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Steven<3


Question Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 9:24 pm

I like this boy named Steven. and we talk a lot but we've never met (I know him through my ex boyfriend, haha). and we're pretty much eachother's type. But he really really likes my friend who he's never met either. and they barely ever talk. only like twice online. she's really gorgeous but has no personality. and I know he only likes her for her looks and it makes me really sad because we're good for eachother. I'm not ugly, I'm just not as good looking as her. but I'm a lot funnier and nicer.

so, what do I do?
We're all supposed to hang out and I want to tell him. But he's just so shallow, and I hate that. it's just a crush. so should I let it go or tell him to see what he says?

the thing is, he considers me a good friend. and if he knew I liked him, he might not talk to me as much. and I don't want that. but I do like him alot.

help?:)


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LustsAndLovers answered Sunday September 3 2006, 11:16 am:
When you guys all hang out go with the flow. If she really does have no personality, then he'll realize that when he talks to her. It's normal for people to fall for looks, but from what I've experienced many times guys like hot girls, but if she has no personality then it will end up just being a hook up. If a girl isn't the most gorgeous girl ever, but she has an amazing personality, then that is who the guy is going to want to date. - Lusts And Lovers

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MelLeDisko answered Sunday September 3 2006, 2:36 am:
if i were you, i'd just let him go.
i mean, who needs a boyfriend whose shallow? cause if he's getting into girls only for their looks, when he's dating you, he could be checking out other girls and everything.

and if he's digging her, chances are whenever you tell him, it's just going to make things awkward between you two, so i would just suggest keeping things the way they are. but if you really still want to go after him, then flirt with him a little and make him laugh and make him see that you're the better girl, and then maybe see if his feelings change at all. but like i said, if i were you, i'd just let it go. :l i hope i helped.

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BlondBritBrit answered Sunday September 3 2006, 1:03 am:
haha. thats so ironic cus i sort of like a guy named steven. anywaiz, just play it cool with him. dont go out with him cus when yall break up itll be really awkward. sorry, but youre just gunna have to deal with him liking someone else. and actually, you are not eachothers type if he doesnt like you back. if hes shallow and shes gorgeous without a personality, then let them go out and maybe he will realize he doesnt like her cus shes a bitch or sumthin.

Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany

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