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Hey im a girl who expects everyone to give to me. i love giving advice..and also i like to recieve it in the right situations. i love to help the people who are in need. in fact wen i am older i plan on being a teenage pshycologist. i am also a very shy girl wen i dont know you, but when i get to know you, i open up and will speak greatly to you. i have gone through sum issues jus like ne body else. i have survived them issues and still standing strong and working hard to never have them again. I would except any subject or ne question, i love to help but hopin to actually help you. there may be times where i dont kno wat to say but later on i will. i will try to answer those questions to my fullest. if you would like any advice please dont hesitate to ask them.

advice

this is about tampons.

i should be ending my period in like 2 days,

for school can i still wear a tampon is my flow is light?

will anything happen if there isn't much blood for the tampon


i need to know qwuickly!!

tahnks soooo much

I dont think anything will happen to you, except the fact that when you take the tampon out it might hurt alittle bit becuase there isnt enough blood on it. but nothing serious. just still dont keep it in for a long period of time. i still put tampons in on my last couple days but it can also possibly make the flow stay.

well good luck

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i'm giong out with this guy and he is always alot diffrent when he is around his friends. he always ignores me and doesnt hang out with me, what do i do...or say to him?

Confront your man and ask him why he ignores you and treatrs you different when he is around frineds. cuz seriously thats not right. If there is a specific reason like he dont want to show he into you while around frineds, you need to get rid of tht jerk. but if its other reasons jus talk and try to figure out whats going on. i hope i helped a lil and goood luck.

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Judi my friend. is avoiding me. I don't know why. What do I do?

--Confused In Maryland

I would talk to her and ask her why she is avoiding you. thats the best way. i dont think its right that she is avoiding you and not telling you why. try to confront her about it and ask her why. hopefully she will tell you wats bothering her.

good luck.. :)

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hey.
iam 17 years old. i had sex with a 22 years old ladie,actually she's a college student.
the sex was so fun and she likes me so much, but i heard thats that against law.
so wat u advise me to do:
to abort this relation or continue in secret
and if we were catch who will get in trouble her or me?
tanx for help.

it is against the law becuz you are a minor still. maybe you should "abort" the relationship til your 18, or keep in ssecret til your 18 and tell. really the only way there would be a problem is if your parents found out and had a huge problem with it. but if you were caught, she would be the one who gets in trouble for "rape"

good luck

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what is the best black pencle eyeliner out there??
i want eyeliner that goes on smooth help!!

the eyeliner i find to help me really well and goes on smooth and stays on, is nyc eyeliner..it works really well...on me

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hey
my name is justin, iam almost 18, actually iam 17 years old plus 7 month.
i live in new york.
i was woundering wats the legal age in the us to have sex, and am i free to buy condoms?
tanx for help, and i really appreciate.
reply soon.
Justin

there is no legal age to have sex, unless its with a minor. anyone is free to have it. and there is no specific age to buy comdoms, well maybe real young but im sure you are fine to get sum and not get in trouble. your plenty old enough

goood luck hoped i helped sumwhat

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If you dont have sex for a long time can your hymen grow back? If so how long would it take?Because I didnt have sex for 1 year and when i did i bled like my hymen broke and i was really sore and swollen for about 2 days and then after that my period came straight on for 1 week.

no your hymen will never grow back.

and the week thing is your cycle you may have an irregular one.

hope i helped

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So today was my first day of sophmore year and I woke up with a gigantic white head. Yesterday I kinda squeezed it, so hopefully I thought there would be no ugly white center. Sadly today there it was. Larger, reder and more noticeable ever. And I saw the boy i liked and waved, but I feel like people are only staring at my nose! How can I possibly get the redness to go down so its not noticable.

You could not pick at it becuz tht will only make it not get redder but also bigger. and you dont want that. and then if you have some, put cover up on it during school to hide the redness and at night put sum pimple or acne stuff on it so it can get rid of it.

hope i helped.

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Like what would happen if i overdosed on pills . like on purpose.. wha would actually happen to me ? Like would i die right away , would i pass out , be weak get sick .. ? what ? k thanks =]

ok first off i would like to know why you would want to overdose on purpose there are many side effects.

but...its basically all of the above. depending on how many you take and if you pass out you could die if no one finds you. so its very fatal.

like i said i dont get why you would want to take pills to overdose on purpose. and it would be all that you listed dependin upon.

good luck...

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how do u get a yeast infection?

thanks

you can get a yeast infection from sex, not being clean, certain antibotics,and sometimes after your period.

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i have tried every eyeliner from waterproof to smudgeproof but it all comes off! what really works?

nyc eyeliner works really well..i use it and it stays on me all the time.

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What can I do about a runny nose?

Under my nose, is a bit raw from all the sneezing and wiping my nose. And every time my head is down, my nose gets all runny and ...makes a gross mess.

What can I do for tomorrow in school? We have essays to write and I can't keep my head up.

Is there anything I can do? I'm taking a tissue box of course but anything else?

take some medicine before bed or before school. like sudafed and waltin melt aways they work good for cold symtoms like tht

good luck

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when do you ovulate? i have a very irregular period, is it before the white stuff comes out of you or after........is after the stuff comes out then you can become pregnant really easy or before ?

im pretty sure, from health class that you ovulate 7 to 14 days after your period has ended. and i guess it depends on when you normally have the "white stuff" coming out. but thts jus discharge and its normal.

good luck hope i helped

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after you have sex do you bleed???


14/f

um the only way you bleed is if your hyman gets popped hence (cherry popped). thts basically it. and why you bleed for tht is cuz your tearing a thn line in you on the border and it makes you bleed

hope i helped...

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OK me and my friend have told eachother everything,
and secrets? never told to anyone.
So one day she asks me, Can I tell you a secret and I'm like sure, and she's like you cant tell anyone.
But one her other friends gave her two ciggartes! and I asked her "Are you gonna use it?" and she's like I dont know. But you have to do it with me. she said and I didnt say anything. I dont know. Shes like so will you and i said SURE!! why! I DONT KNOW! I was stupid! b/c Im not the type of person who stands up for hreself very often. I mean its just a ciggeret. it wouldent hurt me to have just one? would it??

umm well from experiene one kind of got me doing more and more. its addicting, unless you can control how many you take. but hurting you in a health way, nah i dont think it should just possibly getting addictied can affect you greatly. ive been on and off since i was 11 and im 15 almost 16 and recently quit 5 months ago and its hard. but dont get started its not worth it at all.

goood luck

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i want this jacket thats 60 dollars..how can i be able to afford it in at least a week..puh leeeessssssse help

a couple quick babysitting jobs might help during the week and maybe you can do some chorse around the house and your parents repay you. tlak to them bout that. but i dont think u can earn money less then a week doin sumtin else.

maybe you should look for a job neways so you will always have money on you.

goood luck...

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Is facial hair on a 15/m attractive or is it showing that your a some kind of beast

facial hair on a male is attractive if it is trimmed and neat. if it is trimmed and neat no one should think you are a beast. it should look goood. good luck

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I just broke up with my girlfriend because she say i lie to much.What do i do to get her back?

Well it wasnt a smart idea to break up with her over that. yea she says you lie but u could have talked to her about it unstead of breaking up with her.

but ne ways if she wants you back, show her you changed your ways, and not lie. you shouldnt be lieing to your gurl or in general, if you are. tell her how you feeel and tell her you want her back and your sry bout everything and you will change. you have to change if you want to get her back cuz she needs to know it. if you truely cared for her and want her back you would tell that you want her back and wont lie and change. hopefully she will take you back but it will take time to trust again.

hope i helped you...good luck on all..

*steph*

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How do you know if you're falling in love?
I know its supposed to be something you "just know" but honestly, .. how would I "just know?" Is it some sort of feeling?

well it is just "something you know" there should be a feeling in your stomach like butterflies every time your around the person and know tht they make you happiest in the world. yes its basically a feeling of being loved then you start to love back. you wouldnt know what to do without the person, everytime you hear the name tht sort of stuff..like i said butterflies and you just know when your falling in love.

hope i helped.

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When you're on your period, you're supposed to be eating a lot more than you usually do, right?

You dont have to eat more. Girls just think they have to lol. iget cravings for icecream when im on mine. So every gurl will geta craving but you dont have to eat more its not like its the rules tto. Its all cravings and bloating..

good luck hope i helped sum.

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