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sex precautions..?
ok, me and my girlfriend are planning on having sex,and she is scared that the condom might break or she might get pregnant. i was wondering if i pull out soon enough and im using a condom if that would decrease the chances, even tho theres the pre cuming thing? and i was also wondering if there are any other precautions we could take besides for birth control?
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There are so many things that coulld happen.
And sex just doesnt change the relationship,
it changes everything,
including how you'll feel after.
Guilty,anxious, etc you know.
Its a big deal.
Just ask youself this,
are you ready to have and take care of a baby?
Because thats the only time you'll be ready for sex.
Because its a risk that could happen.
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There's this stuff at Wal-Mart on the condom isle, I beleive it's called Eva Care or something like that. Anyways, She would take it and depoist it into her vagina prior to having sex and if you cum inside her, it's supposed to kill all the sperm. (It's like $5.00 and there is NO age limit to buying it)
Another thing to do, Is make sure she's not Ovulating. If she is, it can triple her chances of getting pregnant! Here's a website for her. She puts in the date of her last period and when it ended and it will tell you when she is ovulating so you know to steer cleer of those dates.
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pull out early doesn't really decrease your chances of getting pregnant.. condoms and birthcontrol are the only good way to try to prevent pregnancy besides not having sex at all. If you are truelly worried visit a place like planned parenthood they can really help you out
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Sex is risky. Period. It just is.
There is no such thing as 100% safe sex. If your girlfriend isn't ready to accept those risks and enjoy herself anyways, then I'm sorry to say she isn't ready to have sex.
But your birth control plans are solid: Condoms are reasonably reliable used correctly (google 'how to put on a condom', learn it by heart, practice.) Pulling out might make her feel better, although it won't really decrease the risk much.
Birth control is, of course, a bit more reliable then condoms. Using both birth control and condoms, even more reliable.
Study the form of birth control you are going to use, and make sure you use it correctly. That's really all the reasonable precautions you can take. After that, you simply have to be mature enough to accept the inherent risk in the sexual act.
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I know this might sound corny but it makes sense....the feelings you have about sex is very important, you have to be both physically and mentally ready, and thats both of you. She sounds unsure and you sound worried, those are not feelings that should go into having sex. Yes, that should be a concern of every person, however, its supposed to be a beautiful thing, oh yeah, and pulling ut right b4 u ejacualte isnt going to prevent her from getting pregnant, all it takes is one egg and one sperm, thats it. If you are completely set onhaving sex, then then there is a diaphram ( a female condom) there is a pill, a patch and you can always be ghetto and layer the condoms 2-3-4 times over. But make sure you are ready. Other precations is getting tested, uless you are both virgins, then I honestly think that both people should be sexually responsible by getting checked.
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It honestly doesn't sound like you two are ready to have sex. She's obviously scared, & you definitely have some questions that need answered. You should probably wait until you're more comfortable with the situation. [:
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If you use a condom , don't get the kind ultra thin. Yes, if you use a condom && pull out it is better then not pulling out and using the condom. hope i help'd. & don't just say o we are going to have sex. You need to think about it. Most people regret loosing their virginty , [ like me ] .
♥ Kayla
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