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problems with a long distance relationship.
Okay, so this summer i went to a sleepaway camp for two months and i met my (current) boyfriend there. He lives in a different state then i do and in the beg. it was'nt hard at all to keep in touch and have a relationship with him, but now that school started we stopped talking as much as we did before (we now talk like once a day and maybe twice). But tonight i was at my house with my friends and we were talking online and he told me that he had to talk to me "about us" and then he quickly mentioned that it wasnt bad. so i called him after my friends left but he was busy with his friends so he hung up and called me back like an hour l8er and said "hey i'm really messed up right now so ill call you tomorrow bye" (i thought that that meant that he was drunk) so i hung up right away without syaing bye because i was kind of upset at him for ignoring me the whole night and i guess i was also kind of scared of what he might have to say to me. so i was just wondering what you guys think he might have to say to me and if you think our relationship could maybe be over?
thanks so much <33
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Maybe but I wouldn't jump to conclusions. Its tough because he lives in a different state. Maybe he met a different girl closer to him. Don't jump to conclusions just yet though. See what he wants and then make a decision based on that.
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I think you should just call him and straight out ask him "Is there something going on that you don't want to tell me?" or "Do you want to break up with me?" or "Is there something bad going on with our realationship?" A realationships is based on trust and conversation, so just talk to him. You shouldn't keep on with a realationship thats over with one person, that's what happened with me and my girlfriend that lives in Nevada, and it sucked. She just, stopped writing me or im'ing me and calling me. It's better to hear it from him than hearing it indirectly.
And you never know, he could just have something really bad going on with his friends or his family and not want to talk or have time to talk or not want to tell anybody about it.
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For now, wait.
If you can't bear that, then get in contact with him at an hour when he's sure to be stable and ready to talk. I'd reccomend either right after he gets home after school or at about 8:30 on a week-night.
However, I wouldn't worry too badly. If he said it's not anything bad, then he would have no reason to lie at that point.
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