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my girlfreind is abusing her body and dont know how to stop
hi,
my girlfreind is cutting her wrists and im really worried about her and want her to stop how do i go about telling her and getting her to stop i dont want her to hurt herself.. please ..!!:(:( i love her heaps but i dont want her to be hurting herself...
im male and 14.
thankyou
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well ive been through this with someone but if you really dont want her to hurt herself you got to do anything you can for her...start by saying when she feels like doing it call you and you can talk her out of it...then find out why she wants to do it and tell her how much she would be missed if something happens...any futher advice let me no i go through this all the time with people!!
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You need to find a private place to talk to her.Tell her nicey (and dont get angry)that she needs to stop doing this or she is gonna end up hurting herself.(be nice)If she gets mad tell her to calm down and that you know what shes going threw.Sorry all i can say.
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you should definitely talk about it with her. not online, not on the phone, not in front of your friends, just you and her face to face, alone. tell her she means the world to you and find out whats bothering her so much to make her do this. tell her you want whats best for her and cutting herself can only make things worse. you need to take her to a counselor, whether its the guidance counselor or her parents or a therapist you need to find someone who can help. she might not be able to stop cutting herself on her own and she needs help. im only speaking the truth and i hope she gets well because i think its terrible that shes cutting herself. just dont be afraid to tell someone you and your girlfriend trust who could help because its worth it.
hope i helped
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I think you should tell her to stop cutting herelf because she is husrting your realtinship with her and shes is hurting herself!!!!!!!!
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i have some friends who have been through that. my suggestion is to talk to her and ask her why shes doing it. if shes secretive and wont say anything than definately get help. she might be thinking about suicide and i know that you definately DO NOT want that to happen to your g/f. Just let her know if she does say she is going through a rough time that you are always there for her but you don't want her hurting herself to get rid of the pain she is feeling.
Good luck;; xx
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hey
just make sure she knows she can call you at any time of the night (im assuming that when she does it) and that youre there for her and that you just want her to be happy and if there is something in her life that is causing her to do then make sure she knows that she always has you and that you will help her get through, she really needs someone she can count on.
who ever her best friend is, if she knows i would get together with her and your girlfriend and explain to her how much it hurts you guys and how much you care for her.
its kind of like peer pressure only in a good and benficial way.
hope i helped<3
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She's the only one that can get through this, so you need to make sure she knows you're there for support. Talk to her, it's the most help you can give. xx
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This is a serious issue, as you probabley know. She seems to have something going on in her life that's deeply emotionally hurting her. If you two are very close, you could try saying something along the lines of "Hey, I love you so much and I'm worried... etc" but if that would be weird, just constantly tell her you love her, try to keep her smiling and keep her happy. Things like these, as hard as they are to handle, tend to pass, and you can help by keeping her laughing.
Becky
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