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What's wrong with me?!?
Whenever I'm not with my boyfriend I'm happy. And when I'm on my way to see him I think to my self "why didn't I cancel? Why am I going to see him. I don't want to see him!"
But when I do meet him and when I'm with him, I like it and I want to be with him. But then When I have to go I get happy for leaving him!
What's that all about?? Don't I like him? Is it somethig wrong with me??
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ohgod I had that problem with my last boyfriend.
we're taking a break right now
and it's nice to see eachother as friends
& we're going to get backtogether probably in a few weeks.
I think a break or just breaking up in general is a good idea.
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ok something is obvisly missing in this relationship. you say that when you are with him you are happy, but also when you are away from him you are happy too. but when you go to see him on your way to him your saying you don't want to see him? did i get that correct? i think he needs to come and see you. if you are always going to see him that is a problem, if he never comes to see you. and subconcisly your mind is saying that it's not fair, if he wants to spend time with me he should come and see me. it should be a 50 50 thing not 100 to nothen. i think he needs to make some effort in the relationship, because from what i am getting your doing all the effort. call him up and tell him you would like him to come over and hang out, watch a movie or something. if you love spending time with him that's a good sign, and when you are not with him then you are happy too. so that is a healthy relationship. it's just the getting to him that is what is bothering you, as far as i can see. so i hope this helps and good luck. :)
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He might not be the guy for you. And that's fine. Or you might not be sure if you want to be with him or not yet. Most people I know love to see their boyfriends & never want to go home! But you're normal, yes. It could just be nerves (if you've recently started dating). Just try to make the converstaion/whatever you do when you see him more fun, haha. So you'll feel like you want to stay & want to come over next time!
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Your having mixed feelings for him. Trust me I do the same thing sometimes. It could just be that your not ready for a relationship. Or you just don't like him. Just tell him what you think of your guys relationship.
Hope everything works out!~!~
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Hmm...
This is a really tough question... even for me. It seems to me that you don't really know what you want yet. You're having mixed emotions. This is normal. I'm the same way sometimes, with my boyfriend.
It's the feeling of insecurity. Maybe you like SOME things about him but OTHER things bother you a little bit.
Here, think of it this way: Write down all the things you would change about him and all the things you love about him.
See which column has more, likes or dislikes.
If you have more likes, then you'll be able to work everything out and stay with him for a while... I hope! =-]
If you have more DISLIKES, you should probably talk to him about it. Not about him changing ((I don't mean to be blunt)) but about breaking it off...
Maybe just spending some time being single and then consider rekindling everything after thinking a little bit about what you want to do.
You cannot have a relationship where you feel insecure or unsteady in any way.
Your relationship should be steady and healthy and I guarentee you will be happy! =-]
I hope I helped you and if I did, you can ask me ANYTHING ANYTIME! I'm always here! :-)
♥ Kayla
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Sweetie, there's nothing wrong with you! don't ever think that! What i think is, sub concienly ((whoops, bad speller!)) that you're feeling regrets or you just don't like him anymore. If you keep feeling this way, I think you should break up with him, because it's going to hurt you more if you stay with him. =] Good luck!
♥Paige
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