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why do people make their beds? no one goes into your room anyway unless you have people over
and you mess your bed up when you sit on it to do stuff and when you sleep you don't want it to be all neat, really, you dont need it since itll be all messed up anyway

i NEVER MAKE MY BED i LiKE iT HOW i LEAVE iT, iT WiLL ONLY JUST GET A MESS ANYWAY! SO WHAT iF PEOPLE SEE THAT YOU DON'T MAKE YOUR BED iTS YOUR ROOM YOU CAN DO WHAT YOU WANT N HOW YOU WANT EVEN iF iT MEANS YOU DON'T MAKE YOUR BED
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13/F
Im like really loud. I don't know if its like in the annoying way, but I'm like always hyper. Even thought I don't eat things with a lot of sugar. Like I'm really friendy & I love talking to new people. I acuallly just love talking period. So yeah anyways. I don't know if I'm annoying or something. So do you guys think its annoying to meet someone new thats really loud & stuff? if you do how can i change?

iF i MEET SOMEONE LiKE YOU i WOUDN'T THiNK YOU WAS ANNOYiNG AT ALL! i MEAN YEAH iM A LOUD PERSON TOO. BUT YOU HAVE GOT TO THiNK iF YOU WAS A NEW GiRL AND SOMEONE LOUD AND SOMEONE WHO LOVED MEETiNG NEW PEOPLE LiKE YOURSELF TALKED TO THEM WHEN NONE ELSE BOTHERED TO YOU WOULD THiNK YOUR A PRETTY COOL KiD, ASK YOURSELF AM i ANNOYiNG OR BETTER STiLL ASK A HONEST CLOSE FRiEND WHO YOU WiLL NO WiLL GiVE YOU A 110% HONEST ANSWER

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I'm 13 and obviously female and this afternoon I started getting cramps. At first I thought it was just a stomach ache and maybe I ate too much, but it felt kind of different. My mom suggested that I was going to get my period soon, and I already had boobs, hair on my body, and discharge. 3 hours later, when I went to the bathroom I noticed a big dried up brownish spot on my underwear. There wasn't alot of it but it wasn't liquid. Could this be my period? I don't know because people tell me the very first time you get your period you dont have cramps and you don't get cramps until like the 2nd or 3rd time. I didn't feel any blood coming out either. Not to gross you out, but in a way it looks like dried up poop but in a really light brown color.

THiS iS PROBLEY YOUR PERiODS THE BLOOD HAS JUST DRiED UP

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Please type correctly.

okies =)

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I have this friend shes a rly good friend to me. She HAD a boyfrined for a year and then she broke up with him. Well i was frineds with him and we still are and we talk on line and stuff. But i feel like im startin to develop a crush on him. i dont kno why he was supposed to stop by my house today to jus chill, and i have no idea what im supposed to do. I like him but icant do tht to my close friend. I need help. what do ido.

FiRST OF ALL YOO HAVE GOT TO DECiDE WHO MEANS MORE TO YOO YOOR RLi GOOD FRiEND OR THiS BOY.
iF YOO ASK ME iD NEVER CHOOSE A BOii OVER MY FRiEND YOO EVER HEARD THE SAYiNG...RELETiONSHiPS MAY COME AND GO BUT FRiENDSHiPS ARE FOREVER??
YOO HAVE TO THiNK iF THiS BOii iS WORTH LOOSiNG A FRiEND OVER.

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im 17/f and i have been with my bf (17/m) for almost 6 months. we are completely in love and very serious. this was MY idea just to clear it up.
being that we are going to be so serious and before we nkow it even living together ..i figure we are still young and many people make the mistake of marrying a high school sweetheart without exploring other people. so my idea is for our 6 months we each get sexual with another person. do you know anyone who has done this? how did it work out? whenever i think about him with somenoe else its so weird! and the same for him thinking about me with someone else. this can really bring us to be a lot more open and trusting..but im also afraid i might feel hurt..thinking about another girl pleasing him and making love to him kinda gets me upset..but then i think how i will get the same thing so i feel better..i guess right now i am 50/50. what do you think about my idea..being with someone else for a day?

iT WAS YOOR iDEA TO GET SERiOUS WiTH YOOR BOYFRiEND, AND iF YOO WANT TO START CHANGiNG YOOR MiND NOW iT SHOWS YOO DONT WANT TO BE SERiOUS. THERE ARE SEVERAL WAYS WERE YOOR RELETiONSHiP COULD END UP iF YOO START GETTiNG SEXUAL WiTH ANOTHER PERSON..
YOOR BOYFRiEND WOULD REALiSE THE OTHER GiRL HES HAViNG A SEXUAL RELETiONSHiP WiTH iS BETTER iN BED THAN YOO AND DECiDES YOOR NOT WORTH iT.
OR..YOOR BOYFRiEND WiLL REALiSE YOOR HiS EVERYTHiNG AND YOOR THE ONLY GiRL 4 HiM.
iT COULD GO EiTHER WAY NONE KNOWS BUT iF i WAS YOO I WOUDNT PUT YOOR RELETiONSHiP ON THE LiNE, AS LONG AS YOO AND YOOR BOYFRiEND ARE HAPPY YOO HAVE NOTHiNG TO WORRY ABOOT =)

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I wrote a couple of days ago about the girl all over my boyfriend. Well his brothers haven't been exactly truthful. Well his one brother we'll call Scott said that this girl we'll call Linda sits beside him in church. Scott said to this Boy called Dennis to come sit with him. Linda told Scott that he was sitting her. Dennis just sat there! Also this girl Dennis "likes" Scott said that Dennis had I love such and such on his notebook. Scott said there were 7 pages of that in the notebook. I can't exactly call Dennis hes at his friends house for a week. I have to think about it unless he calls me. So what would you do? Believe his brother that has lyed to me in the past or let it go until I talk to Dennis? HELP ME PLEASE!
Mac

HEYA FiRST OF ALL YOO EVER HEARD OF THE SAYiNG...
ONCE A LiER, ALWAYS A LiER?
WHEN I READ YOOR QUESTiON iT REMiNDED ME OF THE SAYiNG. i DONT THiNK YOO SHOULD BELiEVE YOOR BOYFRiENDS BROTHER FiRST OF ALL BECAUSE HES LiED TO YOO iN THE PAST AND SECOND OF ALL MAYBE HE DOESNT WANT TO SEE HiS BROTHER HAPPY. MY BROTHER HAS BRANG GiRLFRiENDS HOME AND iD DO ANYTHiNK TO MKE THEM SPLiT UP. i THINK YOO SHOULD LET iT GO AND CONSONTRATE ON DENNiS THAT WAY ALL THE LiES WiLL GO AWAY BECAUSE YOOR HAViNG FUN =)

xKATiE-EFFx

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Hey! My boyfriend is really horny. I know, he is a guy but come on! He wants to have sex 24/7!! We haven't had sex yet. I want to but when ever he has tried to go for it there has been sort of a crowd there =/
1 st time he tried/wanted: on a buss!
2nd time he tried/wanted: outside of a metal consert up against a steel wall with peple just around the corner
3rd: on gravel right infront of a parking lot with at least 15 car wich had their light on. SPOTLIGHT!
4th: at a café!!!

Seriously, does that sound hot or just weird??
Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm a virgin and I do want to sleep with him...just not in thoose places =/
What should I do?

HOW ABOOT iNViTiNG HiM AROUND YOOR HOUSE AND START KiSSiNG iN A PLACE YOO WANT TO DO iT. NO DOUT HE WiLL GET TURNED ON AND CNT KEEP HiS HANDS OF YOO! GOOD LUCK

xKATiE-EFFx

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I usually wax my face because I have really thick facial hair. Is there any way to avoid getting whiteheads/pimples after I do it?

HAVE YOO TRiED USiNG MOSTURiSER AFTER YOO WAX?

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could you be pregnant and still have your period? or is that rare

MY FRiEND'S AUNTiE STiLL HAD HER PERiODS WHEN SHE WAS PREGNET THE REASON FOR THiS iS BECAUSE THE BABY WAS SO LiGHT iN HER WOMB..BUT iT iS PRETTY RARE

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