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is he in it for real?


Question Posted Thursday August 10 2006, 5:05 am

there is this guy that i met about a year ago.
he broke my heart once..
and now he just came back just like that..
he wants to hangout and possible be boyfreind and girlfreind..
im so parinoied that hes going to break my heart again..
part of me says to give it another try.
but part of me says dont take the risk..
what do you think i should do?
PLEASE HELP ME
thank you to all that trys.<3:)


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jaxWOOT answered Friday August 11 2006, 2:43 am:
wow this is so wierd i feel like that i could have wrote that.. cuz im going through the EXACT SAME THING...

i dont mean to give you like a whole story but... i met this kid steve, over 2 years ago, and we were so close and were about to go out then he broke my heart (about 6 months ago) and now were hanging out alot and i like him all over again and he just told me he likes me to. and part of me doesnt want to be hurt again but i believe in 2nd chances and it was 6 months ago. and i talked to him about breaking my heart the 1st time and he said it was a huge mistake and everything.. so maybe you can just talk to this guy about him breaking ur heart, and hang out with him.. hope i helped

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UHOHxOMFG answered Thursday August 10 2006, 1:21 pm:
you should probably just hang with him for the time being and see how things go. if you start to like him again then give him any other shot. there will always be guys breaking you heart. if he really cares about you like he said he wont do it again. if your really scared then talk to him. im sure he will understand.

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xojessii answered Thursday August 10 2006, 12:18 pm:
I think you should hang out with him a little and see how it goes. Then if he wants to be your boyfriend say no and see how he acts. If he is really upset about it then tell him you made a mistake and you want to be his girlfriend and if he just doesnt care and stuff then you saved yourself from another heartbreak.

hope i helped =]
Jess

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DefinedEyes answered Thursday August 10 2006, 12:14 pm:
Well in my opinion,
if hee can break your heart once,
he can do it again.
Dont give him another chance if your this paranoid about it.
Try meeting new people,
someone who wont break your heart the first time.
<3

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hottie411 answered Thursday August 10 2006, 11:42 am:
i think you should give it another try. even if you don't, there will still be other guys that will break your heart anyway. if it works out, then you'll be glad that you gave it another try. if it doesn't, then at least you'll know next time not to give him another chance if he asks you again, and you can move on. but if you don't give it another try, you might always wonder if it would've worked out, and you'll probably regret not giving him another chance, and by then it'll be too late.

&hearts;

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christina answered Thursday August 10 2006, 10:19 am:
Give him a chance, but still remember how he broke your heart. Don't worry though, I'm sure things will be fine with you guys.

&hearts;TiNA

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mystical_breeze answered Thursday August 10 2006, 10:15 am:
I'd give him another chance, but still keep in mind he could hurt you again. Don't be paranoid about it though, maybe he changed and has feelings for you now. Take a chance, because you don't have much to lose. =] Good luck, and leave more info in my inbox if you need more help.

-mystical_breeze
Ox

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LiVEYOURLiFE answered Thursday August 10 2006, 8:47 am:
I'd give him another chance, but don't get too attached, too soon. There's a possibility that he'll break your heart again, but there's also the chance that you'll find love. Maybe he's matured. You never know 'til you try. [:

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