about

I am Travis and i live in KY and i love it. Most of my friends are girls so i always try to help them whenever needed so thats why i decided to join this because i love to help ppl with whatever i can but i really love to help ppl with cutting problems because i have done it so many time for my friends and i want to make a difference for them and help them get over it. I am a very understanding guy!!

advice

ok....i finally broke up with that guy that i was really unhappy with, but now i feel really extremely lonely. right now i don't know what to do about feeling lonely. i go out with friends and i am trying to enjoy the single life, but i'm not. i just want someone new to come around already but it seems like it won't ever happen.

your always going to feel lonely when you break up with someone cause your usually also with that person but you will be fine and enjoy your single life cause there are plenty of fish in the sea

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do guys prefer "down there" shaved or not shaved while fingering? i know ure going to say some guys like this and others like that, but which is more prefered?
thanks.

i perfer it shaved but on the other hand a little hair where it is not long is cool to

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do i sound attractive to you?
i have 32C boobs,
not alot of stomach,
some thighs.
HUGE ASS. it's VERY big.

huge blue eyes.
black medium length hair.
no achne.
5'2"

my boyfriend of 1 month calls me sexy and pretty
but i dont know if he's jus saying that
to make me feel good about myself or what.

you sound great to me but i cant tell you for sure e-mail a pic and ill give you an honest answer my e-mail is "caldwell.travis@gmail.com" but you sound good to me

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I've never been fingered so I'm kind of worried about it or whatever. Does it hurt? Also..

How should I "prepare", like..How do guys like it down there. THANKS:)

as far as i no it dont hurt but just make sure the guy dont stick to many fingers in at once cuz that might hurt and guy lovee blow jobs but will deal with hand jobs if must be

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If i jack my boyfriend off and he cums , wipes it off and everything, then fingers me, can i get pregnant ???
please help.
k thank you

no you can not get pregnant because when sprem hits the air it dies and becomes unfurtile therefore your good hope i helped!

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ok well i asked her about it like one of this people toldme to to do but she wants to wait and i dont want to wait! and i have begged and stuff but she wants to wait what should i do?
andi have so much presure like these guys that arae going all the way with there gf and i just want third base!
sign
a guy that needs help

hey what ever you do dont push her thats dumb and if you really love her then you dont need to do it you should just be happy to be around her...and you friends should understand that she wants to wait abd if they dont there notyour real friends

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i Need a Free program that can scan and Delete these files
i mean completely free

there are many programs that can do this and to free up space on your computer go to start, asserories,system setup, disk cleaners, and that will free things up the a program you can download would be spybot witch scans your computer for bad files and fixes/ deletes them give me a shout if you need more help good luck

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Do guys like girls with small, medium or big boobs. Small, medium, or big, ass? Tall or short? What color hair? And what qualities?

If you really like someone then them things should not matter to you however i guess if i had to make a decision then i would say i like small or medium boobs, round ass, shorter than me and im 5 11', hair dont care and qualities is a good outgoing personality but can be serious when need be i hope i helpped

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what should you do or say when you find out your friend is cutting. because i have no clue what to tell my friend.

well i have been in this situation before and you dont need to renind them of what there doing cuz that upset them more so just bare with them and tell them to call you whenever he/she needs to do it so you can talk them out of it cause its very dangerous any other ? let me no im happy to help

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so my friend wants me to get help. i guess i may just need help. i just stopped cutting about a few weeks ago, because my mother found out. I have family issues, like my father. i used to hate the world. sometimes i feel all depressed because of my family.. i dont know, advice?

hey girl i have never done it but i have a friend who i helpped geet over it...its not a good thing to hurt yourself...youjust need to find that one person you can tell anything and everything to so u can open up and let your feelings out just talk to them and make asure the person wont get mad at you and can be there for you 24 hours so anytime you want to talk you can\...when you feel like doing it call umm and they talk you out of it...if you really need someone tio talk to my phone on 24 hours and i answer but let me no if you have Aol im me (frisbeegolfreak) Good luck and i hope you can be happy!! Travis "iceman"

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i've been depressed for awhile and about 4 days ago i have barely eaten and i've started cutting myself any ideas to help me stop and eat without telling ANY one?

well stop being depressed and live life to the fullest but my advice for you is tell someone you really trust that you are cutting this way when you feel like dont it you can call that person and they can talk you out of it cause you dont want to disapoint them so you wont cut...Now about the eating thing eat theses no reason not too your not fat so dont worry about others,,,any father advice contact me cause ive helpped many people through cutting and eatting

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hi,
my girlfreind is cutting her wrists and im really worried about her and want her to stop how do i go about telling her and getting her to stop i dont want her to hurt herself.. please ..!!:(:( i love her heaps but i dont want her to be hurting herself...
im male and 14.
thankyou

well ive been through this with someone but if you really dont want her to hurt herself you got to do anything you can for her...start by saying when she feels like doing it call you and you can talk her out of it...then find out why she wants to do it and tell her how much she would be missed if something happens...any futher advice let me no i go through this all the time with people!!

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a few nights ago i was with a friend and two older boys (3 years) weve hung out before, and this guy pressured me into haveing sex with him but i wouldnt. i dont like im or anything its just a hookup. the thing is im a virgin and hes not and then i was drunk a few nights ago and ended up doing something im starting to really regret. sex. i lost my virginity to someone i dont even like he made it seem like it wasnt a big deal and everyones had it so i just gave in. at first i was okay with it but now im starting to think.. what am i going to telll my next boyfriend? or my friends? i dont know if i should just forget about this whole thing and say im a virgin. im just getting upset and i dont know who to turn to and im not going to a councelor or anything. i guessi just need some moral support.. thank you
and no we did not use a condom, we were in a hot tub and he swore to me that he would pull out before, but we didnt even get that far into it i think. plus hs going off to college and hates kids. so im pretty sure im safe. please help thank you

Well girl that really sucks that you lost your virginity and the person you lost it to does not evn care cause all he want was your twat and then its no big deal but anyway you got to tell your friends becuase then if you get a b/f and you tell him and one of your friends fines out your put in a tough stop and you dont want to be there but i hope that everything is ok and your be fine just make sure the next time you get drunk your around people who are trust worthy and wont do you ...hope i helped -THC-

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well i heard today that my ex cheated on his last girlfriend. that really worries me because i have beent here before. i asked him about it and said it wasnt true. i really want to trust him but i have had trust issues with boys since my first boyfriend cause he was abusive and cheated. i really dont wanna go through that pain again and dot know what to do about it! i need seruous help this time!

Tell him that you want the truth from him and if that dont work or he does something to get away from it find out who his ex is and call her and ask then if you find out he's lieing to you then you can either give him another shoot or kick his ass lol well good luck Love ya, (shooting stars) travis

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Okay. 14/F. I have really low self esteem. I can't stand the way I look. I just completely hate myself. I hate my looks, I hate my personality, I just hate everything about me! I've thought about cutting SO many times, and I was actually ready to one day, but my friend stopped me. Honestly, I feel like she's the only person who cares whether I do it or not. I guess my question is, What can I do to feel better about myself?

well first of all dont start the cuuting cause it is a really bad habit and can lead to bad things believe i have a friend who i finally got to quit but my idea to help yourself feel good is to sit down and right things that you like about yourself and keep adding on to it untill the day you get mad then go back and look at it and that will get the bad things out of your head and the good things back in your head i hope i helped but if you ever think about cutting get with me i am willing to help...Travis

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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live.

well no matter what you do do not kill yourself it is really not worth it and i have lost a friend who has done this and it made me want to do it cause i lost such a great friend.... find someone who you can talk to when you feel like life is not worth it i mean honestly ill talk to you if you need me to but dont take your life you never know whats going to happen down the road but there are plenty reaspn to live just think of the ppl your leaving!! If you need to talk ill try!

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My Best friend has had problems with an eating disorder and with cutting for some time now. She is in therapy and recieving treatment for both, however she still sometimes relapses and doesn't eat or cuts. Her boyfriend seems to think it is apropiate to say things to her when she doesnt eat like "If you don't eat tommorrow then I'm not going to either" Or if she ends up cutting he cuts himself. I think that he is making her feel worse when all she really needs is support... What should I do...Opinions? Advice?

ok well i have actually been through this alot with one a my best friends... by him saying that it is only making her feel worst becasue if makes her think that she is not doing anything right to please anyone so it makes her want to do it even more than she already has... my advice is to be there and convince her its not what she needs to to do to make things better honestly tell her that when she feels like cutting to get a coloring book and color cause it really does help i have spent manyof hours on the phone with my friend convinceing her not to do it matter what \and to eat and the things is that no matter what your doing if this person needs to talk stop doing whatever your doing and help cause you would be surpirsed what that can do and how much that will help them but i no it can be hard but keep trying to get her to stop i did it and its posible!! Contact me and let me knoe how things go cause i really like to help ppl with that problem and if you need more advice let me TAHNKS! I hope she can eat and stop cutting

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I feel like I cant talk to my boyfriend anymore..well, i cant stand him. I mean, I love him, but he does the stupidest things and pisses me off all the time, yet he can be soo sweet. Like, he'll call me a tramp one second [[and ya know, say hes kidding and he loves me]], but hes getting me this Ring with our names engraved on it that costs well over $200! [[we picked it out together]]..but just earlier today, he calls me and tells me he deleted the voicemails i left him, so i tell him i would call him back [[since one of the voicemails said i was going to go take a shower and id call him when i was done]] so he flipped and was like, "fine go do whatever" and he hung up on me. An hour later, he tried calling me back, but i was still pissed about him hanging up on me. What should I do now?

i know that you might love him but i would really get rid of him because no girl deserves to be treated like that i mean its ok if you are ok with him saying things like that but when it reaches the point where it bugs you then tell him and if he dont stop leave him but give him a shot to make it up to you GOOD LUCK!!

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i told a guy i like him over 4 days ago and we haven't talked yet! well, we don't talk on the phone becuase we dont have eachothers phone numbers but we talk on aim a lot. i have to talk to him soon because waiting 5 days for something that i wanted to know 5 seconds after i told him. Do you have any ideas about what to do. and i don't want to sound like a stalker. lol

umm lets see here i would just let things go for that time and try to become friends and get to knoe him better because he might be thinking that he really dont know you but he really wants to get to know you!! good luck!!

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okay, to start off, when i see a hot guy on the street, i automatically think "they're hot" and when i see a pretty girl on the street, that NEVER crosses my mind, i just say to myself, "i wish i looked like them, i wish i had their body" etc. but there was this myspace with "i'm horny, fuck me" as the name, and when i looked at her pictures i got horny. they were of a woman's body, lubed up and she was covering her breasts and her vagina. an di watched a video on youtube of a woman dancing and stripping, and it showed her butt. i'm fifteen and female, and i admit to masturbating, and when i masturbate to men i get turned on, but i tested myself and thought about women, and i just got grossed out. could dirty pictures of women just turn me on because i wish i LOOKED like that, or should i question my sexuality, taking everything else i've said in this question into consideration. help please, i rate high.

ok well i dont think that you are really bi but i think that when you masterbate that you think about guys but if you were in person with another girl that you would really enjoy yourself but that really does not mean your bi thats just means that things turn you on

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