Gender: Female
Occupation: student =]
AIM: lainx09
Member Since: June 12, 2006
Answers: 15
Last Update: July 31, 2006
Visitors: 1748
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How old do you have to be to get your lip pierced in the state of PA without parental consent? Thanks. (link)
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you have to be 18 years or older.
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I don't feel the same way about my boyfriend anymore. In fact, I feel that its time that we ended our relationship. There seems to be a catch, however. We haven't seen each other much this summer, but we do talk on the phone almost every night. I don't know if its appropriate to end the relationship now, or wait a couple of weeks until school starts and we see each other every day again. What should I do? Wait it out, or say whats on my mind? (link)
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i know how you feel.. ive been there && done that. if you dont feel the same anymore you dont feel that way. you cant help it. summer is a difficult time in the relationship part. you should really tell him. maybe he is feelin the same way? you dont know just ask him to come over && just talk. thats how it went for me. me && him were both feelin the same way but i thought it needed to end.. so i asked if i could go to his house && talk just me and him.. and i found out he felt the same way.. so i think you should just talk to him at first && if he feels the same way then you should end it.. but you cant help how you feel.. if you dont want to be with him anymore just end it.
Laina
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I`m 15/f and im inlove with a 19 year old. It`s not that much of a difference but some people think it is. My parents wont let me see him because of his criminal record / past with drugs. What should I do? How can i find ways to be able to see him?
Ive never felt so special in my life and im so happy when im with him. sometimes when im in the car with my parents I start crying cause they dont understand how much i love him and they dont care.
how can i sneak around and find ways to see him please help me! (link)
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ok.. i am dealin with the same problem.. but the guy im involved with has a bad past as like a man whore.. && my mom doesnt like me being around him if there is some one else.. if you tell your parents that you are going to hang out with a bunch of friends.. && actually go to one that lives sort of close to him && go see him..
my mom does it to me all the time.. && the kid im involved with lives right across the street.. so i always say his mom is home or the person who lives there... so yea just say you are chillin w/ a group of people. and if that doesnt work tell her that you are starting to grow up && his past is in the past.. if he has changed then thats good. =]..
hope i helped =]
--Laina
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Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do? (link)
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you should always go for a chance.. you will always regret not going for it or not takin the chance.. if you really like her then you should tell her how you feel... the only thing you can do is just try it out.. if you dont then you wont ever know if she feels about you.. what if she feels the same way about you?? then you will feel worse because you never did anything about it..
--Laina
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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live. (link)
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ok.. thats not a good thing.. you shouldnt feel like wanting to commit suicide.. yea you have some good day but you also have a lot of bad days.. you cant let that get you.. you have to think that there are other people in the world who have worse things in there life that might be a lot worse than yours.. but they have to deal with it && cant get out of it.. you might not have that much wrong in your life... you could just think that b/c something went wrong.. life isnt that long.. just live for yourself && no one else.. relax dont think you want to kill yourself.. because most people who say that will && i think you just had a few bad days... just let them roll off your back && relax... just think about something that makes you happy.. everyone has those days where they want to kill themselves.. i have had those days && you dont see me dead.. trust me i've had a lot of those days recently.. dont do anything dramatic... && i'm pretty sure that a lot of people would miss you if you killed yourself. && a lot of people would have lost a special person... you are special to someone.. just wait.. let it blow over...
--Laina
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Hey, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I wasn't sure what to put it in.
Well, to start things off, I'm very self conscious. I think I am fat & ugly & just not a cool person.
Last night, I was at the pool & I was wearing a bikini. There were two of my guy friends there & one of my girl friends. I started feeling really self-conscious & I sat on the step of the pool [still in the water] hugging my knees. My two guy friends asked my friend what was wrong with me, so she came over & talked to me. They found out that I thought that I was fat & started rambling on about how I wasn't fat & how if I was any skinnier that I'd be anorexic...etc. It helped a bit but I still feel so self-conscious.
Now, for the guys on this site, do ya'll think really confident girls are attractive? or the more humble quiet ones?
& How do i get to feeling better about myself? I hate being the party pooper when it comes to swimming & such. Anyone got any good advice?
I rate high for thought-out answers. (link)
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ok.. i feel the same way.. when people ask my weight i get self concious too. i only weigh roughly around 100 lbs && im 5' 7". but then people make me feel worse because they complain about their weight when they are about not even 10 pounds heavier then me.. but for the guy thing just relax. if you can wear a bikini && look good in it then you are fine. just dont only try to impress everyone else.. just do it for your self. dont think you are fat. when people tell you you arent fat then you really arent. trust me.. i know.. i still think im fat but im getting over that && not thinkin that anymore. i had a friend help me out too. just look in the mirror and what do you see? you might see someone fat but then look at some people who are bigger than you.. you might think you are fat or big but dont think that. if you can see your ribs then you will be anorexic.. which i practically am but not... just dont starve yourself thats the worst thing to do to yourself.
--Laina
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heres my situation..i been wit my bf for like ever and now all of a sudden his ex has been startin shit wit me..posting blogs on myspace about me callin me a stalker and all and writin stuff everywhere online about me and textin my bf and stuff all the time tryin to get bak wit him and he tells her to stop all the time and then after that she comes and starts crap wit me..i jus duno what to do and she told me now that he was wit her on saturday and the only thing is my bf wasnt wit me til saturday nite so im not sure..he told me he saw her on saturday but only to pay bak sum money he borrowed from her and thats how she knows i wasnt wit him and shes jus sayin that to start crap wit me but i am jus so unsure who to believe anymore..she runs to my bf and tells him im startin wit her and then he comes to me tellin me what she said and all and then i defend myself of course and he believes me kinda i guess and then she starts again..i jus duno if i should believe her or him..i kno it sounds badd but i think no matter what he does to me i cant let him go..hes amazing and i jus wish he would tell me the truth..unless he already has..im so unsure nemore..i duno if he cheated or not..so unsure..what do u think?..if u wanna kno more jus tell me and ill tell you nething you wanna kno..i just need advice though..this is tearing me up and its not like i dont trust him because i do but still when she says stuff to me it makes me think..i been hurt real badd before by sum1 and im not tryin to go through it again.. (link)
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i think yoou should just ignore her. and she just wants to make you mad at your b/f so she can get back with him. just dont believe her && believe what your b/f says... dont let anything go to your head tho about what she says. you will be okay..
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 11 months. We are together almost everyday. My problem is, I hate when we aren't together. When he can't hang out, I get really upset and I like, minupulate him to come see me. I don't know what is wrong with me! I can never give him space. I feel bad and I try to change but I can't. How should I stop? Does anyone else have this problem? By the way- I would hang out with my friends but they are gone away for the summer. (link)
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try not to hang out with him every day.. go do stuff with like your family like your cousins.. or someone around your age.. go to parties.. just be you.. if you are a teenager dont get so attached.. and relax.. all your friends are gone? you must have some friend that is still there that you could hang out with on some days..
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i keep trying to make this boy jelous so he will like me more...sometimes i feel he doesnt like me even tho he really does. should i keep trying to make him jelous..help me out!! (link)
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if he thinks you are tryin to make him jealous he will most likely try to make you jealous as well.. or he will end up not likin you cuz you are doing that to him.. so try not to make him jealous... guys dont like when girls make them jealous.. trust me i found out the hard way...
--Laina
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I'm doing this for my friend!!!
Name :: Toria
Age :: 14
Prep? Goth? Athletic? Etc.. :: Prep/gangster.
Any Nicknames :: no
Words you like :: rawr and any others
Do you want your name in your SN :: sure
Love sn? (ex : iiTHiiNKY0URMiiNE) :: sure
Words like BABii - SWEETiiE - etc / yes or no :: i prefer not.
Hair color :: brunette
Eye Color :: blue
Single / Taken :: single
Fav. Singer/Band :: panic! at the disco
Type of Music :: rap
Fav. Song :: i have a lot
Fav. Color :: pink and green
Anything else?? :: i mostly like love screen names and ones with my name in it! (link)
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i got some other questions for you... then ill think of one..
graduatin year:
like the name tori((sort of liek a nickname)):
do you like x's in your sn?:
xXRaWrToRiAXx
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Hey, I really want to get my ears double pierced but I'm really scared it'll hurt and I'll cry lol. I was about 7ish when I got them pierced for the first time and I cired. And my friend says it doesn't hurt, pintching your ear hurts more then piercing it. So basically does it hurt??
WILL RATE? (link)
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i haev my ears triple pierced... && i have my cartlidge pierced... && i got the first one done when i was 4 2nd ione when i was 8 third one when i was 12 && cartlidge done at 12..and they dont hurt.. they only one i cried for was my 1st one..
--Laina
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How long dose it take for a girl to show signs of pregnancy? (link)
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when your next period is supose to be.. && you miss it.. wait until you are supose to have your period && if a week or two you dont get it then buy a pregnacy test.. && how old are you??
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I already have my ears pierced but now I want a second hole. My moms not really AGAINST the whole idea, but she kind of thinks it's dirty looking. It's only one more hole though, It's NOT like I want earrings all down my ears. How can I explain that getting one extra hole through your ear isn't dirty looking or punkish. I'll rate. (link)
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i have 3 holes in each ear.. then i have my cartlidge pierced too.. just as long as you dont have large huge hoops you dont really look like a skank or anything bad... and for me having 3 holes it doesnt look dirty lookin or punkish unless i wear huge hoops .. but just say you will normally wear studs or something small. && you will look cute && not like a dirty whore or punkish...
--Laina
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ok recently, my relationship with my mom has gone pretty much down the tubes.... it always seems like ive done something wrong or shes just mad at me idk... i am pretty moody a lot and i get mad and storm off and then when i come back shes like giving me the silent treatment... its annoying me and whenever im in a good mood, she just like looks all sad which makes me mad.. idk its strange but is there anything that i can do??
13/f btw...
thanks (link)
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if i know anything about this... all i say is if you guys get to fightin dont fight bad.. all that does is get you into more trouble && you get into fighting and it all gets out of hand... just relax && yea thats what moms are supose to do.. get you mad && sad when you are in the best moods.. your mom might be havin a bad day or she could be hurtin.. or somethign like that.. give her a break.... you are a teen so you will have attitude but just relax...
trust me.. im 15/f && i got into a fight with my mom over the same thing this past weekend && i ended up with a fat lip.. so just relax a little.. thats what i got to say...
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kay so theres this boy i like. He knows I like him and people say by the way he talks to me you can tell he likes me too.
The thing is I dont know what to do...What should I do? Does anyone have ideas? (link)
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you should first just hang out with him.. dont try to rush into things... if you rush into things they always tend to get worse.. just take it slow at first.. by hanging out with him and just chillin with each other.. hang out in groups && just have.. dont believe what everone says about him liking you.. cuz sometimes they are just sayin it to make you look like a fool && go after him.. && look like an idiot.. so just hang out with him get to know each other before you get to involved...
-- lain
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