I have some questions about tongue piercings. =]
1)how do you know if the tongue is fully healed? I have mine for about 4 weeks.
2)I have seen LOTS of people with silver barbells in their tongue and only like one with colors...is there a certain reason why? Which do you prefer?
3)Anything i should know now that i have had it for 4 weeks? Will their be more swelling? Because usually in the morning my bottom is swolllen.
Any other info would be great!
Thanks
If you've had it for four weeks, it should be healed. If it's not sore what-so-ever, you can change the ring. The reason most people have silver barbells is because that's what their tongues were pierced with. They're much longer than any other barbell, & much more fun to play with. [: Color's are fine, though. They're just a drastic change in length. Also, unless it's infected, there shouldn't be anymore major swelling. [:
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How old were you when you got your first kiss?
I was eleven. I wish I would have waited. A kiss is such a special thing. Don't give it away to just anyone. [:
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i am friends with benifets with this guy i realllllly like,but he treats me like all he wants is a booty call...alot of girls like him and i wanna be with him soooo bad but he acts like he dont like me that way. He went out with 2 of my friends and he was the sweetest thing to them and they treated him like crap! i know i can treat him better...why cant he treat me like he treated them? how do i get him to treat me like them?!! :"(
This isn't meant to put you down, but you're his "friend with benifits". He DOES only want a booty call. If you want to persue a relationship with this boy, or make him like you, you need to stop putting out. Seriously. What kind of guy is going to want to date someone who doesn't show respect for themself? He probably thinks you're a slut. You need to cut him off, NOW! I'm sorry if this was a little blunt. I'm just trying to be honest.
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Boys always go out with me and end up dumping me after i get attatched. They tell my friends the only reason they go out with me is because they think i am hott and easy.What can i do to change that?
I had the same problem. Are you putting out for these boys? If you are, stop. Show a little respect for yourself. It honestly works. [:
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My mom won't let me date till I'm 18 whicu basically is never cause once I'm 18 I can date anyways so its never I want to tell her 13 is a good age but I'm too scared of a NO and I just need advice on how to tell her and what I should tell her like reasons point and ideas please help I do not want to get my first bf and 30 or my first kiss at 28 please help me...
My parents used to tell me the same thing when I was your age. Give it a while & they'll come around. In the mean time show them how responsible you can be. [:
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How do I get rid of all the hair in my bikini area? Tell me what you do, not what everybody else talks about, I would like to really know what works well and what dosen't. Thanks.
For me, shaving leaves a lot of razor burn. Don't use Nair, it burns really bad. Personally, I like those little electronic hair removers. They definitely work for me. [:
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ok, me and my girlfriend are planning on having sex,and she is scared that the condom might break or she might get pregnant. i was wondering if i pull out soon enough and im using a condom if that would decrease the chances, even tho theres the pre cuming thing? and i was also wondering if there are any other precautions we could take besides for birth control?
It honestly doesn't sound like you two are ready to have sex. She's obviously scared, & you definitely have some questions that need answered. You should probably wait until you're more comfortable with the situation. [:
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I am overweight by about 40-50 pounds. Up until 2 days ago, I could take out a 2 liter of soda like it wasnt nothing. I've started drink water (for the first time in ages) and am trying to kick the soda habit. My back hurts constantly, to the point where it consumes all my thoughts. I need help. I'm also a 38DDD cup size. Someone tell me what to do I cant take this back pain ANYMORE! I also smoke. Yea I know I'm destroying myself! Right now I'm willing to do anything. I'd rather not quit smoking right now though because I suspect I need to lose the weight and stuff and I can't kick everything at once! I rate!!
Eat lots of fruits. Berries are excellent. Grapes, bananas, & pineapples have too much sugar, so try & stay away from them. Broccoli is also low in sugar, & boosts energy big time. Also, excersise for an hour a day, at least three times a week. Cardio is amazing. [:
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there is this guy that i met about a year ago.
he broke my heart once..
and now he just came back just like that..
he wants to hangout and possible be boyfreind and girlfreind..
im so parinoied that hes going to break my heart again..
part of me says to give it another try.
but part of me says dont take the risk..
what do you think i should do?
PLEASE HELP ME
thank you to all that trys.
I'd give him another chance, but don't get too attached, too soon. There's a possibility that he'll break your heart again, but there's also the chance that you'll find love. Maybe he's matured. You never know 'til you try. [:
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ok im 17 and want a kid. ok i do see that its gona be hard and that is probly not best to have a kid yet. but do you think it might help me change my mind bout having a kid if i speak to my boyfriend.
what could the out comes be? im scared if i tell him that he will get worride and leave me. but i dont want to keep something like this from him.
please help me some one.
thanks
xXxXx
Wow. You're way to young to have a baby. I'm not even kidding. You should want what's best for your child, & having a teenage mother, & a father that may not stick around is definitely not good. Anyway, if you have your mind set on the matter, you should definitely talk to your boyfriend about it. I hope you make the right choice. [:
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This kid who might like me sits behind me in one of my classes. I was talking to my friend and I was saying something about him loudly so that he could hear (It was supposed to be a good thing about him) and it came out all wrong and sounded really stupid. Like he's 6'1 or something and what I said made him sound like he was a midget! I was saying the other kid was a midget, not him! But, it came out so that I had said the 6'1 guy was short and weird and the midget was really tall and cool. Then, I wasn't having a good day because of this kid next to him and I was glaring at him then they guy who liked me looked at me and to him it would have looked like I was glaring at him for no reason! The teacher kept calling on me and I answered the wrong question or said the wrong thing about four times! I really don't want him to think I'm some retard now. Do you think he'll still like me? How do I let him know I'm know THAT stupid all the time?!
I get really nervous in front of the opposite sex, too. Most boys think it's cute when girls make little mistakes. I'm sure he'll still like you. [:
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My best friend and I have been best friends for ABOUT A year now. the year b4, he was best friends wit my otha best friend. At that time she was his numba 1 and I came about second or third..maybe...then they fell head ova heels for each other, then they fell out and they started hating each other, all during this time, We got closer, not in spite of her but because he is cool, and we just got closer.So when they werent best friends anymore...I guess I became his numba 1, well now Me and him are closer than eva, and the girl used to tell me I was just bait until they became best friends again. Well now they are going to the same high school, and Im not going to there's, and Ive been away alll summa.....They have obviously gotten closer, but just recently they have started talkin on the phone again, and I have this horrid feeling that maybe she was right. Becuz they are going to the same high school, so naturally they are going to become closer, and we all go to the same church, and his sister is friends wit us both, ( I think she likes her better tho) Im afraid she was right and they are going to become #1's again...and we will naturally be as close but now Ill be his second pick..and I am afraid that she is the better friend so he deserves her..We are just so close, I dont want to loose him at all, and please dont tell me he can have 2 #1's, because even if he can, one will still dominate the other..and I dont know what to think and how to prevent it??
It's his choice. There's nothing you can do but try & be the greatest friend you can. [:
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WARNING LONG I like black.I weir black nail polish and alot of black eyeliner.In a few days im dieing my bangs that hang in my eyes black to.Now i have had my hair pink,purple,green,blue,red and other colors at different times so people already think im weird also im emo and i get made fun of because i used to cut and i dont think people know but they might it was a big thing with screming and trowing things around (mostly by me) and so people no somthing happened and because im emo that what they think it is true but still.i think im ugly and i hate myself i get jelous easly realy easly also i think i might be bi.whats so bad about being emo being different.i no people are gonna hate me and think im weird but im not sure what my problem is anymore it was sposed to be about my hair but now i think i may have bigger problems.i dont eat until i start shaking alot. im a 13 female who feels alone and dosent wanna cut agian and whos going into 7th
First of all, don't lable yourself. You're an individual. When I was a freshman in high school, (I'm now a junior), I had the same problem. I cut, starved myself, the whole deal. People considered me insane, & it completely destroyed my social life. I felt that I had nowhere to turn. I finally broke down & told my mom about my issues. She took me to a psychiatrist & I was diagnosed with clinical depression. I now take Zoloft & it absolutely works wonders. I definitely recommend that you get the same kind of help. It's worth it. [:
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I've been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. I suppose to everyone else he's a dog- thats just what I've been told, but it was never the most important thing to me. He has the best personality and he's hilarious. My problem is, I've started fantasizing a lot, and I know its ok to do sometimes, that its normal and all, but I can't stop. I can't stop wishing he had a hot body like some of our friends. When those friends are around, I find myself flirting shamelessly because I'm just overcome with lust! He's said he's going to start working out and that he wants to get fit, be more attractive physically, but he's not very motivated. I want to stop fantasizing- it makes me feel so guilty! I'm starting to pull away from his affection because I can't help but notice his love handles or spare tire or whatever. My body is less than perfect, but its not that bad because I work out and take care of it. Is it wrong of me to feel this way? How do people deal with these feelings???
Maybe you can motivate him by dragging him to the gym with you. [:
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OK so ever since i haev been little everyone has told me that i'm as skinny as a twig... i wasn't really, i have just had a dancer's body! and i loved it... well lets just say that i have put on some weight.. not that much, but it still bugs me! i work out every week, yet i still have fat!! and it makes my confidence go way down!! what can i do?? plez help me!
Limit your portions. That's all there is to it. [:
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well, theres this one guy named James and i have liked him for a while but nothing serious because i barely know him. once i talked to him but it was kind of a while ago. well school is starting and i found out from one my friends that him and i have a class together this year. i'm really excited but how do i get us to start talking?
First of all, be confident when you talk to him. Boys love confidence. Instant messaging is a good way to start talking. It's a lot less nerve racking than talking face to face. When school starts, try to get a seat next to him. You'll be more likely to get to know each other. [:
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hey well im going through a very hard time right now... my dad has cancer and i have a feeling that my sister is going to move out... yea and well i cut myself kinda alot too.... but like i dont know what to do ... all my friends are worried about me(at leaset the 1s that know i do it) but like im split in half.... one siode is telling my im stupid for doing it and telling me never to do it again... and the other half is happy that i do it and it makes me wanna do it more..and i dont know what side to belive... none of my friends really understand what im going through and i scare myself when i do it...i just dont knwo what to do ... and going to a counsiler is out of the question because my family is almost broke from my dad and his cancer.. i just need some help and i really dont knwo what to do...
Thank you all so much in advance!!
I was diagnosed with depression two years ago. Cutting ruined my social life. When my classmates found out that I cut, they considered me crazy & quit talking to me all together. I finally went to the psychiatrist & got medication. Everything's wonderful now. If you have that opportunity, go for it. Also, I'd like to say that you're probably cutting for attention. That's the number one reason people cut, & that's why I did it too. Trust me, there are better ways to let others know you're hurting inside. That's what your family & friends are for. [:
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okay something has really been bugging me lately. i always, always feel like i'm invisible. it's like this .. whenever i'm hanging with one of my friends and other people come along, i turn invisible. people leave me out of their conversations all the time. i feel like i'm just a substitute person or something; like, i feel that most people hang out with me until someone "better" comes along. and you wouldn't believe how many times people have said to me "omg i'm so sorry i forgot about you!" people i've met either forget my name or forget me altogether and when i say hi they're like "do i know you?" it seems to happen alot. and guys always ignore me, even though people say i'm pretty, and i know i'm really not unattractive. i really don't see what's going on, i'm nice to everyone and i would never do that to anyone, but it seems like the mean people who ditch other people have more people talking to them and everyone wants to hang around with them. and i have a lot of friends, but i wonder why it always seems to happen to me. maybe i'm just not agressive enough, who knows? but i really need help on this one, like advice on how to become more noticed and less invisible. thnx.
I have the exact same problem. Confidence is all you need. Instead of standing around, listening to everyone else talk, start a conversation yourself. It's alright to make a scene every now & then. You want people to notice you. It's a good thing. [:
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Female. I used to have a lot of best guy friends, we had this huge group. One guy got all of them in to drugs, now they spend their days getting stoned. They're so perverted now, they expect since I have big boobs that I`ll do things with them. I've fallen really hard for one guy, he's totally sweet and respects me, but I hear from everybody he does drugs too and he's not a virgin. (Keep in mind, were 13)
What should I do? Is this guy totally unsafe and wrong to be around?
You need to find out if the rumors are true. If he really does drugs, I wouldn't give him a chance. Boys like that are too into their bad habits to hold a relationship. Plus, you don't want to risk getting addicted, yourself. [:
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okay this is really gross so if you dont like gross questions, dont read this.
when i get my period, i have these like blobs of blood that come out ...and idk what i should do. it doesnt seem normal... =/
Those blobs are actually pieces of your uterus & it's completely normal. I wouldn't worry about it. [:
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