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my period


Question Posted Sunday June 11 2006, 2:11 pm

hiya ok im sort of embarrassed about this but here i go. ok, im 13, and ive masterbated since i was around 10 i havn't done it for about 2 cumin up to 3 weeks now as im trying to stop.
I havn't started my period yet and i wondered if this could of effected it. If it has, could of effected the later things in life, say....if i had a baby. I dont no much about periods i just no the basics. Plus when im walkin around i dont feel it but when i go to bed at night i have sort of dribbled my wee a bit im really embarrassed about and i dont no what to do please help!

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streetcarp answered Sunday June 11 2006, 10:21 pm:
Heyy there's nothing to ashamed of!

Everyone masturbates, it's natural, and extremely common in puberty (which is what you're going through right now). You're learning more about yourself and what you enjoy.

It won't affect your period or pregnancy so don't worry about that, your period will come when it's ready. Trust me, it's not something you really want anyway. :P

As for the wee thing, I'm thinking it's an infection. Drink plenty of water instead of fizzy drinks and such, and make sure you go to the toilet when you need to.

Hope I've helped :)

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TheTeenGirl answered Sunday June 11 2006, 7:47 pm:
I'm not sure what exactly you're asking, but what I have to say might help.

Masterbating is normal. It's kind of our way of finding what we desire and want sexually. Everyone is curious about sex, so that kind of cures our curiousity for it. Everyone does this. I know it's embarassing but that's why nobody talks about it. It's private and it's not something people share. So truthfully theres no reason to try stopping this unless it really bothers you. but just keep in mind that you are not the only one who does this.

About your period, it has nothing to do with masterbation. It's normal that you don't have your period just yet. It comes at certain times for different girls. Your period will help you have a baby, so if you don't have your period and you are sexually active you can't become pregnant. The wetness in your panties that you feel is probably vaginal discharge and that's normal too. If you find a lot of this happening, you might want to consider buying panty liners. They absorb that stuff you have so that your underwear won't get so dirty so fast. If you have anymore questions on this subject, don't be afraid to post back.

-TheTeenGirl

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KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Sunday June 11 2006, 4:40 pm:
no i dont think this has anything to do with the reason you havent started your period yet. starting your period is somewhat hereditary, so it kinda depends on when your mom and grandma started. also, if yuor really active in sports sometiems it has an impact on it. once you ahve started developing breats and such, that is when its normal for you to start your peroid. usually girls start between 8- 16. so your like right in the middle, and have nothing to worry about. masterbating wont effect your later years, as in having a baby. it is just soemthing you do to pleasure youself. which is natural. you would actually be surprised on how many people actually do it, boys and girls. the numbers are huge. the "dribbled wee" might not actually be wee. it might be discharge. but im not for sure. im sure its nothing for you to be concerned about. just sit back and wait for your visit from aunt flow to arrive. once it has, you'r stuck with her till your around 40. you get sick of it after like 2 months. haha, dont worry. you shouldnt be wishing for it, good luck.

hope this helps!! :] ♥

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