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boys go out with me for the wrong reasons
Boys always go out with me and end up dumping me after i get attatched. They tell my friends the only reason they go out with me is because they think i am hott and easy.What can i do to change that?
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i know how you feel.
because a lot of my friends go through that.
boys go out with girls for all the wrong reasons.
what you can do to change it is when guys try to make moves on you pull away and be hard to get so they dont think your so easy.
and when you find a guy that can except that you can eventually start to open up more.
-- Kendras friend[Carly]
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Well , how do you approach the guys you go out with?? That makes a huge difference. You need to show them that you`re not the girl thats "easy." & don`t say yes to a guy until you`ve become good friends , so that you can kind of see their "type." So when they do ask you out .. you`ll know what to say after you`ve gotten to know them.
Hope I helped. <3
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i dont think ou can change they way people look at you because that you all i would say his let these guys no from the start that if they think your easy and going to give it up fast they minds well let you go now cause it aint happening . basically start being straight up with them
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i may not be the flower in the wheat field, but i do know this. the only reason they'd be telling your friends that they think you're hot and easy, is because (in one way or another), you're allowing them to think like that. i'm not blaming you, but if what you told us is true, then i think that you're a softy at heart. you're very sensitive when it comes to crushes and romance. i won't tell you to stop going out with ppl, but i will tell you this vital piece of information. if you don't want a guy that treats you bad and dumps you because you become attached, then become hard to get. don't change your looks or anything, but put out a signal that will let ppl know that guys shouldn't mess with you that way. don't go out with tons of guys that have already played the field twice (if you kno what i mean.) i hope this helps!
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Show them that you have another side of you that they don't notice that you aren't easy as they think,that when you know the guy is totally into you let him know that you too should get ot know each other well,then perhaps if things go well you'll go out with him.
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Well if you havent done anything to prove to them that you are "hot and easy"
the boys can just find out for themselves.
If they try to hit on you and date you, show them and prove to them that you wont tolerate any of their BS and that if they are going to be arrogant and shallow to go find someone else.
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If when you happen to go out with these guys for the first time,you kiss them or do anything sexuall,then DUH theyll dump you.Guys test girls to see if theyre sluts or not.They see if theyre hard to get and will turn them down for sex when they ask for it.When you turn them down,they get the impression that"hey shes hot AND respects herself,now THIS is the kinda girl I wanna be with forever" but if you dont respect yourself they go"aw see that bitch,shell do anything i ask her,imma just use her for sex than dump her,but imnot gonna be her guy LOL HELL NO who KNOWS what she did with other guys"To change,even though you want it from them you say NO,like going out and stuff,dont ALWAYS say yes.And be the one to walk away from a convo and get off the phone with them first.Itll give them the impression that youre hard to get and will leave them wanting more.But if you give them EVERYTHING all at once,theyll dump you and go look for a girl that respects herself.
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I had the same problem. Are you putting out for these boys? If you are, stop. Show a little respect for yourself. It honestly works. [:
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