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im losing my best friend
i've been friends with this for like 3 years and we've always been close because we saw each other pretty much every day. now we're both in different classes and we never see each other i just feel like i wanna cry because i just miss her and all that we've been through together and i really just don't wanna lose her as my best friend. has anyone else been in this situation? if you have can you tell me about it. and how can i get my friend back. thank you soo much.
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i know exactly how you feel... yall should hang out after school then... just b/c you don't have any classes together doesn't mean you can't be friends... my school's so big i havn't had a class with my best friend since 8th grade... so we play on our school basketball team and other teams outside of school... spend every moment we can together after school... and it's made us better friends b/c we have to try so much harder to stay friends... i think it's just a test of friendship... and i think yall will stay friends if yall care as much about each other as it sounds... and yall been friends for too long for something so small(though it seems so big) to get in the way of that
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if you think you are gonna lose the friendship just because you are in different classes, then you werent very good friends to begin with. there is always lunch, after school, clubs, and such anyways.
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Well....This never happened to me.And I think wat you should do to get your friend back is to invite her over your house sometime wen she has the chance that you can go and hangout with and talk.And you could invite her to the mall and the movies too.I HOPE I HELPED!BYE!
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I used to be in this situation before last year with one of my old best friends. We only really had one class together, so we'd try and talk in it and pair up and stuff. But what else we'd do is whenever we'd get home we'd talk on the internet or talk on the phone alot and sometimes whenever school for the day would be over, I'd ride home with her on the bus and then I'd stay over her house till like, 9 o' clock at night and we'd just hang out on the weekends as much as we could. But you should also talk this opportunity to talk to new people and make new friends, and maybe even some more best friends. You're allowed to have more than one. :] And sometimes whenever you have only one best friend and you're like, attached to the hip, it makes you less approachable because people look at you and are like,"Oh, she's already talking to that girl, they're best friends. She probably doesn't have time to hang out with me." So just hang out with your best friend on the weekends, but welcome the opportunity to make more new friends. I hope I helped. <3
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I hope you are able to see this soon,
but I mean its never good when people make excuses for things you know? Like when people apologize and then make an excuse it totally takes the sincerity out of what she was trying to say. I mean the main thing is, people change, and theres really not a lot you can do about it. I thinks she is just moving on with her life you know? And sadly it might not include you, but dont let her problems become yours, or vise versa. Atleast you've talked to her about it, and she knows a little of how you feel.
But I mean, you cant change people, or the way they think. So dont rely on her for everything.. I'm sorry this is happening for you. :[
Well I hate to say this, but sometimes things like this happen. But you can always meet new people. Dont hesitate to, because you cant be stuck to your best friend forever. You need to try to make new ones too. Its important in order to grow. But dont worry just talk to your friend about it, but dont be selfish. I mean if she doesnt seem like she cares, you need to confront her about it. In my opinion, in situatoins I've been in, its just been friends not accepting that I'm not just theres and that I have other friends. You know? But get together with your bff, and tell her how you feel.
Communication is the key.
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since my school is incredibly small, i haven't, but why don't you invite her to do things with you after school/weekends?? you can always hang out when you have off or on school breaks. just because you aren't in the same classes shouldn't change your relationship. my bf is in a totally different state than me & our relationship is fine. soo just try doing stuff together when you can. maybe talk online/on the phone too.
-hope that helped!♥
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