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Uhh. Maybe.


Question Posted Thursday August 10 2006, 12:39 pm

Hello. I'm very nervous. Okay well me and my boyfriend have sex now. I'm 14 and he's 16, and he popped my cherry. We usually have sex, alot. We sometimes don't do it with protection. He pulls it out though. I'm just extremly worried. My period always changes though. It rotates, like some months I get it at the beginning of the month, and some twords the very end. Last month I got it at the beginning so I figured I would this month, I haven't. I'm scared, but I don't know what to do. I've been getting cramps, like you do from the period. Uhh, do you think I could be pregnant? What should I do!!!! Thankss. (=

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KristinaMariexo answered Friday August 25 2006, 1:26 pm:
Your 14 going into high school and you already have your cherry popped! thats not good! and your not using protection!! do you know what your getting yourself into? this is some Jerry Springer shit right here! hes fucking 16 get over this guy or have protection!! you really don`t wanna have a baby, my friend has one and trust me her life is shit!! does your parents know about this? really you should take a pregnants test to be safe!!

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UHOHxOMFG answered Thursday August 10 2006, 8:59 pm:
hey brittt :]
hm well i would take a pregnancy test before you start worrying. i think you need to lay back on the sex for awhile. & ask your mom for the pill. im sure she would rather get that for you then to have to pay for your child. but i doubt your pregnant. you really shouldnt be having sex at this age anyways. but before you start worrying wait a few more days & if you dont get your period take the test. i recommend that you & matt keep your pants on for awhile though. ilahyou<3

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merecedesxlove answered Thursday August 10 2006, 7:26 pm:
Hmmm...14.Dont you think thats a little too young??Well first of all I'd take a home pregnacy test before you start getting worked up about it.Stress like that could cause your period to be really late.You should also use protection also id advise you to stick to condoms or at least see your doctor and start on th pill.

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Emaho answered Thursday August 10 2006, 6:17 pm:
Ok, first off I'd like to warn you that the "pulling out" method does not work. Because there is such a thing as "pre-cum" which can get you pregnant. Anyways, it's possible that you could be pregnant. Because signs of pregnancy are the same as signs of PMS. But, don't get too stressed over it. You might want to consider going on birth control, which you can get without a parent at your local Planned Parenthood. Hope I helped!
<3 Em

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Bestfriendswithimforever answered Thursday August 10 2006, 3:22 pm:
wow your 14, but dont panic, u obviously have a regularly irregular period, so you dont know exactly whether your pregnant. Hopefully your not, but maybe you should secretly get a pregnancy test. Honestly maybe this is a sign that you should either give sex a break for awhile, or you should be alot more sexually resonsible....Just be careful,...ure really young for a child

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xojessii answered Thursday August 10 2006, 2:46 pm:
You could just have an irregular period. Lots of girls do. Don't worry. Use protection, you don't want to get an STD or get pregnant, especially at 14. So if you guys are going to have sex, don't unless you guys have a condom.

i hope i helped =]
Jess

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karenR answered Thursday August 10 2006, 2:31 pm:
Using the pull out method is a sure fire way to get
pregnant. According to this article 25% of teens using this method will become pregnant the first month and 85% within the first year.

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You need a new rule to protect yourself. No condom =
no sex. The boyfriend can't afford a condom he sure can't afford to support a child. He can walk off if you get pregnant you have to deal with the consequences. So you need to say no to unprotected sex and take care of your own future. :)

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