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how do i start something?
well, theres this one guy named James and i have liked him for a while but nothing serious because i barely know him. once i talked to him but it was kind of a while ago. well school is starting and i found out from one my friends that him and i have a class together this year. i'm really excited but how do i get us to start talking?
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To strike a convo. just simply start by saying hey. He obviously has to answer you, right? Well, then you could ask him about his summer, or what he thinks about the class you two are in together, whenever yo can`t think of anything else to talk about, you should know right then, that that`s all you need to say. In the halls wave, or smile. Every day in class, come with something to talk to him about -- just try not to repeat things. Be sure of yourself . <3
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First of all, be confident when you talk to him. Boys love confidence. Instant messaging is a good way to start talking. It's a lot less nerve racking than talking face to face. When school starts, try to get a seat next to him. You'll be more likely to get to know each other. [:
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See if he has instant messanger. If he does then get him screen name magically and talk to him on there. Most likely he's gonna be like, "who the heck are you?" when you IM him but just go, "(Your name). Im in your (whatever class it is that you to have together) class." and he'll be like, "oh! hey" and then say, "sooo do you like the teacher you have now?" and you'll figure it out from there. But as soon as he responds don't freak out and go OH MY GOD!! AHHH IT'S TAKING ME OVER 5 SECONDS TO TYPE THIS TO HIM!! AHHHHH HE'S GOING TO SIGN OFF! Just count to 10-20 and then respond. Make it sound like you have other people to talk to instead of sounding like an obsessed stalker. Or you could simply try flirting. It's MAGICAL.
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The easiest way to start talking to him, is to find a mutual friend to either re-introduce you or put in a good word for you. if that's not possible. then the easiest way is to just say hey. or get his email and start chatting with him, and then by school time, you'll atleast know eachother a bit more. But if you can't get his email, and you have to wait til you two have a class together, then find a mutual subject you both can talk about. like "wow, I can't believe we have a test in this class already" or simply try to get a desk as close to him as possible. Start off as friends, and see how things progress from there. try to find out things he's interested so you can have a solid ground to spark up a conversation with him. I hope this helped a little. good luck with everything.
* B e c k y <33
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