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Is it the right time?
I don't feel the same way about my boyfriend anymore. In fact, I feel that its time that we ended our relationship. There seems to be a catch, however. We haven't seen each other much this summer, but we do talk on the phone almost every night. I don't know if its appropriate to end the relationship now, or wait a couple of weeks until school starts and we see each other every day again. What should I do? Wait it out, or say whats on my mind?
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even though its kinda lame to do it over the phone i would let it all out over the phone because it will just hurt your boyfriend even more if he found out that you kept going out with him when you didnt have the same feelings for him anymore
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if i were you i would say what is on your mind because you dont want to waste your time on someone you dont like anymore!!!
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I had this same problem and I decided that it was only hurting him and me to stay in the relationship. You should say how you feel, so both you and this boy can find someone more suited for them. It might be hard to do, but my philosophy is, you have to do it sooner or later, unless u wanna end up married to this guy. That usually makes me want to end it as soon as possible. It is very common to fall out of love, it happens all the time. It might be hard, but dont feel guilty you have the right to change your mind. Hope I helped sweetie, much luv xoxo
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If one must pull a tooth, it is mistaken kindness to do it slowly.
End it now. Start off the school year with a clean slate. But tell him in person, not over the phone. It'll probably be harder that way, but it's more respectful. And who knows? Maybe he's ready to end it too.
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u should tell him now dont lead him on keep him thinking you like him and stuff next time you see him tell him but if you cant see him soon do it over the phonne.
-angie
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Tell him now. It would be unkind of you to string him along for the next few weeks. It might seem inappropriate to end it over the phone but if that is your only way to connect at the moment, it'll have to do.
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if you feel as if it should end but you have a feeling that you shouldnt end it wait it out a little longer. until your sure that you want to end it because of not being able to see each other. good luck
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i know how you feel.. ive been there && done that. if you dont feel the same anymore you dont feel that way. you cant help it. summer is a difficult time in the relationship part. you should really tell him. maybe he is feelin the same way? you dont know just ask him to come over && just talk. thats how it went for me. me && him were both feelin the same way but i thought it needed to end.. so i asked if i could go to his house && talk just me and him.. and i found out he felt the same way.. so i think you should just talk to him at first && if he feels the same way then you should end it.. but you cant help how you feel.. if you dont want to be with him anymore just end it.
Laina
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hey, well what i would do is say something to him like this. "we never really see each other and because of it i dont really feel the way i used to about you, so i dont think that our relationship should go on if we cant see each other". then let him comment. i did this jsut last night, my boyfriend said i will see you every second that i can. so depending on the comment make your decision.
-caitt<3
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I would wait it out.til u guys see each other again everyday. but also u should tell him you want to see him over the summer as well..but if you really think its goin to work when school starts bak up..stick wit it til then. and maybe your mind will change.
good luck
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If you think that your relationship will get better when your school starts again, i would definetely wait until about 1 1/2 weeks after it starts to make your decisions
OK i got a 4 cuz i didn't say the same thing as everyone else, and you didn't hear what you wanted to hear. If you rate me a 4, please tell me what i did to not deserve a 5.
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