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Pothead friends?
Female. I used to have a lot of best guy friends, we had this huge group. One guy got all of them in to drugs, now they spend their days getting stoned. They're so perverted now, they expect since I have big boobs that I`ll do things with them. I've fallen really hard for one guy, he's totally sweet and respects me, but I hear from everybody he does drugs too and he's not a virgin. (Keep in mind, were 13)
What should I do? Is this guy totally unsafe and wrong to be around?
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13 huh... ok... you should steal all there drugs and pretend a purple monkey ate it!...jk... you should so ditch those loserz(no offence)... they might have been awesome and the coolest people ever... but think about... they get stoned all the time... they want you 2 do "things" with them... seriously... and the guy you like... if you liked him b4 he started doing drugs(if he does them)... he's NOT the same person...and NEVER will b... and if everyone is telling u he does drugs and isn't a virgin... at 13... but you say he's nice and respects you... he's probably just trying to get you to have sex with him... i know it's hard to be in a situation like this... i've known someone that was in the same situation as you... and thank God i talked some sence into her or she wouldn't have any chance of ever having a real future... and if you do go out with that guy(supposing he does do drugs)... even though you probably say you'd never do them... you will... you're only human...and it will most likely ruin your life forever... or at least screw it up a whole lot 4 a long time
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ok just to say this 13 year olds have no buisness doin all of that stuff like drugs and sex.. but if they expect you to do stuff with them dont even be around them just keep away from them and find new friends that respect you.. and its ok to have a crush on him but i would not even hook up with him because he might try to get you to try drugs and u think that you might say no but most people end up saying yes because of preasure and he also might want to do you know what with him so just keep away from them for a while
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my brother had a similar prob. his roomates and best friends got into drugs and so my bro ended up just moving out of the apartment. thats what u should do. move away from that group.its not healthy. why put you health at risk for a guy whos on drugs.c'mon you know whats right!
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ok why should you be around a guy thats THIRTEEEN and not a virgin and does drugs?Honestly.Read what you just asked.If you hang with these people all thats going to happen to you is that you might start taking drugs too and lose your virginity to a guy thats already done it before and probably has STDs.I seriously dont get it,whats with the 13 year old ppl that arent virgins??Cant they THINk about the consenquences before they do anything they might regret later on?keep away from them for your own good.
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You need to find out if the rumors are true. If he really does drugs, I wouldn't give him a chance. Boys like that are too into their bad habits to hold a relationship. Plus, you don't want to risk getting addicted, yourself. [:
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Wow! You're body and your self esteem don't deserve to be subjected to this! They're ruining their childhood and chances are they will try to get you too as well! I would definitely not hang around these people. You'll find yourself in tough situations and it will be difficult for you. They don't even respect you for who you are! Find friends that treat their friends with as much respect as they treat their bodies.
This guy that you've fallen for is not a good idea at all. How can you trust everything he is saying if he could be on drugs?? And you're right, he could be dangerous to you.
Good luck and make the right choice!
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wow that's pretty young for all this to be goin on. not saying it doesn't but still, i think you should stay away from them for a while. not because they smoke, but because they want to do stuff. that's bad especially if you're basically the only girl in the group. about the guy... the virgin thing might not be true. you'd probably have to ask him about it to be sure. you can still talk to him but dont go by yourself with them. <3
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in all honesty, i'd stay away from him. i think it's alright for you to be friends with him, but if he gets stoned and stuff, that's not somebody you need to hang around with. i think you should remain distant friends with these guys because they don't sound like a good group now, even if they were at one point in time.
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He is not totally unsafe...but he is a little dangerous, but maybe you like the ruff type. I think you should talk to him and say " Look sdrugs arn't cool...See what he says. Get back to me, Advice Abby!
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Yes. Please, don't be like every other 13 year old on this site and just be smart and keep a safe distance.
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