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My bf keeps telling me what girls hot, and etc. It lowers myself-esteem. How do I look sexxy, so he looks at me, more then them. How can i plan hard to get, for him to want me more. I just want him to want me still.. we've been together for a year and a half.. so dont go saying breakup. Its not that harsh.
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oooooooh thats harsh.Id hate it if that happened to me.Well,you need to give him a taste of his own medicine!!!Tell HIM what guys YOU think are hot!!He hasnt got the right to say ANYTHING cuz he does that too.Well,if you want to look better just be natural dont have on too much makeup,shave any extra hair you have,do your moustache,get a sexy new style in clothes.
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well it depends if its like celebs he says is hott then dont worry about it.. its natural.. but if its random people he should just keep it to himself.. maybe you do it right back at him and tell him what guys YOU think are hott.. dont change anything about yourself.. he must think your attractive in some way if he has been with you for 1.5 years, so you must be doing something right haha i hope i helped
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Ok. Do it right back to him. If you see a hot guy in the mall while your walking with your bf... look behind you as the hot guy passes you. Eventually your boyfriend may get the hint. Do not change for him because he already knows how you look... you've been going out for a year and a half.
But if you want, dress a bit more promiscuaous when you go to places like the mall or movies. Other guys there will look at you and that will make your boyfriend jelous. Then he will respect to more.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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well your bf is a shallow dick and he needs to change for you. but if you want advice on how to sex it up a little bit try polos' that button a little lover and a cami that is lower cut so you can show off a little skin. tight pants are always good.(just dont go buying uncomfortable pants that will cut off your circulation!!)i also would NOT recoment short skirts. that might make you seem a little bit slutty. also...dont become an easy little tramp. that will please him for a while but then he will come up with something like you are too loose for me and leace you on the curb. i should know...its happened to my friend and i end up having to deal with her tears. but dont do anything that you are uncomfortable with. that always leads to trouble.
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How about you don't worry quite so much about changing yourself, and you ask him to do a bit of changing?
When it comes to guys (and even some girls) there is a simple rule to keep in mind: If they have eyes, they will look. Him looking at other women doesn't mean he doesn't like looking at you, it means he is a human male; it has absolutely nothing to with you. But if his comments about other women are bothering you, speak up about that. It isn't silly to politely ask your boyfriend to lay off talk that makes you upset.
Don't get me wrong, if you want to tease him, update your appearance, and feel sexier, Go For It! Practice your make-application, pick your clothes with more care, and give yourself more time before you see him to get ready, look good, smell good, and feel confident. Do what ever you think will work for you, buy the clothes you want, try anything new and above all stop worrying. Confidence is eye-catching, even when you are only pretending to feel confident.
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hey, well spend a little more time on yourself and getting ready before you see him. maybe add more make-up and get some new clothes and do your hair up cute. also tell him that it lowers your self-esteem. if he loves you enough he will care and fix the problem. if not then its his loss.
-caitt♥
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