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Am i being pushed to the back..was i bait..will I stay #1,
My best friend and I have been best friends for ABOUT A year now. the year b4, he was best friends wit my otha best friend. At that time she was his numba 1 and I came about second or third..maybe...then they fell head ova heels for each other, then they fell out and they started hating each other, all during this time, We got closer, not in spite of her but because he is cool, and we just got closer.So when they werent best friends anymore...I guess I became his numba 1, well now Me and him are closer than eva, and the girl used to tell me I was just bait until they became best friends again. Well now they are going to the same high school, and Im not going to there's, and Ive been away alll summa.....They have obviously gotten closer, but just recently they have started talkin on the phone again, and I have this horrid feeling that maybe she was right. Becuz they are going to the same high school, so naturally they are going to become closer, and we all go to the same church, and his sister is friends wit us both, ( I think she likes her better tho) Im afraid she was right and they are going to become #1's again...and we will naturally be as close but now Ill be his second pick..and I am afraid that she is the better friend so he deserves her..We are just so close, I dont want to loose him at all, and please dont tell me he can have 2 #1's, because even if he can, one will still dominate the other..and I dont know what to think and how to prevent it??
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just because hes got a new friend...doesnt mean that you are less important...i had the same problem with 2 of my bestfriends. i was friends with one of them wayyy before the other. but i saw the new one way more durring school. so just try your hardest to keep in touch and make plans frequently.(just not like everyday...you will get tired of eachother)dont worry about it,things will fall into place.
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Keep in touch with him at all times as much as possible and try hanging out with him you can.As far as what you should be thinking is that I'll do what I can to not lose that very close friendship,your best friend should also think about you, and should still consider you as his number1 .Maybe you shouldn't listen to much about the bait part she might have said it for jealousy because now you are his #1,and people like that just want to make you feel really bad.
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It's his choice. There's nothing you can do but try & be the greatest friend you can. [:
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