, and i'm going to replace the pickguard. is it wise for me to attempt this myself? are there any websites that can give me detailed instructions so i don't completely screw this up? (link)
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It's definately not a good idea, especially being such a nice, delicate guitar. I suggest get it done professionally. If this is not possible, go to http://www.fender-telecaster.info/shop/fender-telecaster-parts-pickguards/. I don't know how helpful it will be, but when i was reading about it, it seemed like it might work.
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Okay. So, i just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago, it was a relationship that lasted about a week that i was pretty much forced into. After the third or fourth day this other kid that i've had a crush on for the longest time and that i'm friends with finally has started to notice me, we hug a lot during school and i film him skateboarding after school.
My ex although, once i told him i was interested in someone else, flipped out and told me to promise him i wouldn't give up on the relationship.
I never saw my ex and only talked to him through text messages and IM, this other kid calls ME, and it's great because we talk about the GREATEST things.
My ex is jealous and i'm not sure what to tell him to make him feel better. He was a good friend of mine before we went out and i care about him a lot and i'm still not completley over him. what should i do?
This other kid seems interested...right? (link)
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Go for the "new" kid. Your ex seems jealous and that can ruin it. You also sound like your CHOOSING the second one instead of being forced to like them.
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me and my boyfriend get along great we hav alot of similar interests but we only really talk about his stuff when were chatting on the computer... i embaress myself around him like randomly start talking to myself...dnt ask me why... i just got nervous. anyways i dont want him to lose interest in me he told me today on msn that he wanted a girl that could "explain" herself, and not be shy around him. im afraid that if stop being shy that i will do something stupid and scare him off. does anyone have any ideas how to keep a converstation going without any awkward silences or weird moments... or what i should talk to him about....
thank-you.. i really apreaciate it
xoox
ill rate 5 (link)
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What's the point if you're not being yourself? If the relationship goes somewhere, you're going to end up living that whole time not being yourself! Be yourself, I'm sure he'll like it. He already said he will. If not, he's not worth your time and he's missing out on something good.
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14/male
There's this girl I really like. We'll call her "B." I know some people said "true" love isn't real for teens, but I can feel that I love her. I have since I met her.
Well, she's a few years older than me, and she's dating this guy I haven't really enjoyed being around in the past. I wrote B a letter, but I signed it "Your Secret Admirer." It basically says stuff about how I love her, and things like that. But, I haven't had a chance to sneak it into her backpack or whatever.
The thing is, I think she might sorta like me, but I'm not sure. Should I sneak the letter into her backpack?
Thanks,
-Fyce
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Do it! I love to hear things like that, and when I do, I never reject them! I tend to go head over heels. Haha. But put it in her coat or locker, not backpack. It could fall to them bottom, get crumpled, then she may never see it.
-Becky
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so a little while ago was rapped..and i missed my period..im with the most amazing guy and if i tell him i know hes going to think im crazy (it was his best friend..who rapped me) and i dont know how to tell him..and i think im pregnat.my parents will kill me because they wont think i was rapped they'll think its an excuse BUT IM NOT LIEING!.but i cant be..im only 14..just turned 14 (the day i was rapped was my 14th bday..Jan 27th)
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Well, remember this, it's not your fault. Obviously, you need to get a pregnancy test done. You could be panicking over nothing. They're available at drug stores anywhere. If it's positive, first tell your parents. There's no choice. You obviously need to let them know, you can't hide a pregnancy. Next tell your boyfriend everything. If he really is amazing, he'll have to believe you. If not, he's not worth you're time. Next, go see a doctor, and decide what's going to happen to this baby (adoption, etc).
-Becky
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I heard before christmas that a boy liked me but at the time I didn't like him. Now I'm CRAZY about him! But I think he has already moved on..I asked his friend if he used to like me and he said, "Yeah..USED to." How do I find out from him without letting it sound like I like him? (link)
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A Boy...,
Well, you could play the game I invented. Just get a friend to say "OOO, lets play 'date.' Would u date [name]? (Answer). Would u date [ur name]? (Answer). Would you date [name]? (Answer)." and get her to report back to you!
-Becky
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