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why is this happening... are they just stupid???
ok... so im confused... well i've been treated like pure shit when it comes to boyfriends... they all start out amazing but end terribly... i no alot of relationships end badly but this is pretty ridiculous... my last one we were dating for like 5 months... the day he left for vacation he told me he loved me... 9 days later when he got back from mexico he broke up w/ me... he really didnt have a reason... and i havent done anything to make him all of the sudden want to break up.... the only thing he said is he was going into highschool (i already go to the highschool) and it is going to be cross country season (which i thought was a poor excuse becasue i play tennis)... well i know you dont want to read alot.... but seriously i want to talk to some people (ill tell you about myself so maybe you can help me understand y this keeps happening) but basically i really dont understand and im confused becasue i dont know y some guys are like this.. i told myself that they were just stupid and made a mistake... hopfully u can tell me... but before you do i think you need to know about me.... so please respond and ill tell you about me
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Hey yeah you sound really confused. I'll help you if I can. Does seem like your ex's are kinda dull in the brain.
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I hate to say this but I think your present X went out w/someone in Mexico. He probably came back thinking he must not be in love w/you if he could do that and he may have felt guilty about it too. I know about Mexico because I've been there and for the same amount of time. I went when I was going into high school and I have blonde hair and green eyes. In the two weeks I was down there I had men of all ages following me around all over the place. I exchanged addresses w/2 or 3 of them and kept up for a while. My little brother had women chasing him all over the place too. They are aggressive and Latinos love love so in this instance I wouldn't think it had anything to do w/you. It is probably the fact that he spent time w/a couple of girls down there and felt this meant he couldn't love you if he could see someone else. He may have even exchanged addresses and thinks he can maintain a long distance relationship w/someone, but it won't last if this is the case. Since you only told me about one of your relationships I can't begin to understand what may be a factor in other relationships you have been involved in. I will say this...you never know with a teenage guy. It doesn't take anything at all to send them on down the road. I remember when I was in high school I had a boyfriend who was furious w/me because someone told him that I looked at them. They told him I was going up the stairs and looked at them. I did not even remember who they were much less purposefully look at them. He took that as a sign of my ability to cheat on him. Of course I didn't need anyone in my life that was that ridiculous, but I use this as an example of how ridiculous they can be. Someone could say to a guy, wow, Suzie looks like she's gained weight (and Suzie hasn't gained an oz, but has on something that isn't becoming) and the guy will freak out and break up w/her. They are so into what other guys think while in high school. I had another boyfriend who was riding by my house on his bike w/a friend. I had a friend over and we were playing records and dancing. His friend made a comment about our dancing by ourselves and he broke up w/me. Do you see a pattern here? Boys just run for the darndest things. Don't let it get you down. They aren't worth it. Good luck!
Namaste!
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my only answer for this is guys are dicks. they only know how to be dicks. most of them are just afraid of commitment. some of them dont realise what they have. the rest just dont know what they want. if this has happened to you a lot... then im not trying to be mean when i say this but maybe you just have bad taste in men. this will change whe you find someone who truly loves you and means it when they say this. there is someone out there for you. just try not to end up with someone who doesnt appreciate you.
hope i helped!
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