Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...
Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.
He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!
I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...
Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad...
haha thanks. well ive taken tae kwon do lessons and can and have wooped a guy in a fight... mayb not wrestling tho. and ive beaten guys at arm wresting... and basketball... and pool haha. but anyways ya mayb tell him something like stop being sexist and to respect you and stop it with the re-matches.
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i did cut. scratch that do. my parents no bout it but they dont understand. they think i've stopped. i smoke too. i feel so sad all the time tho. no one is there for me. i feel so alone all the time.i tell my frends(obviously not vry good ones) and they freak out or say im and idiot. i cant handle it. i need sum1 to tak to. .i hate myself so much. i just wanna die. evry1 else is so happy. help plz.
sorry for not getting to this sooner but im here if you still need to talk. dont hate yourself, and i assure you not everyone is as happy as they look, i mean people fake it all the time i no i do sometimes. my aim is whiteice1127 and myspace url is the same.
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iM HaViNG PRoBLEMS WiTH CUTTiNG KiNDA ..
I Got Raped A Few Weeks Back...Plus Over 3 Of Mii Close Relatives died with-in 2 weeks :l ..It Really Changed me Now im angry depressed and i hate myself ... i dont know why but ive been scratching myself with a cumpus making my arms bleed .. Lately Ive Been Having Huge Urges To Start Using Something Sharper...And go deeper..I Dont Want to tho ..
Can You Help Me?? PLZ!
my msn address is
Love_is_distant@HOTMAIL>COM add me plz :(
Love Aymi xx
cutting only makes things worse belive me i know... the way i get over stuff is to just realize that #1 it happend, it sucks, but at least i'm not dead #2 things could be so much worse and cutting won't solve anything it's just addicting(don't know why but to some people it just is, thank god i stopped), and a lot of people don't react well to seeing someone with huge cuts up and down their arm. With things like this, it's good that your wanting to talk about it and not keep it inside all bottled up. talking about it, espesially with close freinds that you can trust helps a lot. and about cutting deeper and using something sharper, what if you accedently cut too deep, and for some reason the doctors couldn't save you and you died, think about how you felt when your three close relatives died…would you want them to go through what you are? I hope I helped and if you ever have anymore problems you can ask me for help as much as you want.
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15/f - Grade Ten in highschool
If you read this whole question and answer, thank you so much. My happiness is on the line, and I would really appreciate any help I can get. I will appropriately rate all answers. :)
When I entered grade eight (first year of highschool) I kept friends with some people from elementary school. After a year passed they told me I was an ugly bitch and a loser. They said it over the computer, not even to my face. I ditched them and made new friends, it took a year but finally I remade my life. Best thing that ever happened to me.
Over the summer I became friends with a new group of people and for the last month and a half I have been with them all of the time at school. I do not see my old friends because of their schedules, unfortunately.
These new friends have been ignoring me for the past month. They make plans infront of me without inviting me, don't save me a seat in classes and overall just ignore me. I knew it was because the 'leader' of the group was threatened by me because I was (not purposely) stealing attention away from her. She didn't want to deal with the competition so she started to ignore me. Everyone else started to follow, and soon it became really obvious.
Today I invited one of the girls to go shopping with me and she was supposed to call me yesterday but didn't. When I called her this morning she lied and said she 'didn't know' that one of my others friend's birthday party was today so she couldn't come.
The other girl, having the birthday party, invited basically everyone she knew to the mall to go shopping. There was not a limit on people that could come, but I was the only person not invited.
I have not done anything wrong, at all.
I know I can't be friends with them anymore, but I have run out of options. My school isn't that big and because of the events over the last two years, I have tried being friends with everyone. I have run out of options.
I tried talking to my 'friends' about ignoring me but they ignored me. I should of known better.
What should I do? I do not have any more options of friends here.
So far I have only thought of moving, but for all of that work, will I really find any decent people?
Or I could always not be friends with anyone until I graduate and people mature.
Finally, if I stayed friends with them (or tried) I would have to put up with how bad they are to me. Should I really have to do that?
i'm going through a very similar problem right now and all you can really do is talk to them... it probably won't work b/c people are the way they are and most the time the hardest thing is to accept that they probably won't change... but it's always worth a try... and if they don't start being true friends and treat you equal then i say heck no don't put up with them treating u like crap... as hard as it seems to find new friends there are always new people to become friends with...and there's no reaon you should have to be alone the rest of high school...there are people out there that will treat you like a real friend... i hope everything turns out alright and good luck =)
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i just got a pallete expander,(it widens your jaw out) and.... i kinda have a lisp,i cant say some letters,im wondering,will the lisp go away after i get used to it?
dang... that sucks... i got one on a couple months ago and it took about 4 or 5 days to b able to talk almost the same as without it... i still can't say chicken... lol... or anything with ch or j in it very well... but yeah, you'll get used to it... oh, btw... brush and floss A LOT... i hope i helped :)
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Well.. I used to be popular, when popular was good. When it was good to be nice & smart. Well yeah I had tons of friends and I wasn't very shy.. But now I'm like really shy. (I'm going to 9th grade--highschool, 14/f) I can talk to people on the internet but in person, I turn red and stuff.. and people just know I'm shy so hardly anyone talks to me. My friends that know the real me.. I'm not at ALL shy around them.. but at school I am? I can't really explain this, but please help. How can I make myself talk to people, not blush, be more outgoing, and make more friends? Thanks!
i know just how you're feeling... in 8th grade and the beginning of 9th grade i was the exact same way. and you can't just stop being shy with a snap of the finger... it takes time... and to this day i waould still be shy if it wern't for my friends... they showed me how not to be shy. so ask you're friends to help you with it... isn't that what friends are for, to help you. and you said people know you're shy so they don't talk to you... then take the first step to not being shy... go up to them and start talking.. be funny... not stupid funny though. be wild and crazy... but not the run around in circles saying i like purple monkeys! crazy...lol... just be yourself!... good luck
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I cuss a lot, and I want to stop. How can I stop cussing so much?
hang around mormons(i'm not trying to be disrespectful)... if you cuss around them enough they will slap the shiz out of you(or at least the ones i hang around do after you do it enough to get them real offended)... and if you get hit enough maybe you'll stop... you can also use alternate words like freaking, shiz, dang, and stuff like that... and if you do dicide to hang around mormons or any really religeous people... when you say hell and they say something about it say, "hell isn't a cuss word!... it's in the bible!"... they hate that...hehe... i hope i helped
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kjhglksdjfh does anyone know how to get rid of shin splints? i've been icing and resting and streching for about a week and it won't go away!
well... good news... ok...there is none... the bad news is that it's gonna take a hell of a lot longer than a week... it took me about 6 weeks to compleatly get rid of it... see, the name doesn't really discribe what's actually happening... the muscle tissue is actually tearing away from your bone... but thank god it is a very small tear and it tears really slowly... what i did to get rid of it was ice it of course and then use a heating pad after to relax the muscles... you can also soak your legs in REALLY cold water for 15 minutes... don't run for at least 2 weeks strait... and i don't know if you've done this strech or not but it's where you put your foot vertically against the wall and bend your leg while the opposite leg strait... don't push against the wall to hard...very gently...and i don't know if you play sports or what you play, or what your coach is like(how much they make you run)... but once it gets better icy-hot helps A LOT... and right b4 and after you get done with working out you should always ice it...even if you think it's all better(for about 2 weeks after it seems to be better)... hope i helped... and i hope it goes away faster than mine did
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ok well i have had black teachers and every class ive been in a class with a black teacher (only females) i end up hating that class even thought its my favorite school subject.and i also hate the way they talk i mean their accent and the way they move. but i do have some black friends (males and females) and i dont have any problems with them we hang out and go places and just do stuff
i don't think you're racist... if that were racist... then i'd DEFINATLY be racist about white people(even though i'm white myself *looks around inocently*)... it's probably just that teacher(s)... i don't even think it's b/c she's black, because i think we've all had teachers whether they be white or black that we've hated(and if you havn't please exuse my mistake)... and another thing... think about all the types of people, black/ african american/ african/Jamaican , white, indian, native american, asian, romanian, british, irish, russian, and the list goes on forever... in at least one of those other types of people besides black, can you think of anything about that race(s) of people that you dislike about their accent, mannerisms, culture or anythig else... if you can... you probably arn't racist... some of the things may bother you, and you have that right to be bothered, everyone does... but try not to hold it against them... they were raised like that... what if they didn't like the way you talked or did things... and you couldn't help it because you've been taught like that and you don't know any different... just keep that in mind... hope i was able to help
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My two best friends just recently started drinking over the summer. I have been away and just found out about this recently. I however, dont want to start drinking they are, I think it is pretty pointless and I dont need alcohol to have a good time. I KNOW that I am able to say no if I am put into a pressuring situation by them, but I am afraid our friendship isnt the same anymore. It seems like they want to move on to bigger and better things, but they truly are my best friends in the world. What do I do? 15/f
you're totally right it's pointless!... man, my best friend started drinking in 7th grade(we in 10th now), thank god she don't want me to do it, if she did i'd slap her...lol... though you probably don't want to do that... anyway, and you're right the friendship probably isn't the same anymore. and if by bigger and better things you mean possibly getting into drugs and going to jail, yeah. but if you sayin what i think you sayin then hellz no they ain't... how many drunks have you seen become something really important in their lives... not many(besides presidents, but that's not a good example...lol). you should talk to them about it, most of the time it don't help, i'm not trying to be negative, but addictions are VERY hard to stop or even realize for the person doing it. and if they start pressuring you to do it, tell them no, duh(but you would already know 2 do that)... and tell them how it makes you feel and how you feel about them doing it and how you feel yalls friendships arn't the same... and if they really care, if they're really the best friends in the world, dispite their addiction, then hopefully they'll stop, or at least stop trying to get you to do it(if they do, or are) and respect you for being so much cooler than their sorry asses(no offence)... hope i helped
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Okay so i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 17.(he just turned it about a month ago, and i am turning 15 in November).
We are seriously crazy about each other, and if you want to say that a 14 doesn't know what love is, then i'm the next closest thing to it. We've been together for about a year (16 days shy). We want to be together forever. Yeah, you can think we're crazy, it's alright. lol. What i'd like to know is, is it normal to feel like this at an age like 14, and is it realistic that we could last forever?
when i was 14(a year ago)... i went out with a guy that was 17... it wuz cool cuz we'd known each other for years... since i was 8. the only problem was he was a junior, i was a freshman. he want's to be a firefighter and he's leaving to go to tennesse in 8 months. so we broke up about a week or 2 ago... we'll always be friends, and maybe someday it'll work out. so i would say yeah it's normal, and who can really define realisticness, if you love each other enough you'll be able to be together forever. it may not be likely, but it's better to love and lose than to never love at all, right?
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hey im 13/f
my mom says if i ever get a boyfriend and she knows about it, shell be really pissed cuz im not aloud to be dating yet. i really like this guy and theres a rumor going around that hes gonna ask me out. well my best friend said and these are her words.."ill make sure your mom knows." i cant not tell my best friend that i have a boyfriend and even if i dont, itll get around. i just dont know what to do.
ok... firt off, that "best friend" of yours... don't sound like much of a best friend... here's the definision of best friend by whiteice: a best friend is someone who's ALWAYS got ur back, ALWAYS there for you, and NEVER listens to you cuz they don't need to, they already know what you will say... and if you don't wanna get in trouble with your mom, when he askes you out you should tell him, "hey, i really like you. but if my mom ever found out i'd b grounded like 4ever.." and if this guy respects you, he'll understand, if he gets all mad, he ain't worth your time.
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i am an 18 year old teenager in need of some desperate advice.
do you offer advice?
PLEASE can you offer me some advice.
I have got myself into the most HORRIBLE situation ever and can see no solution. Please could you offer me any advice? i feel sick thinking about it all.
I have a sort of relationship??/emotional problem
My Problem is this:
When I was in primary school I fell in love with someone called Ian.
But then when it came too high school, he got sent to a private all boy's school far away and I got sent to the local comprehensive.
I thought I'd NEVER see him EVER again and despaired.
Around about the same time my Grandmother of whom I was VERY close to died. She practically raised me.My mother never seemed to bother with me. However I never noticed this neglect (by my mother)until my Grandma died.
I noticed that I was very unsupported by my mother and in general uncared for. Sometimes she was also emotionally abusive towards me--sometimes she could be so nasty she'd make me cry.
Because of all these things(the death of my Grandma, the loss of Ian and also the uncaring attituse at home) I began to feel very depressed.
Then I made a TERRIBLE mistake:
Somedays I felt so low I found it almost impossible to think about the future and sometimes couldn't find the will-power to get up in the mornings.I started to refuse to go to school asn I felt so low. I'd been bullied VERY VERY badly at the primary school i went to (before I moved to the one Ian was at)which also made me quite nervous of people and scared of school too.However I recieved no help, no counselling or anything(do you think this was neglect?)
I refused to go to High school on-and-off for the first three years by which time I was REALLY REALLY very behind in my work.I then refused to go to school altoghether as I couldn't cope any more with my life. I was SEVERELY depressed and wasn't thinking logically. I ended up having 5 measly hours of home tuition per week, for the next two years which should have been spent in school. Unsurprisingly I then failed all my GCSEs (apart from one, where I got a 'C' in English)I felt so depressed. I then have stayed at home doing nothing for the past two years as I have felt too embarrassed to face the world.
However this is my problem:
I now want??/need to go to college. However I have just found out thet the college I wanted to attend is right next door to the top educational sixth form which Ian goes to. If I go there then I will definantely bump into him…but the thing is he will NEVER EVER be interested in me now (even if he used to be when I was ok).how on earth canI explain to him WHY I refused to go to school? He’s going to think I am a bad person .
But the thing is he's studying 'A' levels at a top sixth form college. And I .....will probably have to go on an Entry level course and learn really basic stuff like how to cook, use public transport etc(basically for absolute dim-wits)
He'll NEVER EVER be interested in me now. He's in a different league to me. He's so clever.but this is killing me. I wish I could be with him more than anything in the world but as soon as he finds out that's it....my dream...dead......finished
Also even if I go to a different college, it's inevitable that i'll bump into him whilst out and about anyway.(I just can’t believe that I DIDN’T THINK ABOUT THIS years ago….i just wasn’t thinking properly) But If I ignore him then he'll think I'm not interested i him, when I am. But if I talk to him he'll not like me anyway when he finds out what I've done. He'll think I;m a terrible person.
The thing is (and I really need your help on this) HOW ON EARTH DO I EXPLAIN TO HIM ABOUT HOW I REFUSED TO GO TO SCHOOL--AND WORST OF ALL WHY? HE'LL NOT THINK VERY WELL OF ME ONCE I'VE TOLD HIM. I'M not going to lie. I need him to know the truth.my other problem is that when I refused to go to school--s did my sister(only she didn't have a valid reason) she simply wouldn't go just because I was off school and didn't see why she should go either.HOW ON EARTG CAN I EXPLAIN TO HIM HOW MY SISTER IS NOW IN THE SAME SITUATION I'M IN?HE'LL THINK MY FAMILY ARE AWFUL.(he used to know her you see)
What on earth should I do?
Also my mum's still not very nice to me.I want to move into the local youth hostel? but unfortunately I don't know how. Please could you tell me how I can move out? How do you move out?
Also, one of the reasons why I couldn't cope with school was because of the neglect/emotional abuse that I suffered at home. I thought that if I moved out then it would offer ian a bit of validation that I couldn't cope with/was having a bad time at home and he might believe me then when I told him about the neglect.
if I stay at home and go to college as I am now then he'll think I'm making it all up as I'm ok now.and he'll wonder how come it is that I couldn't cope with school/education back then but I can now!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT ME MOVING OUT? but are Foyers rough places? don/t you have to be quite tough to survive living in one?Also could i manage living like this since I don't realy know basic stuff I need to know to live independantly?PLEASE HELP.
i HAVE DEEPLY CONSIDERED going to Wales and living in a Foyer there so that I never have to face ian(because it's inevitable that we'll meet) WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS IDEA?
but would they let me live in a Foyerl so far away or would they refuse and say I need to live in a local one?How do I move out?
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Could you reply to me. I feel really sick thinking about it all. I need some advice----fast!
Should i move out to a local Foyer/youth Hostel? Or to Wales?
PLEASE HELP ME I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO :(
i live in England
dang... that sucks, a lot. firt of all, you can't go back and change the past, so try and forget about it. secondly, this Ian dude, you should tell him everything, every single little detail. why would he think bad of you for being depressed? he wouldn't... i mean, come on. your mom seems to have mentaly and emotionally freaking abandoned you. you're best friend in the whole world who is the guy you love so dearly even after all these years went to that school far away. the school counsellers didn't even try to help, ur damn strait that's neglect! and your grandma who seems to have been the only one in your family who ever cared about you died... tell me no one should be depressed about that... MY ASS!... you have every right to have felt like that, and even though you made a really bad decision in the past, that shouldn't condemn you forever to keep on living all sad all the time... if you tell Ian everything he should understand, if he cares about you the way you care about him... i hope everything turns out ok
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Hey my name is rachel and iam 17 years old and there's this girl at school shatara she's a senior and iam a junior we are both in the same special ed class at school and she's always talking bad about my clothes like she asks me why don't i ever match my clothes and then she usually calls me a bitch or whore afterwords and then she asked me why didn't I have any brand named shoes then she calls me a m fin bitch and then when then mrs.hope wrote me up and I got suspended for 2 weeks becouse I slapped her in the face I know I shouldn't have done it,but I was just so sick and tired of her ass and mrs.hope didn't even writer her up I think they are both prejudice becouse they are both black and iam whithe oh and by the way iam the only white girl in the class to and everybody makes fun of me what should I do?
ok...i may not have any idea of what that's like... mainly b/c most of my friends are black...i'm NOT a wigger!... and that's why they gave me the nickname white ice... cause i'm white... and cool with them. if you want them to respect you, you gotta respect them... that does NOT mean try to be like them and be all like "wut it do yo?"... if i was like that... i wouldn't be white ice now would i... i would be... white panda face b/c of bruises. so you shouldn't b afaid... and you shouldn't fear them... show them you are not some frilly little girly preppy white girl, you gotta be tough... but don't slap anymore, dang, you said only white girl in the whole class, that sounds yipes... so thank God you only have 2 be in there for an hour or so a day huh...lol... good luck
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Female. I used to have a lot of best guy friends, we had this huge group. One guy got all of them in to drugs, now they spend their days getting stoned. They're so perverted now, they expect since I have big boobs that I`ll do things with them. I've fallen really hard for one guy, he's totally sweet and respects me, but I hear from everybody he does drugs too and he's not a virgin. (Keep in mind, were 13)
What should I do? Is this guy totally unsafe and wrong to be around?
13 huh... ok... you should steal all there drugs and pretend a purple monkey ate it!...jk... you should so ditch those loserz(no offence)... they might have been awesome and the coolest people ever... but think about... they get stoned all the time... they want you 2 do "things" with them... seriously... and the guy you like... if you liked him b4 he started doing drugs(if he does them)... he's NOT the same person...and NEVER will b... and if everyone is telling u he does drugs and isn't a virgin... at 13... but you say he's nice and respects you... he's probably just trying to get you to have sex with him... i know it's hard to be in a situation like this... i've known someone that was in the same situation as you... and thank God i talked some sence into her or she wouldn't have any chance of ever having a real future... and if you do go out with that guy(supposing he does do drugs)... even though you probably say you'd never do them... you will... you're only human...and it will most likely ruin your life forever... or at least screw it up a whole lot 4 a long time
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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live.
aaaahhhh!... don't do that...everyone has a reason to live!... you may not know yours yet...but i know someday you will!.. don't give up...that's the worst thing anyone could ever do in any situatuion whether it be a sport, relationship... or way more serious things like your life!... please don't kill yourself... and you will find a way to cope... you just havn't found it yet... give it more time... i know wut it's like to feel the way you're feeling... i don't think it's ever been as serious for me as it is you, i've thought of suicide... but deep down i know i'm to chicken to actually do it... please... if you need to talk you can talk to me AIM/yahoo: forestwulf627 ... just please get help from someone... and don't give up... "life iz pain... anyone who tells you otherwise is selling something"... and i'm the one that's trying to sell you hope
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i need a way to cope with stress i have no one to talk to know one gets me im emo and im 14 female and all alone i'm a cutter and i hate myself and it seems like im the only one thats like this because everyones so preppy help also i get depressed alot
man, there's no reason you should be cuttin yourself... i had a friend that did the same thing and it made me so mad that she did that to herself b/c i cared about her so much... She ended up in the hospital for it 2... She was always depressed b/c she had been raped and her best friend died in a car crash and she couldn't get over it… so if all that’s happened to you or more than that… I can empathize even though it’s never happened to me… i may not be emo... namely b/c i don't like labels... but i have had a lot of emo friends... and cutting yourself sure ain't gonna help with stress... and even if you think you don't have anyone... you can talk to me... I’ve had problems with depression since I was like 12...(that‘s 3 years… not fun) so now you can't say you don't have anyone anymore... AIM/yahoo: forestwulf627
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how can you make yourself happy? because I can't seem to do it. I'm completely miserable, and I dont think its healthy for me toi be so negative.
you can't make yourself happy... believe me, i know... i suffer from depression... it ain't fun... but you get used to it... i ain't sayin don't do anything to try to fix your unhappyness... the most important thing you can do is talk to someone about what's making you feel this way... it'll help you understand better of what's wrong... and hopefully you'll soon find a way to fix whatever's wrong... if you need to talk you can IM me on AIM or yahoo... both are forestwulf627... another thing that helps when you feel like that s to think about someone you love or have ever loved... the one person you care about more than anyone else... think about the memories you've shared with this person... i hope you feel better soon
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i've been friends with this for like 3 years and we've always been close because we saw each other pretty much every day. now we're both in different classes and we never see each other i just feel like i wanna cry because i just miss her and all that we've been through together and i really just don't wanna lose her as my best friend. has anyone else been in this situation? if you have can you tell me about it. and how can i get my friend back. thank you soo much.
i know exactly how you feel... yall should hang out after school then... just b/c you don't have any classes together doesn't mean you can't be friends... my school's so big i havn't had a class with my best friend since 8th grade... so we play on our school basketball team and other teams outside of school... spend every moment we can together after school... and it's made us better friends b/c we have to try so much harder to stay friends... i think it's just a test of friendship... and i think yall will stay friends if yall care as much about each other as it sounds... and yall been friends for too long for something so small(though it seems so big) to get in the way of that
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(SORRY IT MAYBE LONG, BUT PLEASE HELP)
so ive been friends with this girl since the beginning of this year. when we started being friends we always made these jokes that we call eachother ugly but it was a joke and it still is and yea. but like now she we are like really close friends and im friends with her friends and shes friends with my friends.
they get along fine but say we are hanging out with a group of 4-5 friends i always see this, she is always being so critical of what i say and do but not to the others. she always shuts me down and doesnt let me be happy. but for some reason i know for a fact she isnt doing this on purpose. i also told her 2 times that she is doing this to me and she never said anything to me.
idk what i should do. i know i should talk to her but i dont know what to say. please help me!!!
this sounds exactly like what happend to me few months ago... you should tell her it's making you feel down that she's talkin about you like that and that it mite have been okay used to but it's kinda been bothering you lately... if she doesn't say anything she probably realizes what she's been doin and feels bad that she did it and doesn't want to admit it... so if she don't talk you could say, " why won't you answer me, best friends are supposed to be able to talk to each other, supposed to have each others backs, and always be there for each other... can't you just tell me what's goin on?"(or sumthin like that)... i hope everything turns out all right
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