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Hey guys. I'm Chrissy. If you need any advice, then I'm your girl.
Gender: Female
Age: 17
Member Since: September 3, 2006
Answers: 3
Last Update: September 3, 2006
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13/f .. This is my 8th grade year of cheerleading , but we don't have to try out to be on the team or anything , but I would like to make LaSalle Cheerleading, and you have to be required to do some flips and toe touches. I would like to know how to get a toe touch down , like a good one .. I got one year ... And would I look incrediably stupid if I decided to start gymnastics? I'm not flexiable at all && I can't even do a kartwheel. Thankss =) (link)

My suggestion is to start gymnastics or even better start going to a cheerleading gym and get a personal trainer. I've been cheerleading for 10 years and since I wanted to do cheerleading in college, I joined a cheerleading gym to learn how to tumble. I've been there for three months and I almost have a round off handspring and I'm already working on back tucks. You will be surprised how much you can accomplish if you really work hard at it. And you won't look stupid, I just started and I'm 17.


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Well I like this guy his name is Sebastian but everyone calls him Sebby. & last year close to the end of the school year we were talking like possibly going out- but school ended & we still talked through the summer & his cell phone was shut off like a month before school started so i couldnt talk to him then [i didnt know his home phone]. Now schools starting agian & we are talking more. He always tells me to write him notes so I do. & he writes me back. Then during science yesterday [friday] we were doing partners & i started looking around the room for one of my friends & Sebby whispered Tiffanie [my name] & looked at him hes like "will you be my partner?" with a HUGE smile on his face. It made me feel really good because all his friends are in that class. & as extra credit we are making cookies together since we are partners. & i`m curious if you think he likes me.. :/ i`m kinda confused. I mean i`m desent looking but hes gorgeous. -

heres three pictures of me ;
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heres two of him ;
http://img59.imageshack.us/img59/1838/seeeeebbbyyyyhp1.jpg
http://img126.imageshack.us/img126/7535/seebbyytwokw3.jpg


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First of all don't underestimate yourself, you are absolutely gorgeous. From what you are saying it does seem like he likes you and he's too shy to tell you. What I would do is try to hang out with him more outside of school... Go on a "double date" or something. Just let everything take its course, if he really likes you, he will probably let you know soon enough. - Lusts And Lovers


I like this boy named Steven. and we talk a lot but we've never met (I know him through my ex boyfriend, haha). and we're pretty much eachother's type. But he really really likes my friend who he's never met either. and they barely ever talk. only like twice online. she's really gorgeous but has no personality. and I know he only likes her for her looks and it makes me really sad because we're good for eachother. I'm not ugly, I'm just not as good looking as her. but I'm a lot funnier and nicer.

so, what do I do?
We're all supposed to hang out and I want to tell him. But he's just so shallow, and I hate that. it's just a crush. so should I let it go or tell him to see what he says?

the thing is, he considers me a good friend. and if he knew I liked him, he might not talk to me as much. and I don't want that. but I do like him alot.

help?:) (link)
When you guys all hang out go with the flow. If she really does have no personality, then he'll realize that when he talks to her. It's normal for people to fall for looks, but from what I've experienced many times guys like hot girls, but if she has no personality then it will end up just being a hook up. If a girl isn't the most gorgeous girl ever, but she has an amazing personality, then that is who the guy is going to want to date. - Lusts And Lovers




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