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I'm going on a date with this guy and I don't know what to do at the end of the date. You know nothing kiss on cheek, lips etc etc. Im 13 (link)
it totally depends on what your comfortable with.. maybe let him make the 1st move or if u want to make the 1st move its ok. it also depends on how the date goes and stuff


Ok, So I am going out with this guy. He is 26 and I am 16, well soon to be 17. But people keep saying that he is to old. But he makes me happy. Then again he makes me annoyed sometimes but then again thats life. lol.
So I really like him and I just keep thinking that it is just like Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moor. (link)
it all depends because if your parents were to find out they tech. could press charges on him.. but if your parents no and are ok with it then its all good. but the whole ashton and demi thing is true, but i dont no because its kind of wierd that he is 26 and he wants a 16 year old. but i dont no the guy or you. maybe you 2 are perfect for each other, because age is just a number. so either way i have no idea if i should tell you if its right or wrong


what is your opinion on a 16 year old girl going out with or liking a 14 year old guy. i turn 17 in may but this guy will be turning 15 in january. soo yeaaah..too young? i know it seems like it kind of but i have such strong feelings for him (link)
absolutly not! age is just a number.. most grandparents and parents are like 6 years apart or even more! and sometimes its better when your dating someone younger if there less experienced so you dont have to worry about getting taken advantage of.. but he is deff. not to young


can you admire a person and like them at the same time?For instance, my sis's friend told my sis that she admired me,does that mean that she likes me as well?

And is there a difference from liking someone to loving someone? (link)
if you admire someone it kind of means you want to be like them.. it doesnt always mean u like them.. but sometimes it does it just depends how they put it.

and the difference between liking and loving is that if you love someone you want to be with them for the rest of your life but liking someone it can change in a matter of secs, minutes, hours, days etc. and if you like someone its more like a crush but a little but more maybe


My bf keeps telling me what girls hot, and etc. It lowers myself-esteem. How do I look sexxy, so he looks at me, more then them. How can i plan hard to get, for him to want me more. I just want him to want me still.. we've been together for a year and a half.. so dont go saying breakup. Its not that harsh.

((sorry if you've seen this question twice.. the other one got deleted.. sorry))
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well it depends if its like celebs he says is hott then dont worry about it.. its natural.. but if its random people he should just keep it to himself.. maybe you do it right back at him and tell him what guys YOU think are hott.. dont change anything about yourself.. he must think your attractive in some way if he has been with you for 1.5 years, so you must be doing something right haha i hope i helped


I like this guy. He is super sweet and everything! He treats me like a princess and says i look good and beautiful. But all my friends think he is ugly. He seems like he could protect me if for something would happen. Its only the second day of school but i really like him. but i also dont know if he likes me back. if soo how should i ask him out? please help. i love you.

secret person. (link)
if he says your beautiful and gives u compliments then obv he likes you.. and just because your friends say hes ugly doesnt meant u think he is.. and so what if he is its his personality that you like not his looks =)


Alright, well there is this one guy that I've been hanging out with, but basically we're only friends so far. Everyone says that he likes me, and I like him, but I'm not sure about his feelings.

I'm not sure if I should make the first move and ask him out, or wait a little longer and see if he does? (link)
maybe you should just like talk to him on aim or text him and ask if he likes you..instead of asking him out.. and if he says yes let him no u like him to.. and work from there


there is this guy that i met about a year ago.
he broke my heart once..
and now he just came back just like that..
he wants to hangout and possible be boyfreind and girlfreind..
im so parinoied that hes going to break my heart again..
part of me says to give it another try.
but part of me says dont take the risk..
what do you think i should do?
PLEASE HELP ME
thank you to all that trys. (link)
wow this is so wierd i feel like that i could have wrote that.. cuz im going through the EXACT SAME THING...

i dont mean to give you like a whole story but... i met this kid steve, over 2 years ago, and we were so close and were about to go out then he broke my heart (about 6 months ago) and now were hanging out alot and i like him all over again and he just told me he likes me to. and part of me doesnt want to be hurt again but i believe in 2nd chances and it was 6 months ago. and i talked to him about breaking my heart the 1st time and he said it was a huge mistake and everything.. so maybe you can just talk to this guy about him breaking ur heart, and hang out with him.. hope i helped


ok im 17 and want a kid. ok i do see that its gona be hard and that is probly not best to have a kid yet. but do you think it might help me change my mind bout having a kid if i speak to my boyfriend.
what could the out comes be? im scared if i tell him that he will get worride and leave me. but i dont want to keep something like this from him.
please help me some one.

thanks
xXxXx (link)
you should talk to him. if he truly loves you he wont leave you. if he wants a kid he will tell u, or maybe he wants to wait till your older, or maybe he just doesnt want kids. if he leaves u telling him u want a kid then he is not worth it at all. dont like demand a kid, just suggest it.. hope i helped


15/f
Ok, so i liked a guy same old story. blah. well i wrote him a letter because he was leaving the next day and i couldn't say it in person. well he wrote me back. Here's the letter

my name here,

Thanks for the letter. It takes guys to come out and say something like you said. have you ever read Proverbs 27:5? "Open rebuke is better than secret love." I guess that it is best to just come out with stuff like that. To be honest, when I was a freshman, I had a crush on ___ who was a senior. So I've been in the same boat. I do like the fact that you are different from most girls. You have a good testimony. Don't blow it, build on it..... (some stuff about hanging around with some people)

Well, "Have a good summer" (making fun of something i said in my letter) and enjoy your THREE more years of school.

(his name here) SO is it a good rejection letter, and open ended letter, or what? He's home now and im nervous about talking to him. (link)
i think hes just trying to say that u guys would be better off as friends.. thats probably the nicest way a guy could put a "lets just be friends", most guys are like UM NO LETS JUST BE FRIENDS, I DONT LIKE YOU LIKE THAT.. but he actually took the time to write that to you. so yeah talk to him obv hes not mad or anything =)


hi. i am a 15/f. tomorrow i am going to a party for a guy that i have never met but i want to make a good impression so that him and his friends like me. im going with my best friend who is friends with all of them, its just that i have never met them before. i want them to like me really bad so that sometime in the future they might like me as more than a friend. i dont know how to make a good first impression. can anyone give me some tips? (link)
dress nicley.. dont come across like "slutty" but dont be like all covered and look insecure about yourself. just make it look like you took time to get ready. also maybe ask your friend what there into and what there like and see if u have any of the same qualitys as any of them and start convos with them. and also be flirty but not like desperate flirty.. i hope i helped




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