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Just Can't Stop
I've been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. I suppose to everyone else he's a dog- thats just what I've been told, but it was never the most important thing to me. He has the best personality and he's hilarious. My problem is, I've started fantasizing a lot, and I know its ok to do sometimes, that its normal and all, but I can't stop. I can't stop wishing he had a hot body like some of our friends. When those friends are around, I find myself flirting shamelessly because I'm just overcome with lust! He's said he's going to start working out and that he wants to get fit, be more attractive physically, but he's not very motivated. I want to stop fantasizing- it makes me feel so guilty! I'm starting to pull away from his affection because I can't help but notice his love handles or spare tire or whatever. My body is less than perfect, but its not that bad because I work out and take care of it. Is it wrong of me to feel this way? How do people deal with these feelings???
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If you loved him you would love him for everything he is...even his love handles or spare tire. If you have been in a relationship with him for 3 years now you really should have gotten past this fantasizing point. But i don't see what harm it can do as long as you don't actual act upon your fantasy's[whatever they may be]..unless they include him. Hope I helped
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well if you say that you are commited and you tell people that your commited and you tell him that you are commited...then BE COMMITED! dont be shallow and dump him or any other drastic measures because he doesnt have a 'hot bod' like all of your other friends. if you truly love him then things like that shouldnt bother you.
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hey, just think about what you love about your boyfriend. every girl flirts with other guys sometimes [ even when they have boyfriends ]. its okay to do but when it gets too far you need to stop. maybe you and your boyfriend could join a gym together and both get fit. that why you guys can spend time together and then he will be movitvated to go to the gym with you. liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
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