Hey. My name's Liv and I fancy myself a rather good advice giver, or at least my friends do. Er, I'm fifteen, love anything related to Japan, am a LOTR nerd, like to draw and paint, and love to write. I'm an anti-conformist, even to anti- conformists.
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Age: 15
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I usually get my icons and quotes at xanga but does any of you know any other good sites?? Thanks! (link)
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www.avatarhell.com
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I need advice!!! I am really really impatient about like everything!!!! How can I learn to be more patient in situations like waiting for something I am excited for or even just waiting like 20 minutes for something? Thank you!! (link)
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You can make up a game in your head. One time when I was at the hospitial I counted colors of cars. You could also write something in your head, like a story or a song or a poem.
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I am 13 and weigh 111lbs. and I have b36 size boobs... isn't it a little wierd that i haven't gotten my period? Is there something wrong... should I see a doctor?
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It's not weird ata all, everyone starts at different times, you still havn't been all the way through pueberty, it can happen anytime during then!
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How come everytime I go to the bathroom i have a clear liquidy discharge in my underwear? I feel like I should constantly be wearing a panty liner or something.. Sometimes I even wad up a little toilet paper and stick it there so it doesnt leave marks in my underwear! Whats wrong with me -- im always wet but not horny!! (link)
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It's like how guys get ann erection for no reason during the day, females can lubricate themselves even if they're not randy, it's a natural every day thing.
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if i had sex about 2 weeks ago i wouldn't know if i was pregnant yet right? because ever since then i've had to go to the bathroom a lot and i don't think it's a blatter infection but i like hurt really bad and stuff and i think i have to go to the doctors but i couldn't possibly be pregnant could i? we used a condom (link)
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If you're worried about pregnancy, then you should take a test. You'll worry about it until you found out. If you're sure that nothing bad happend to the condom, like that it didn't break or anything, it's probably not, but like I like to say, it's better to go to the docters for a hiccup than to spend your time worrying that it might be something else.
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I want to success in school and try my hardest to get straight A's or at least 4 of them. I want to make my mom and dad proud of me and I'll feel really good in side.
My true question is, how do you increase your memory? I want to have a better memory so when I hear it, I learn it quicker.
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How do I remember things? I want to do really well in school. Should I read more books? Should I read at least 1 hour a day? Should I review old things over and over?
Teachers, parents, friends, you can help me!
Any advice will help a lot. (link)
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I'm not sure if this will help, but I hope it does.
I heard that it's good to study when you wake up in the morning, because your mind is still weird from sleep and you're more likely to take more information in. Sort of like that thing people do where they listen to books being read or something like that when they sleep.
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At the beginning of summer, I started developing an eating disorder. I didn't know why I wouldn't eat and I didn't understand why it was happening but it scared me and the rest of my family. My mom wanted to take me to the doctor but I kept telling her that I was fine and everything was okay. Not long after, I was volunteering at the hospital and passed out. My mom then decided that she was going to take me to the doc. By the time she took me, things were starting to get better for me and I was eating normal again. The doctor took blood work and told me that the blood work was fine. I've figured out why I haven't been eating. When things get bad for me or something happens that just makes me really upset, I don't eat and it's something I can control. Other things happen to me that I can't control but food is the one thing that only I can control. When I'm happy and life is good, I can eat like a pig. What should I do to stop this? (link)
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You should start a simple hobbie. One like knitting or writing, or something that you feel you can control. Do it while you are upset and you'll have one thing you can control and might be able to eat. You might also remind yourself that yes, you can control what eat, but you can't control how your body acts to your lack of food. I really hope this helps you.
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the problem is Im BI well atleast I think I am I rather want guys but I wouldnt mine experiencing.. Im 14 so maybe its just a phase. Well I made out with my friends b4 but I was just teaching her how cause she was going to the movies with her boyfriends, but I want to finger her or eat her out.. WE both always make fun of gay people like who we think is gay and all so I know she is straight but should I tell her that I am Bi? im afriad it will ruinin our friendship. she is my best friends sence the age of 7 so almost 8 years.. what should I do (link)
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You should only tell if you feel like you're ready. Your sexuality is something that's very personal. Just because you like her, you shouldn't feel the need to tell her so; I mean, if you liked a guy, you wouldn't go up to him and say, "I'm straight." would you?
Just ask yourself if you're ready for someone to know something so important. If you feel even a little wrong about it, you shouldn't tell her, though. It's eaiser to change a 'no' to a 'yes' than it is to change a 'yes' to a 'no.'
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ok well i have had black teachers and every class ive been in a class with a black teacher (only females) i end up hating that class even thought its my favorite school subject.and i also hate the way they talk i mean their accent and the way they move. but i do have some black friends (males and females) and i dont have any problems with them we hang out and go places and just do stuff (link)
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I think you just dislike the person teaching, not the color of their skin. And I'm sure you would know if you were racist, because you would hate them (and the other blacks at your school) immediatly.
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So, one of my friends, let's call her June, has a huge crush on one of my guy friends, let's call him Ben. I told June, truthfully, that I was going to try and hook them up on a date, because she's desperate for his attention. And Ben and I are the kind of friends where we hug and smooch eachother on the cheek every day. So before I tell him about June yesterday morning, he leans over and kisses me on the mouth, and before I know it, his tongue's in my mouth, too. I was too surprised to react. I like Ben too, but he's such a flirt and since he's moving in december, all he wants is someone to fool around with, and that someone is me. But June really likes him. I know she deserves better, and I probably do too. I told June that he's a player and is only looking for sex, but she still likes him. Should I tell her he kissed me? What should I tell Ben? I need help!!! (link)
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June's your friend, and you should be honest with her, but let her know that you would never go with a guy she liked. But you should let her know why you think they shouldn't go out, and that you just want to make her happy, because she might think you actually would steal him from her. The best way is is the honest way.
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So ive been going out w/ my girlfriend for 4 months now and up until about the past 3 weeks eevrything has been fantanstic. the 3 weeks comes into play because thats when she stopped taking her anti-depressant medication. She told me she just ran out and hasnt bother to get the prescription re-filled, but i think she just got tired of them. since then shes been lashing out at me, had unstable moods, and just isnt the same. Ive told her shes changing but she just ignores me. I love her very much but if shes goign to continue like this (it seems like its intentional) then i may just have to call it quits. (link)
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Tell here that. Tell her how much you love her, and how you don't want to leave her for something fixable, but she's lashing out at you, and it's damaging your realationship. Ask her to please get her meds, and say that you'll even go with her if you have to so you can have a date afterwards. If she doesn't care enough about her realationship or you enough to get her meds and take them, then you should break up with her, teach her the concenquences of things like this, or she'll never understand. But let her know that you still love her and still wish to help her, and even be with her again if she changes her ways.
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Okay, so this summer i went to a sleepaway camp for two months and i met my (current) boyfriend there. He lives in a different state then i do and in the beg. it was'nt hard at all to keep in touch and have a relationship with him, but now that school started we stopped talking as much as we did before (we now talk like once a day and maybe twice). But tonight i was at my house with my friends and we were talking online and he told me that he had to talk to me "about us" and then he quickly mentioned that it wasnt bad. so i called him after my friends left but he was busy with his friends so he hung up and called me back like an hour l8er and said "hey i'm really messed up right now so ill call you tomorrow bye" (i thought that that meant that he was drunk) so i hung up right away without syaing bye because i was kind of upset at him for ignoring me the whole night and i guess i was also kind of scared of what he might have to say to me. so i was just wondering what you guys think he might have to say to me and if you think our relationship could maybe be over?
thanks so much (link)
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I think you should just call him and straight out ask him "Is there something going on that you don't want to tell me?" or "Do you want to break up with me?" or "Is there something bad going on with our realationship?" A realationships is based on trust and conversation, so just talk to him. You shouldn't keep on with a realationship thats over with one person, that's what happened with me and my girlfriend that lives in Nevada, and it sucked. She just, stopped writing me or im'ing me and calling me. It's better to hear it from him than hearing it indirectly.
And you never know, he could just have something really bad going on with his friends or his family and not want to talk or have time to talk or not want to tell anybody about it.
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i have had my period for serverals years now. but the past months it has come every two weeks. it lasts for a week. then two weeks later it is back. is this normal. and why would it do this. (link)
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That happened to me when I started my period a few years back, and it's only just starting to regulate. If it's normal or not normal I can't say as I'm not a docter, but if you're really worried about it or fear that it's harming you, then I would visit your gynocoligist. "It's better to go to the docters for a hiccup then worry it might end up as something else."
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well i never really danced before, i can slow dance and latin dance but not anything else. so im worried about homecoming because i dont know how to dance and if my friends want me to dance with them or a guy ask me what should i do? (link)
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Just move to the music would be the eaisest thing to do! If you dance with someone you like, then you might want to let them know that you can't dance, then, if you're good, he'll be impressed that you do so well without knowing how, and if you're bad he wouldn't be mad or anything like that.
You friends are there all the time, so if they don't alreay know you don't know how to dance, they'll be glad that they found something out about you and that you did it anyway.
I am a firm beleiver that everyone can dance, even if it's just swaying your hips or bobbing your head. Just go out there and do what you do to have fun, because that's all dancing's really about.
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ive had my period 5-6 years now and its still really irregular. also im pretty lazy basically im a couch potato haha but whenever im on my period i always have like urges to work out. is that normal/common? (link)
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Nothing's normal during the menstural times, hon! I know what you mean, though, I have odd urges to rearange my room, or clean it when mine rolls around. I wouldn't worry about anything weird you do personaly during your period unless it was actually causing you harm.
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I like this one guy, well call him Joe. Well joe likes me back. But joe is good friends with my ex-boyfriend, who still really likes me and were still friends. My best friend told me not to go out with Joe because my ex would be sad. And she also said she would be sooo mad at me because my ex is so perfect for me(acording to her and no one else). I really wanna date joe but i fear my ex and my bff will me mad. (link)
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Well, the drama with your ex boyfriend really depends on why you broke up and who broke up with who. Like if you broke up because he did something bad or if he was the one to break up with you, he has no reason to be angry if you go out with someone else. No matter what, he has no claim on you, so he can't make you not go out with someone.
If you really like Joe, you should tell your friend how much you like him, and see if there is any other reason she doesn't want the two of you to go out. But never choose a partner over a friend, as you seem to already know.
I hope this helps!
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