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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live.
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aaaahhhh!... don't do that...everyone has a reason to live!... you may not know yours yet...but i know someday you will!.. don't give up...that's the worst thing anyone could ever do in any situatuion whether it be a sport, relationship... or way more serious things like your life!... please don't kill yourself... and you will find a way to cope... you just havn't found it yet... give it more time... i know wut it's like to feel the way you're feeling... i don't think it's ever been as serious for me as it is you, i've thought of suicide... but deep down i know i'm to chicken to actually do it... please... if you need to talk you can talk to me AIM/yahoo: forestwulf627 ... just please get help from someone... and don't give up... "life iz pain... anyone who tells you otherwise is selling something"... and i'm the one that's trying to sell you hope
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Okay, lots have people have answered, but PLEASE READ. Okay, I see a lot of people have read that suicide is dumb/stupid and that is so not the right way to approach this. Regardless of their opinions I get that you have your reasons for wanting to die. HPWEVER, if you want to go to heaven...you can't kill yourself...it says in the bible that if you kill yourself(because it is considiered a murder)you will go to hell. And I know for a fact that no one on this earth wants to go to hell! Please talk to me sometime...I know it's hard..I used to be suicidal and I moved on...I was strong and pulled through and that's what you should do too. HOLD ON! I am here to listen, just please don't do it. IM: x0ToTheStage0x. Talk to you soon.
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okay seriously, honest to god, don't do it. it's one of the dumbest things that you can ever do. so what if things get tough? deal with it! everyone's lives get hard sometimes and chances are, yours isn't the worst one out there. for real, it could be sooo much worse. just think of all the people you would leave behind, and they would probably think it's their fault that you chose to end your life. you may not think so, but there are definitely people who would care. it is THEEEE MOST terrible feeling in the world to know someone and be close to someone who killed themselves. to know that they were that unhappy, it's devastating. please get help or talk to someone if you're seriously thinking about it.. it is one of the most selfish things you could do.. and once it's done, it's done. there's no turning back. besides, you wouldn't go to heaven.. you killed someone! you'd go to purgatory. just don't do it.. you have no idea how it makes your survivors feel. in february, my uncle danny killed himself and it was the worst feeling ever to know that someone was that unhappy with their life. just get help if your seriously thinking about it.. please don't.. you could have it sooooo much worse! don't be selfish.. get help.. and please leave me feedback when (if) you rate. hope i helped ♥
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well no matter what you do do not kill yourself it is really not worth it and i have lost a friend who has done this and it made me want to do it cause i lost such a great friend.... find someone who you can talk to when you feel like life is not worth it i mean honestly ill talk to you if you need me to but dont take your life you never know whats going to happen down the road but there are plenty reaspn to live just think of the ppl your leaving!! If you need to talk ill try!
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Suicide won't solve anything. Think of everything in life your leaving behind. Even if you don't know it, there are millions of people who care deeply about you. You should talk to someone, if you don't know anybody that you feel safe talking to, try a the suicide hotline. Please don't do this to yourself.
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suicide is not the way to go it just says that you want to give up on life and then you would be leaving people behind who care about you and then they might want to kill themselves to, i hope that i helped you.
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ok.. thats not a good thing.. you shouldnt feel like wanting to commit suicide.. yea you have some good day but you also have a lot of bad days.. you cant let that get you.. you have to think that there are other people in the world who have worse things in there life that might be a lot worse than yours.. but they have to deal with it && cant get out of it.. you might not have that much wrong in your life... you could just think that b/c something went wrong.. life isnt that long.. just live for yourself && no one else.. relax dont think you want to kill yourself.. because most people who say that will && i think you just had a few bad days... just let them roll off your back && relax... just think about something that makes you happy.. everyone has those days where they want to kill themselves.. i have had those days && you dont see me dead.. trust me i've had a lot of those days recently.. dont do anything dramatic... && i'm pretty sure that a lot of people would miss you if you killed yourself. && a lot of people would have lost a special person... you are special to someone.. just wait.. let it blow over...
--Laina
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Hi, it sounds as though your suffering from Deppression. This must be a very hard thing to face. There are many people that can help such as, Counsellors, Psychiatrists and Psychologists. These are trained proffesionals who will be able to give you advice and may give you special treatment for it. I know a person who has been through something quite similar. His name was Ben and he suffered that much that his mum and dad could'nt get him out of the house. He wanted to end his life. He got help. And now he's an adult with heaps of friends and plays in a school band. He enjoys life and he has a future to look forward to. Im show that if you get proffesional advice, tell them whats up, then you can be just like Ben. Something is hurting you. And because its not getting dealt with it makes you feel that way. You mus'nt let yourself think like that no matter how much badness life can throw at you. Heaps of people around the world suffer from Depression. But they get help. Say no to suicide, and yes to help. It does'nt mean you are a baby, it means that you are growing up. You have alot going for you. Try and focus on a hobbie or maybe build very close friendships. Talk to people that you trust. Keep safe. Tell them what you want solved. But please mate, don't kill yourself. It's not the answer. Say no to suicide, and yes to help. Good luck. Contact me if you need any more help. Daniel.
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First off, if you really wanted to kill yourself.. you wouldn't have asked for help. It's great you asked, just please don't do it.
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Everyone has a tough time in life, and everyone has that secound of their life where they think about ending it.. to make it better for themselves.. you're not alone..
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Before you do anything.. think about it. You will never be able to see anyone every again.. won't be able to walk into a room, and have all eyes on you. You wont be able to eat your favorite food, or swim or anything like that. You have probally been though so much in your life already.. why would you want to stop it now. Everyone has their limits on how much they can take... how much crap in their life, they are willing to put up with... and you found your limit. So anything wrong in your life.. drop it. Forget it, if it's friends.. drop them, make new ones... Do what ever you have to make yourself happy.
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You will never be able to talk to your friends, talk to the boy/girl you like.. if you end your life. Think about your family. How much pain you would cause them if you were to do that. They would have to live with the fact that they didnt have a dang clue about if for the rest of their lives. Do you want to put people you love threw that much pain, and sarrow ? Everything bad.. will turn good in time, and you will make it.. keep your head up, and good thoughts in your head. Hurting yourself.. would only be hurting the ones you love. You wouldn't have anymore pain.. but your family and loved ones.. would. You would happy, and care free, and painless.. but your family and loved ones would have to wake up.. everyday EVERYDAY knowning that you kill yourself.. and they couldn't stop you. That they were not giving the change to stop you from hurting yourself.
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You do have reasons to live. You wake up every morning to a band new day. You can be/do what ever you want.. and you just want to give that all up ? Think about it.. I mean really think about it. You wake up everyday.. God gave you your life, and you want to give it back ? You have a million reasons to live.
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Ask someone you love for real help. Real mental help.. you would be amazed at how much that will help you deal with all your problems. Someone you could talk to, someone you could tell your problems too, and they might be able to help you. Ask for help, just like you did on here... just ask someone, NO ONE would deni it to you.
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Don't do it.. it wouldn't be worth it..
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please please please do not commit suicide.
there will be a horrible effect on the people that love you. think of your mother and how hard it was for you to get here and how she took care of you and raised you. it just wouldnt be fair. you should get involoved in a club or a sport. change your look, cut your hair something that will make you feel better about yourself. remind yourself that you only have one chance to live, then you have heaven forever. heaven is a reward after a long hard life. appreciate what you have now, because you dont have very much time to live if you think about it. Take care
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okay im going to tell you what my best friend told me when i was going to well tried the same thing...
think about it...when you do it there is NO turning back..EVER, you cant say hey! i dont like this death thing so much so lets go back...nope it dont work that way. once your gone your GONE you can never hear anything again, you cant touch or feel anything ever again have it be a good feeling or a bad feeling...you can never be with anyone or have anything real...and im sure your not going to say hey guys im going to kill my self so bye-bye dont miss me too much...it just doesnt work that way once you do it...its a done deal.
i hope that doesnt sound sarcastic and all but its true and if you think about it your nothing just....gone...forever.
i know a person can only take so much thats why i think you need to talk to someone...do you have any siblings? if not or if you do but feel you cant talk to them then feel free to come and talk to me and if you want i wont even talk back (just tell me not to) i can b a good listener..(well reader) so if you need to vent if you need to just say everything your feeling even if you make a list or babble anything you want and send it to someone just to know someone is there than do it...ANYTHING that can help you...
(heres my e-mail incase u want to send something there - xo_crazy_chick_ox6334 @yahoo.com or x0babygrl0x@hotmail.com)
*hope i helped
-Rosemarie
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We don't know what "life" after death is like. So maybe you would still have worries, maybe you would still have pain. My favorite saying is, as long as we are still breathing there is hope. If you quit now, you may never know what it feels like to feel better, and you deserve to feel good. If you believe in Heaven, you probably believe in God, if you end your life now, you are interupting his plan. So yes, even though you don't see it now, you have a reason to live--we were all put here for a reason. Perhaps that reason will be to help others who are going through a similar situation as yourself. Sometimes, even at 40 some years old we aren't sure of our purpose in life, but one thing we can all be sure of is that we were chosen to be here. Think of the millions of potential sperm/egg combinations--and they didn't happen, but we did! So that makes us special..and important. There is no one like you, and no one that can replace you.
Call the number that another advice giver posted and you will be greeted with a friendly voice that will not think you are crazy or wrong for feeling the way you do.
Please let us know how you are doing. People--all kinds of people really do care.
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Think about this: you have thrown yourself upon the mercy of total strangers, and all of them want you to live.
We don't even know you, and we want you to live.
Now think of your friends and family. They know and love you. They'd be miserable if you commited suicide.
Look, if you ever need to talk or vent or something, feel free to drop me a line. I, among many others, want to help you.
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you have alot of reason to live,
i promise you, maybe things right now arn't good, but try your hardest, think abut your future,
maybe you cant and i'll you see is darkness but thats okay, your human, your probably going through alot right now
BUT i know for a fact it'll get better, maybe not today or tomrrow, or newxt week, BUT i promise you in years to come, your goning to be so glade that you didn't.
i've gone through so much stuff, that i've wanted to comit sucide, i talked to my coach who i was really close with, and he tought me that " today might be bad but tomrrow is a better day"
and he made me look in other people point of veiws,
let say you do kill yourslef, think of all hte people your goning to hurt, YOUR FAMILY YOUR FRIENDS.
i know i don't know you, but i can tell you give it time, fight through it, but don't kill your self because i KNOW it will get better!
and i yes heaven is a better place, but sucide is NOT the answer to get there, the lord decided when you die, and now i don't think it's time,
i don't know what you belive in, but the Lord loves you, and please just don't kill yourself
well i hope i helped, if you ever just want to talk or something, drop somehting in my inbox
i'll listen
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If you really feel that strong about this all. Then you need to call somone, or talk to somone about this. If you think you dont have a reason to live, you need to look at the people around you. Think about how diffrent their lifes would be with you gone.
www.211.org <- I got that on google, that should help.
or call
1-800-Suicide.
hopet his helps :)
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First of all, who says you would go to heaven.
The 6th commandment-
Thou shall not kill.
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Maybe you should call a crisis line. What is killing yourself going to prove? It's going to prove that you were too much of a coward to even try to help yourself. How selfish are you being now? Think of who it will affect if you commit suicide.
1-800-SUICIDE
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Sucide is the cowards way out.
There is no easy answer to this question because no matter what any of us say, your going to do what you want to do. We may make you think about things but unless you want the help that you need right now, nothing is going to help. Sure all of us go through spots in our life that make us not what to be here anymore but that doesn't mean that you should end your life. I know that I could never leave my two little sisters here on earth alone with the peoeple that are here, they wouldn't be able to move on, and sucide has a chain reaction. Most of the people you care about will be not only shocked but do the same thing. You don't want that do you? I'm not going to sit here and tell you to kill yourself or to not kill yourself because I, as well as the others, can't make that choice for you. You've got issues - So what? What about the people that would give anything just for food, so that they could live another day! What about the people that are dying from cancer on a daily basis and don't know what to do next because they know it could be their last day on earth? There are people that would give their life just to be in your shoes right now, and your talking about giving your life up. Problems will go away if you give them time. Trust me, At the age of 17 I've gone through more than a normal human being goes through their entire life, but at one point I wanted to shoot myself too. But that doesn't mean that I went through with it because, I know deep down that I couldn't do that to those that I love and care about. I don't think you could either. Everything eventually gets better, weither we want to admit it or not.
Think about younger siblings. The reason that kept me alive was them. I swear to god, I don't know what my sisters would have done if they lost me. Sure, we fight. They tell me they hate me, but that doesn't stop me from being there for them and helping them and supporting them all the way. I couldn't hurt them in such a way that takes me out of the picture for good.
You need to do this yourself. You want help? Go to somewhere that can give you the kind of help you need, instead of sitting here asking us. Talk to your parents and tell them, yes they might be upset at first but I'm sure they'll be happier when they realize that they saved your life by you telling them. Trust them, they don't want to lose you.
Hold on and if you need anymore help with this - Contact me. I'll answer in a heartbeat. Mkay? Goodluck and I hope you chose to stay with us. <3
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You know, you remind me of me. Back in March, I actually was suffocating myself, trying to get hypothermia, and other sick ways of killing myself. I remembered this website, advicenators, and I said I wanted to commit suicide. Now, I'm all over that. Except sometimes.
Why do yo want to commit suicide? Do you want to allow those who loved you to cry over you? The only thing that made me have doubts about killing myself was my little sister. She's doing so well in life, and I would hate for her to be paralyzed in shock, her life changed forever.
So my point, there should be atleast one reason that holds you back. I'm sure that after a while, you'll feel better. I know you might be thinking, 'I'll never get over this.' I thought the same thing. I even had a notebook, writing a letter to the authourities on why I killed myself, I wrote last requests, I wrote poems about my sad life, and I wrote farewell messages to my family and school. I threw that book away. and look at me, two months later! I'm still alive! I'm sure you will be too.
Just wait. I'm sure something will come that will change your mind. Think about the good times in your life. I also thought about Adventureland, this theme park which me and my whole family go to each summer. Going with my teenage cousins, 14 and 15 makes it better, just us teens! Yeah, well think of places you went to, people you love, and things you like to do.
Please write to me again, if you need more support.
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Hey!
Trust me when I tell you suicide is not the naswer everyone has problems and I know you can`t take too much but still don`t think about suicide. I have a lot of problems and I thought about suicide but then later my problems went away and then I did get other problems you just need to learn how to deal with them thats all. Sure you will be dead and wont have to deal with anything but come on life is better then that there is more to life then just problems. Hope I helped at all! ♥
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Hey. I don't know how much I can help you just by typing in a little box, but I had a lot of problems a few years back with wanting to kill myself. For a long time I thought suicide was the only solution...but I never did kill myself.
It's not worth it. You know how the good times, when everything is working out and life is WONDERFUL have to end? Well, by that same card, the bad times when life sucks and the world sucks and everything seems shot to hell...only last so long. Depression seems like it takes over your life, and it really does. It's a shitty place to be...but it's not forever. You can get help. I promise you.
Because you posted here, I assume you're scaring yourself and you want some type of help. Could you talk to a parent or friend? If you could go to see a therapist or someone or and see if you could get on anti-depressants...well, it's not 100% going to make everything better immediately...but with hard work, you can make it through.
Your life isn't the only one that you affect. Killing yourself will hurt the people your close to. There's a statistic somewhere that says at least 7 people are DEEPLY affected by the suicide of someone around them. It's the type of thing that can seriously give another person a mental health problem. So if you don't think you're worth living for (and you ARE; trust me) then don't kill yourself because you'll be hurting the people around you so much.
There IS a way out of depression. I promise. Have you tried calling 1.800.SUICIDE? It's a volunteer organization, and you can call whenever, and someone will talk to you about your problems...no matter the time. They can't give advice and they're no substitute for a therapist, but they can listen and sometimes it feels better to talk about it.
Suicide isn't a good choice. You're beautiful. Just for being. Every day you're alive. You're existing and being brave making it through the day. You CAN do it. Take care of yourself.
Let me know if you need anything.
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