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Guy = honry! = annoying!!


Question Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 6:27 am

Hey! My boyfriend is really horny. I know, he is a guy but come on! He wants to have sex 24/7!! We haven't had sex yet. I want to but when ever he has tried to go for it there has been sort of a crowd there =/
1 st time he tried/wanted: on a buss!
2nd time he tried/wanted: outside of a metal consert up against a steel wall with peple just around the corner
3rd: on gravel right infront of a parking lot with at least 15 car wich had their light on. SPOTLIGHT!
4th: at a café!!!

Seriously, does that sound hot or just weird??
Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm a virgin and I do want to sleep with him...just not in thoose places =/
What should I do?


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contradictionn answered Thursday July 27 2006, 8:42 pm:
well, he's obviously into getting it on in public.
I guess he likes the thrill of a possiblity of getting caught.

If you're ready to have sex with him, than I really think you should be able to talk to him about it
so, you can tell him that that's just not what you're into.
a compromise might be having sex in your room but infront of a window or something.

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lostxlustx151 answered Thursday July 27 2006, 4:20 pm:
I yi yi. I'm sorry I found this very funny, but I'll answer it seriously.

Anyways I guess you can say some of these places are sort of weird, but don't worry I heard weirder. Who knows his fantasy is probably to have sex in public. But don't because sex is illegal in public :]

Maybe you should tell him "yes, you want to sleep with him" just explain that you don't want to do it where everyone and their grandmother's can see it going on. Just tell him you would rather keep it in the privacy of your own home or something.

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Hrcoole answered Thursday July 27 2006, 2:05 pm:
This guy does seem pretty horny, so your not a virgin? and you do want to have sex with him just not in the places you described. did i get this right? ok, well then tell him what you told here. you want to have sex with him just not where he wants to have it. he sounds like a teen boy who has very intresting ideas. the reason for him wanting to have sex in these places are because of the exitment of getting caught, or just being watched. it excites him. but if you don't want to do it in the places he wants then you should tell him. but, if you are going to have a sexual life with this guy you must understand that both of your "desiers" come together. in other words you have to compermise. do kinda what he wants "in a public place" but not intirely public, talk to him and see if you can both decide what to do. the thing to a relationship is commincation. hope this helps.

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jamziix16 answered Thursday July 27 2006, 11:50 am:
That does sound a bit weird to me. Tell him that you don't want to do it in those kind of places. That's called PDA. Tell him you want to do it when you guys are alone. If he really wants to have sex with you, he should understand.

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lalalovely17 answered Thursday July 27 2006, 11:49 am:
some guys just think it's hotter to have sex where people can see you. but if you don't want to bring him to a place that you want to and then it will happen if he wants it that bad lol.

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xKATiE-EFFx answered Thursday July 27 2006, 11:47 am:
HOW ABOOT iNViTiNG HiM AROUND YOOR HOUSE AND START KiSSiNG iN A PLACE YOO WANT TO DO iT. NO DOUT HE WiLL GET TURNED ON AND CNT KEEP HiS HANDS OF YOO! GOOD LUCK

xKATiE-EFFx

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sweetjewel answered Thursday July 27 2006, 10:57 am:
thats deff weird. i hope he not using you to get sex b.c it sounds like its all he thinks about

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Exquisitechick answered Thursday July 27 2006, 7:24 am:
Well, he seems like a pig. [no affence]

But, if you wanna have sex with him. Invite him over and he'll be bound to try and just go with it.

good luck

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